BLISS WARRIOR IS TAKING A VACATION
Written by Miss Bliss on August 15, 2008 – 1:28 pm -Dearest Readers,
Thank you so much for all of your support since Bliss Warrior began in February of 2007. When I first began the blog, I thought it would be primarily for straight women - a Bi-Girl’s take on love, life, beauty and health. I was more surprised than anyone, when it was bi-girls who started reading, writing, and supporting the work.
I also did not expect this blog to be a launching pad for bisexual organizing and empowerment. Thank you to all the leaders who have started hosting Bliss Brunches across the county and who are planning on making a big Bliss splash at next year’s Pride Events. All of you amaze me and keep me working.
A special thank you to Jungle Jane for encouraging me to build a website for bisexual women to meet others for friendship, community and flirtatious fun. I would have never taken on such a huge project without you. Jungle Jane is also the one who discovered our wonderful programmer, Christian, and I thank him, too, for making the Hotel a live, working, incredible community.
And, of course, I must thank all of the incredible bisexual women I have met across the country and online in the last year and a half. Bisexual women are finally coming out and finding one another. Thank you all for the emails you send expressing how delighted you are to have met bi-girl friends. Thank you to all the testers of Hotel Bliss who are helping create a supportive, fun and safe culture for bi-women to be their wonderful selves. Being bisexual is beautiful and I am so happy we are creating community that celebrates that fact.
But, after a year and a half of writing, programming, organizing, and promoting, I am tired. I desperately need a vacation away from my laptop. So I am taking the rest of August off to have a little break. The Bliss Warrior blog will return in September.
Obviously, Hotel Bliss will remain open while I am away. Jungle Jane will be monitoring membership applications and will be there if you have any technical problems. You can email her at the Hotel by visiting her hotel room: http://hotel.blisswarrior.com/junglejane.
The Hotel Bliss Boutique will also stay open and if you have any questions about becoming a seller or buying a product, please visit Christian at his hotel room at: http://hotel.blisswarrior.com/christian.
So, thank you all for making the little b in LGBT get a little bigger…
I love you all so much!
XOXOXOXOXOOX
BLISS WARRIOR
Posted in BLISSWARRIOR NEWS, HOTEL BLISS, Uncategorized |
TREEROTICA
Written by Miss Bliss on August 13, 2008 – 11:55 am -While Mr.Bliss and I walked around our neighborhood in Hollywood, we found this tree…
Nature can be so very naughty, just like my favorite Bliss Warriors…
Have any nature stories for me? Comment here.
XOOXXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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AND THEN THERE WERE TWO - Chapter Four - The Taste of Tingles
Written by V. on August 12, 2008 – 6:32 am -Dearest Readers, Our guest blogger, V., returns with Chapter Four of her serialized true-story, And Then There Were Two. Violet describes the relationship she had with her man and the female lover he introduced her to. XOOXXOXO BLISS WARRIOR
Missed the first chapters in the story? AND THEN THERE WERE TWO: Chapter One, Chapter Two and Chapter Three
I have a tendency to forget the endings of things…books, movies, TV shows. This is a strange inherited trait from my mother. On one level, I think it is a trick of the mind so that I can re-visit things time and again which I love or find moving and still experience an element of surprise. But also, I have learned that for as much as my analytical brain determines so much of my day to day existence that when I become involved with something driven by or experienced through the heart and body, it all resonates in a sensory realm. I can’t quote poetry or passages of a play or half the time remember the author of a favorite book not because of a lack of care, quite the opposite; because whatever it is has shifted my emotions around leaving an imprint on my heart.
The same is true with people. Certain specific details remain but after a meaningful exchange, I am left not with what travels through the concrete mind but rather the sensations and emotions carried, held close and dear within in my body. While my past experiences were varied and absolutely always from my heart, I knew I was entering into a different space. This romance, this exchange, this path, would continue beyond the immediate opportunity of the present evening. In spite of the true totality of love I felt for Louis in every dark and light cavern within my being…I had a life, even if small or brief, a life none-the-less to live with this woman.
