Bliss Warrior

THIS SATURDAY!!! BLISS BRUNCH IN MEMPHIS

Are you a bi or bi-curious girl in Memphis who would like to meet others like you for fun, friendship and conversation?

The amazing Jungle Jane who helped me build Hotel Bliss and who writes the wonderful baby bi-girl blogs on Bliss Warrior, is teaming up with the amazing jeweler and blogger, Evocateur, to host the first Bliss Brunch in Tennessee!

Want to join them?

This Saturday, October 25 at 1pm, meet the girls at Java Cabana at 2170 Young Avenue.

Want to email them first? Log into Hotel Bliss at blisswarrior. com and email Jungle Jane or Evocateur!

XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR

ASK MISS BLISS - BI-BOY CAUGHT KISSING BY HIS COWORKERS

Hi Bliss,

I was wondering of you had some advice…

I made a careless mistake a few weeks back. A friend of mine set me up on a date, and to my surprise, people I work with were at the same bar. I had no idea, and they saw my date and I kiss at the end of the night, so I kind of “outed” myself as a bisexual man to my coworkers. Now there are rumors spreading like wildfire around the office and I’m not sure what to do next.

A few weeks have passed, but the gossiping is still going strong. Some of the people I would go to happy hour with after work are no longer interested in going, and a few people are now trying to set me up with their gay friends. Some “friends” have also decided to introduce me to others with a sexual orientation attached.

Something that is also interesting, I told two girlfriends of mine I was bi. One girl is a lesbian and the other is straight, and they both think I’m gay, and guys can not be bisexual and they have distanced themselves, as well. I know what you are thinking, “then they weren’t really my friends” which is cool with me, but it is frustrating.

In my personal experience, more than 75% of the women, and 90% of the men I have discussed this with, think that men cannot be bisexual, and use the word “bisexual” as a term to ease people into the reality of them being gay. One point a female coworker attempted to make to me, is that she would never date a bisexual guy because she thinks he will cheat on her with another man, and when I asked her what would keep a bisexual women from cheating on a man with another women, she told me guys are different.

Thanks,
Bi and No One Believes Me

Dearest Bi and No One Believes Me -

The sad thing is MOST people don’t believe bisexuality exists in men or women. “It’s a phase,” they say, that either ends in marriage (so you are now “straight”) or in a gay relationship (so you are now “gay.”)

It is even harder in our current culture for bi-men to gain respect than bi-women because bi-women are fetishized in porn, advertising and media - which to straight people makes them seem “truly bi”. But when a man is interested in another man (even if he generally dates women - or consistently continues to love women) he is gay.

1. ARE YOU READY TO BE A LEADER?
So, my dear man, it seems you are potentially in a position of leadership. Are you ready to be the bi man in the office? The bi man in your friends’ lives? Are you ready to continue to remind others that you are NOT gay but truly bi and proud?

2. SOMETIMES THE UNIVERSE ENCOURAGES US TO COME OUT
Sometimes the universe places us in a situation where we have to come out. Circumstances have forced you to face your bisexuality in your office. Sure, some people will not invite you to happy hour for awhile. Keep doing what you are doing. Keep being you. Do you have a close friend in the office? Someone you can go out drinking with until others come around? With one friend, it’s a lot easier to go through this kind of storm.

3. IT IS ONLY THROUGH KNOWING BISEXUALS THAT STRAIGHT FOLKS LEARN THEY ARE “REAL”
Unfortunately, many women - even bisexual women - do not necessarily believe there are male bisexuals. One of my dear friends is a bi boy. I recently introduced him to a fab writer friend of mine. They became fast close friends and she began introducing him to her friends as her “Number One Gay”. He was naturally upset by this because she was denying his bisexuality. Each time she said it, he continued to correct her saying, “No, I am bi.” So now when she introduces him to her friends she tells this story and ends on, “He’s my Number One Bi.” It took awhile, but thanks to my friend for standing strong and being proud, one more person knows that bi men really do exist.

We are all fighting to be seen and understood. When one of us is outed - even in a humiliating way - it is for a reason. Even though it can feel uncomfortable and embarrassing, it feels better to live honestly. It feels wonderful when you can say, “Yes, I am bi and it is wonderful.” Keep being proud of who you are. The others will come around.

XOXOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR
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HER FAVORITE POSITIONS – PART ONE - ANOTHER FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY

At 11am, you receive the first email.  The subject header reads, “My Favorite Positions – PRIVATE!! Open in a safe place.”  Work is not a safe place.  Being the newest hire, your work area is in the worst position.  You share a cubicle with two other aides and your back faces the door.  Whatever’s on your screen, someone is certain to see.