For as much as Gemma and I were a sparking roller coaster of word-play and conversation when she joined Louis and I for dinner — or while sitting on the wicker bench of Marcus’ garden — or even with Marcus when he arrived home that night — as soon as the bedroom door closed behind me, words lost their place. There simply wasn’t room for them. Only the sounds of an old house settling in for the night, the wind tickling leaves outside, and the whisper of clothes slipping from our bodies floated around the room.
When I think of that first night with Gemma, it comes in flashes much like a succession of cut-aways in a film. When I stop for a moment, I can still smell her skin, taste the last of the red wine on her tongue, or feel the trail of tingles the entire length of my spine left by her fingers. My right cheek will still glow with the warmth from her inner thigh. The nape of my neck shivers at the flash of her palm slowly gliding along my back until her fingers playfully curled themselves around locks of my hair. Goosebumps prick my flesh with the memory my belly carries of Gemma’s eyelashes fluttering across my skin as she sprinkled kisses over my tummy…
Our rhythm moved us through the hours that night in true grace. Women are bold, unafraid, do not shy away from and seem to inherently understand the joy and thrill found in slowness. This is not to say that a fierce, quick taking of the body doesn’t have an important place within the scheme of things- of course it does. But, with her body, Gemma listened to mine and we took our time to understand that conversation, a conversation that grew more excited and intense with each new discovery, each new taste. Ours was not a goal motivated experience. The passion, the desire was deepened by the willingness to explore and sink below the waves in order to exist in the roaring quiet of how I, Violet, and she, Gemma, were waking up the other’s beating body.
Waterloo appeared before me and I climbed out of the car. Even though it was only 10am, I needed a nap and Louis, Louis, Louis… would be home from his business trip the next day, weakening my knees with a kiss of tingles all his own.
XOXO
V.
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HOTEL BLISS GUESTS CAN BECOME V.’S FRIEND BY LOGGING INTO THE HOTEL AND CLICKING HERE. Want to meet other bi-girls in a private, supportive, sweet environment? CLICK HERE for a membership application to join Hotel Bliss.
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IF YOU ENJOYED READING THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY READING OTHER BLOGS POSTED BY GUEST BLOGGERS:
FROM JUNGLE JANE:
SHE DANCED INTO MY FAIRYTALE
A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER FIRST TIME - PART ONE, PART TWO, AND PART THREE
CRUSHING ON THE TAKEN GIRL: A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
A GIRL’S FIRST VIBRATOR: A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
GETTING HER NUMBER: A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
FROM GUEST BLOGGER, DAPHNE:
DATING DAPHNE: MY FIRST DATE WITH A SADO-MASOCHIST
PLAYING WITH GENDER: DAPHNE STRAPS IT ON FOR HER MAN
TIE ME UP, TIE ME DOWN: A BI-GIRL SHARES HER FIRST S&M EXPERIENCE
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Posted in BISEXUALITY, GUEST BLOGS, RELATIONSHIPS, SEX, Uncategorized, V., bi-girls, bisexual, bisexual girls, cuddling, dating girls, kissing, love affairs, lovers, undressing girls, women |
TOO YOUNG FOR MONOGAMY - Tales From the Seattle Brunch
Written by Miss Bliss on August 11, 2008 – 6:58 am -“I’m in an open relationship,” says Geneva.
Eight bisexual women have come together for brunch, community and friendship on a rare sunny day in Seattle. This is my first trip to the great state of Washington, and in the last twenty-four hours I have fallen in love with Seattle’s mountains, hills, trees, and clean sparkling air. During brunch, the city woos me even more by introducing me to seven beautiful, bright and beguiling bi-women.
“You are,” asks Sadie, the blonde with perfectly painted dark eyes. “I’m jealous.”
“How is that working out for you,” asks the tall brunette, Nicole, sitting across from me.
“Well, we were monogamous the first year we dated. I think it’s important to establish a relationship first before opening it up. But we’re both in our early twenties and we knew when we first met that we were way too young to be strictly monogamous.”
“I don’t like to share,” says Sadie. “Being with a couple is one thing, but being in a couple and bringing in another? I couldn’t do it.”
“So you both date other people separately,” I ask. “Other girls I know who are in open relationships often say the funny thing about it, is the more you date other people, the more you appreciate your relationship and the less you want to date others.”
“It’s funny you mention that,” says Geneva, looking at me with her clear, bright eyes and pretty freckled skin. “My man will meet one of the guys I am dating and he’ll tell me later, ‘That guy’s not up to your level.’ He does it in a really sweet way, too. It isn’t like he’s trying to put down the guy out of jealousy, he truly wants me to be with men who respect and appreciate me.”
“I’m jealous,” says Sadie. “I want that!”
“Well, darling, anyone as cute as you are, anytime,” Geneva says with a flirtatious smile, completely in her power.
“Me, too,” says Nicole with a fetching smile.
“It isn’t easy. You have to communicate a lot for it to work. I mean, sure, I have buttons that can be pushed and I can get jealous. Like if he dates a petite blonde - everything I am not - it’s hard not to feel a little jealous. But you talk about it, work through it, and grow. So far, it’s worked for us.”
This is why I enjoy bringing bisexual women together for conversation, friendship and support. Some of the girls who came to the brunch are monogamous, others are in open relationships, and some are looking for a combination of both. Simply meeting other women who are creating successful new kinds of committed relationships helps girls to realize there are many options for love. Although some bi-women are content with traditional monogamous relationships, others are searching for something more. By taking a risk and inviting strangers to brunch, bi-women are finding each other and discovering supportive friends.
As always, after the brunch I received over 30 e-mails from Seattle girls who want to attend the next event in Seattle. If you are in Seattle, and curious about meeting other bi-girls, I encourage you to join the private, free community site the Bliss Warrior team built this year, Hotel Bliss. Seattle girls are checking in and would like to meet you. (CLICK HERE to apply for membership.)
XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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IF YOU ENJOYED THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY READING ABOUT OTHER BLISS BRUNCHES:
NOT SEEKING BARBIE - Tales From the San Diego Brunch
WHY INVITING BI-GIRLS TO BRUNCH IS THE BEST
FROM TOMBOYS TO FAB FEMME GIRLS - TALES FROM TORONTO, PART 1
GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE AND MAKE A BI-GIRL FRIEND
AN ODD PLACE TO MEET A BI-GIRL
THE STRANGE FOLKS ON CRAIGSLIST
THERE IS NO “ONE-TYPE” OF BI-GIRL
SHE’S A PERFECT GENTLEMAN AND SHE’S PACKIN’
I HAVE A CONFESSION TO MAKE
MY MOM OUTED ME OVER THANKSGIVING DINNER
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TOMORROW ON BLISS WARRIOR: OUR GUEST BLOGGER, V., RETURNS WITH PART FOUR OF HER SERIALIZED BLOG, AND THEN THERE WERE TWO. THE TRUE STORY OF HER RELATIONSHIP WITH HER MAN AND THE WOMEN HE INTRODUCED HER TO.
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A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO THE MARVELOUS LACIVIOUS FOR HOSTING YET ANOTHER SUCCESSFUL BRUNCH FOR BI-GIRLS IN ALBUQUERQUE, NEW MEXICO. WE LOVE YOU, DARLING, FOR BRINGING BEAUTIFUL BI-WOMEN TOGETHER FOR FRIENDSHIP, COMMUNITY AND FLIRTATIOUS FUN!
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Posted in BISEXUALITY, BLISSWARRIOR NEWS, HOTEL BLISS, RELATIONSHIPS, Uncategorized, baby bi-girls, bi-girls, bisexual, bisexual girls, boyfriends, commitment, communication, couples, dating, dating girls, flirting, friends, jealousy, meeting girls, open relationships, seattle |
THE GRAND OPENING OF THE HOTEL BLISS BOUTIQUE
Written by Miss Bliss on August 8, 2008 – 10:44 am -Ladies,
The Bliss Warrior Team is proud to announce the grand opening of the Hotel Bliss Boutique.
Dedicated to supporting female artisans, the Boutique will be featuring handmade one-of-a-kind goods at exceptional prices. All sellers are members of Hotel Bliss, so if you have any questions about an item, feel free to contact them and ask them about their amazing work.
Some of the new items on sale now at the Hotel Bliss Boutique:
BY EVOKATEUR:
ONLY $18.00 PLUS SHIPPING! CLICK HERE TO READ MORE.
BY SNARFF:
DOUBLE ENDED GLASS DILDO BY SNARFF $150.00 PLUS SHIPPING
CLICK HERE TO READ MORE ABOUT THIS GORGEOUS PRODUCT.
And so much more, including hair accessories, adult toys, jewelry, massage, and handbags!
CLICK HERE TO SEE ALL OF THE NEWEST PRODUCTS AT THE BOUTIQUE.
CLICK HERE TO MEET THE ARTISTS - REMEMBER BUY AMERICAN, AND BUY BI!
Interested in selling your goods at the Hotel Bliss Boutique?
If you are already a member of Hotel Bliss, log -in and then CLICK HERE or visit the FAQ link in the home bar and click on How To Become a Seller. Once you are sure you qualify to be a seller, fill out the seller application by CLICKING HERE.
If you are not a member of Hotel Bliss, you must become one first to be a seller at the boutique. CLICK HERE to fill out the membership application.
SUPPORT YOUR BI SISTERS! BUY THERE HANDMADE PRODUCTS AT HOTEL BLISS. ALL YOU NEED IS A PAYPAL ACCOUNT.
XOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
Posted in BISEXUALITY, BLISSWARRIOR NEWS, BOUTIQUE, HOTEL BLISS, bi-girls, bisexual, glass dildos, jewelry, sex toys |
ASK MISS BLISS - MY GIRLFRIEND’S USING COKE AND LYING ABOUT IT
Written by Miss Bliss on August 6, 2008 – 3:21 pm -Dear Miss Bliss,
My girlfriend started doing coke behind my back. This scares me because an ex-boyfriend of mine started doing coke and would beat me when he was high. So, as you can imagine, I hate that drug and all drugs (except a little weed - LOL).
We were spending all day every day together until she started doing coke again. It was really nice dating her even though we only kissed when we hung out. Now, we see each other maybe once a day and even though she doesn’t admit it, I know she’s using because she acts differently. She lies and is hyper and more angry.
We have only been dating a few months and now I am ready to move the relationship to a new stage, if you know what I mean. She is interested in us deepening our sexual relationship, too, but I don’t know how to approach the situation. I have done things with other girls, but not her.
But I am not sure if I should make the relationship deeper since she said she would stop using cocaine and hasn’t. If she’s using again, do you think should I leave her?
XOXOXOXO
CAUTIOUS AROUND COKEHEADS
Dear Cautious,
Although I think the United States Drug Policy is problematic and all drugs should be legalized, monitored, prescribed, and taxed, there are some drugs I just don’t get and cocaine is one of them.
I know what you are thinking: But, Miss Bliss, what’s not to like about doing a few lines?
And, I say to you, yes, cocaine is great. If you haven’t had the opportunity, it is a real treat to hang out with people doing lines. What’s better than sitting with boring, nonstop chattering people who say every inane thought that pops into their heads? Nothing is more attractive than people with tight jaws and nervous energy who are loud, obnoxious and slightly turned on but completely flaccid. How I enjoy irritable and cranky coke users who never, ever, ever, ever stop talking and then flip out in an angry outburst over nothing.
Wow. What a great drug. Where do I sign up?
1. IF SHE IS LYING TO YOU ABOUT COKE, SHE’S NOT GOOD GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL
Since you dated a guy who abused cocaine, you know the tell-tale signs when an addict is using. So I am sure you are right when you assume she is using behind your back. A girl who lies to you is not good girlfriend material. If she is not willing to be honest with you about her drug use, what else will she lie to you about?
2. TELL HER YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT HER BEHAVIOR
It is obvious that you truly care about this girl and want the relationship to work. If that is the case, you should let her know how her behavior changes when she uses and how this makes it hard for you to be around her. Make sure to tell her how much you care about her and enjoy her company when she is not on cocaine. Remember, she feels more
3. YOU’RE WAY COOLER THAN SOME COKED-OUT CHICK
Obviously, you have already witnessed what an awful drug cocaine is, so already, you are way cooler than your girlfriend. You may want to do some searches on a community site like myspace for new friends who are not fans of boring, bad drugs that do not open the mind, but only close it tighter.
4. COKE-USERS GET UGLY FAST
Being aware of how drugs are harmful is a good thing even though it may not make you popular to drug-users. Just know that when you are in your 40s, your heart, circulatory system, and body will be as young and beautiful as it is now. Nothing ages a girl like a lot of cocaine.
5. IF SHE TRIPS OUT BECAUSE YOU CARE ABOUT HER, FIND A GIRL WHO IS READY TO BE LOVED
Only take a relationship to a deeper level if you know your partner is able and ready to love you as you deserve to be loved. If she is lying to you or using drugs behind your back, she is not able to be the girlfriend you deserve. When you share your concerns with her, if she is able to hear your words and change, then you should take the next step and extend your physical relationship. If she flips out, it is time to start dating new people until you find the girl who is ready to reciprocate your love.
6. HOW TO MOVE PAST FIRST BASE WITH A GIRL
(A) WHEN IT’S RIGHT, IT’S EASY Darling, Cautious About Coke-Heads, you write that in the past you have gone further than kissing with other girls. If it does not easily progress from kissing to more with your current girlfriend it may mean that she is not the right girl for you right now. When love is right it is easy. You do not have to “do” anything; true love is natural and easy. Sexual relations progress easily because the two of you cannot wait to rip each others’ clothes off!(B) UNLESS, IT’S RIGHT AND SHE’S A GIRL VIRGIN If this is her first relationship with a woman, she may just be scared she will not know how to make love to you. If this is the case, use your experience to be the more dominant lover. Make the first move to undress her, touch her, and make her climax. Once a girl orgasms, she becomes a lot less fearless about reciprocating the physical affection.
XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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HOTEL BLISS GIRLS: THE BOUTIQUE WILL BE LAUNCHING THIS FRIDAY!!!!
IF YOU WANT TO SELL YOUR HANDMADE GOODS AT THE HOTEL BLISS BOUTIQUE, E-MAIL ME AT BLISS@BLISSWARRIOR.COM.
YOU MUST HAVE A PAYPAL ACCOUNT TO BE A SELLER.
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IF YOU ENJOYED READING THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY OTHER ASK MISS BLISS COLUMNS:
SHE LEAVES ME TONGUE-TIED
SHE’S MAD BECAUSE HER BOYFRIEND AND I WENT ALL THE WAY
MY GIRLFRIEND’S UNHAPPY WITHOUT A FEMALE LOVER
HE DOESN’T BELIEVE I’M COMMITTED
MY CUTE COWORKER IS FLIRTING AND LYING
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HAVE A QUESTION FOR ASK MISS BLISS? E-MAIL ME AT BLISS@BLISSWARRIOR.COM .
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Posted in ASK MISS BLISS, BISEXUALITY, RELATIONSHIPS, Uncategorized, bi-girls, bisexual, bisexual girls, boyfriends, cocaine, communication, dating girls, drug use, girls kissing, kissing, lovers, the first time, virginity |
THANK HEAVENS FOR MULTIPLE SUGASMS - IT IS 143!
Written by Miss Bliss on August 6, 2008 – 6:00 am -The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.
This Week’s Picks
Anti-Porn Protest Gets Weird
“People get very excited about their causes and lack the sense to see if the information backs them up. ”
The Come Shot
“You don’t see their bodies going blotchily red and hear them howling like a banshee.”
Third Time’s a Charm
“If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
In My Office
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The game is afoot!!
I Look Good Naked
It is a Journey that Defies Labels
My Doppelgänger Wrote About Me!
My First Peeping Tom
Perfect vs Good
Why I hate threesomes
You Say Po-tay-to, I Say Po-tah-to
Sex & Politics
Musings on Masculinity: Gabe
Prostitution: To Legalize Or Not?
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Blonde whore sex video with blowjob
Cam Lover is addicted to CamWithHer clips
Femdom Mz Berlin Double Fists Audrey Hollander’s Ass In Lesbian Bondage Scene On Chanta’s Bitches
First post, first HNT!
Fuck me like your bitch boy (pic)
Girls and computers
Half-Nekkid with a New Toy
Jodie Marsh in Hot Party Dress Spilling Out her Boobs
Ms. Elle with Lash
Phone Sex Grandma
Satine Phoenix Forced To Cum On Fucking Machines
Tits for Troops
Where are the women?
X Marks The Spot
Sex Advice
Study The Master: How to Flirt, The Dean Martin Way
Thai green curry is the way to a spicy sex life
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
20 Questions With Tina Tyler
Andrew Blake Thinks He’s Stan Brakhage
Interview with John of Leather Thorn Paddles
Perpetuating Stupid Stereotypes
Review: The Clover Plug
Sextoy Review! The GIGI “Pleasure Object” by LELO
Win A Vollers Corset From Mio Destino Lingerie
Erotic Writing and Experiences
After tapas
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 3
Can you keep quiet?
Contrast (a love song)
Fiction: Hipster Girl
Hard times, hard-ons, hookers, & strippers
I need to fuck Amanda.
A Little Tingle
Marcy(fantasy)
Mister McIntyre’s Secret - Part One
Mrs. Kink Gets Kinky Email From D
No reservations. part 6
“Once there was a boy and he was beautiful… “
One Track Mind
Pre-MILF II
She danced into my fairytale-Part Three
She Kissed Me
She-some
Slut in the park
Try not to scream…
View From The Balcony
Sex Humor
Taking the Piss Out of the Internet, One Golden Shower at a Time
BDSM & Fetish
Amber’s Wedding Day Confession (Part Three/Continued)
Catalina loves FetLife
Chained
Famed Dom Sgt. Major Brings His Slutty Friends To Backdoor Bondage
Fine Art 101
The locks are broken
A Master And Femdom Cane A Slut Who Kneels On Frozen Peas, While In Bondage
Prelude in E (for Embarrassment)
r’s naughty thoughts on a scene with his Mistress and Ms. Nikki Nefarious
Strap On Play Is Not Just A Fetish, It’s Fun!
Sub night
The Tea Party
A virgin does Thunder, part II
Weekend, part two: dancing
A Wicked Tease
FROM RADICAL VIXEN: Note: I’m taking a week off. The deadline for the next Sugasm will be August 14th. Sugasm #144 will be published August 18th. Thanks, Vixen
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NOT SEEKING BARBIE - Tales from the San Diego Brunch
Written by Miss Bliss on August 5, 2008 – 3:08 pm -
“You know why they flag your posts on Craigslist,” says a fetching brunette wearing dark sunglasses. “Because you are a real girl. Craigslist will post the most outrageous fake stuff from some creepy guy pretending to be a girl - but if you actually are a woman? Flagged right away!”
Twenty-two bi and bi-friendly women came together for brunch in San Diego on a warm Saturday in July. Unfortunately for me, I got stuck in four hours of Comic-Con traffic on Interstate 5 and arrived right when the bill was being passed around. Luckily for me, half of the girls offered to extend the afternoon by having a drink a block and a half away in a dive bar. We are out back on the patio, musing on why our ads keep getting flagged on Craigslist.
“I think it’s unhappy lesbians,” I say. “They have so much hostility towards bi-girls and don’t think we should be posting on w4w. I wish Craig would make a section for just bi personals.”
“It’s not lesbians,” says the brunette emphatically. “It’s Craigslist’s aversion to REAL ads from REAL girls that is the problem.”
“I think the second anyone sees ‘bi’ in an ad, it gets flagged. I could not keep an ad about this brunch up for more than five minutes without it being taken down, no matter how much I begged for it not to be flagged.”
“But I didn’t have bi or bisexual anywhere in my ad,” the brunette says. “I wrote the sweetest, most normal ad ever. Seriously! I titled it ‘Not Seeking Barbie’, and wrote that I was a girl looking for a non-plastic real girl. The sweetest most genuine ad ever! Not seeking Barbie! I described myself and what I was looking for - followed all the rules for a w4w post and NEVER mentioned I was bi. Five seconds later, it’s flagged!”
“And the creepiest, grossest, obviously fake ads where some guy is seeking three women to stick live animals up his behind never get flagged,” laughs a tall gorgeous redhead.
“Oh, you saw my ad,” jokes the brunette and the two of them laugh.
“Have you written to Craigslist and asked them why your post was flagged,” asks our sweet hostess with cropped hair.
“I have tried,” I say, “but they send you to this completely unhelpful page where a ‘flagging’ expert is supposed to write you back, but they make it so cryptic it’s like you are just supposed to get frustrated and give up.”
“So what do we do if we can’t post on Craigslist,” asks another pretty girl in polka dots.
The conversation moves again to various topics: pride, lesbian-bi tension, dating girls, turning straight girls… We laugh and talk and once again, I am amazed and delighted by the magical openness of bi women. Their sexual power, friendliness, joy and exuberance.
I turn to our hostess and event organizer and say, “Isn’t it amazing how far your group has come in less than a year?”
She smiles and says, “We are up to 100 members now. It is truly amazing! And look at what you’ve accomplished this year, too - the blog, the hotel, the cities you’ve visited…”
I smile at her and thank her for being the leader she is. Even with the frustrations we experience with Craigslist, we are slowly finding each other and for the first time, organizing.
“Next year,” the redhead announces, “we are going to have a Bliss Warrior float in San Diego Pride. It’s time to bring the real party to pride!”
I hug her and the many new friends I have made and slowly prepare myself for the drive back to LA.
HAVE YOU HAD A CRAIGSLIST POSTING FLAGGED? TELL ME ABOUT IT!
WHY DO YOU THINK IT WAS FLAGGED?
XOXOXOXOOX
BLISS WARRIOR
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IF YOU ENJOYED READING THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY READING ABOUT OTHER BLISS BRUNCHES:
WHY INVITING BI-GIRLS TO BRUNCH IS THE BEST
FROM TOMBOYS TO FAB FEMME GIRLS - TALES FROM TORONTO, PART 1
GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE AND MAKE A BI-GIRL FRIEND
AN ODD PLACE TO MEET A BI-GIRL
THE STRANGE FOLKS ON CRAIGSLIST
THERE IS NO “ONE-TYPE” OF BI-GIRL
SHE’S A PERFECT GENTLEMAN AND SHE’S PACKIN’
I HAVE A CONFESSION TO MAKE
MY MOM OUTED ME OVER THANKSGIVING DINNER
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TOMORROW ON BLISS WARRIOR -
ASK MISS BLISS RETURNS WITH MY GIRLFRIEND’S USING COKE AND LYING ABOUT IT
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INTERESTED IN JOINING THE SAN DIEGO BISEXUAL WOMEN’S GROUP? VISIT http://lgbtfriends.meetup.com/200/
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