So you must wait.  At least six hours.

There is an attachment.  She sent you a picture?  What could the picture be of?  An image of her lean, long body appears before your eyes.  Maybe she sent a self-portrait of her deep olive flesh wrapped in lingerie.

This is what she does to you.

And this is why you adore her.  She knows how to make you itch with desire at 11am on a Monday morning.  You smile knowing your man received some form of torture from her, too.  She never emails you without emailing him, too.  It’s one of her undeniable charms.

Your phone vibrates with a text.  Check your mail, he writes.   I can’t, you text back.  The fellowship’s summary report is due in three days and everyone in the office is attached to a computer.  You never get a moment alone when a deadline nears.  You are going to love her even more, he writes.  She gets it.

As you are texting him back, the mailbox dings with a new email.  You look up at your screen and there is a second email from her.  Again, the header reads, “My Favorite Positions #2 – PRIVATE – For your eyes only!”

It takes all of your strength not to open the emails and continue working.  Reigning in your imagination, you try not to think of her or the weekend of splendor the three of you just shared.  There is too much work to do.

At 11:30 she sends you a third email and this time you notice the throb between your legs.  If this deadline wasn’t looming, you would call her just to let her know how much she is torturing you.

Time moves fast thanks to the enormous amount of work you have to do.  Writing nonstop, you edit your sections of the report and wait for the clock to strike five.

It isn’t until the drive home that you have a chance to imagine what is in her email.  Unpredictable and imaginative, it could be anything.  Sometimes she sends you images of gorgeous girls kissing; sometimes it is only her, naked and smilingly.  Occasionally, it’s photos someone else took of her but she doesn’t say who and you don’t ask.

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The three of you met in a café one Sunday night in Hollywood.  Too hot to stay in your apartment, you and your man went out for an icy drink with icier air conditioning.  Right after your drinks arrived, the door opened and a tall girl with big dark eyes and full lips walked in.  Wearing a vintage Bowie t-shirt and jeans, she was casually sexy and a little bit tough.  You could see this girl changing her own flat or playing bass guitar.  Nothing turns you on more than the incredibly stunning woman who has the fierce energy of a man.

After ordering her drink, she picked the table next to yours and gave you both the most charming of smiles.  You smile back at her briefly.  Too pretty for you, you think, so you quickly turn your eyes away from her.  Lucky for you, your man noticed the whole exchange and asked her how she was handling the heat.

“Goodness,” she said, “I am just melting.  I must look so sweaty and disgusting.”

You looked at her again and her insecurity made you feel more courageous.  “This is you looking disgusting?  You must give men heart attacks when you look great…”

She laughed.  “Aren’t you a sweetheart?”  She turned to your man and said, “You are very lucky.”

He said, “You don’t know how lucky I am.”  Something in the tone of his voice made you flush and her raise an eyebrow.

“Maybe I don’t.  But I’d like to find out.”

Emails were exchanged and as you left the café, opening the door into the warm Los Angeles night air, you discussed her as a potential love interest.  “She seemed really bi, didn’t she?”

“And she’s really into you,” he said.

“You think?”

“I know,” he said and kissed your cheek.  “Let’s go home and send this girl an email.”

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Bringing your attention back to the present, you turn left onto your street and park the car.  Throwing your bag over your shoulder, you lock the car and walk towards your home, ready to greet your man with a warm kiss and excited to finally open the first email.

Want to know what is inside the emails our heroine received at work?  Tune in for Part II next Friday!

XOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR
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TUESDAY NIGHT’S WEBCHAT WAS ANOTHER HUGE SUCCESS THANKS TO YOU AMAZING GIRLS.  JOIN US EVERY OTHER TUESDAY FOR A WEB CHAT AT HOTEL BLISS.  NEXT WEBCHAT:  TUESDAY, OCTOBER 28TH STARTING AT 6PM PST AND 9PM EST.
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TOUCHING UNDER THE TABLE
WAKE ME UP WITH YOUR TONGUE
YOU MADE MY BRAIN COME
LEARNING TO LOVE STRAP-ONS
ONE FRENCH AFTERNOON
WALKING HOME IN HER PANTIES
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ASK MISS BLISS: HOW SHOULD A UNICORN APPROACH AN ATTRACTIVE COUPLE?

Dear Miss Bliss,

I recently became an advocate of the third party, that is, what I’ve heard referred to as being “The Unicorn.”  It began as a casual friendship and as time progressed my soon-to-be lady lover mentioned her and her boyfriend’s desire to have a threesome.  Not quite comfortable with my bisexuality let alone the company of three, I hesitated.  Shortly thereafter I became intimate with her and not him.  I found myself lucky to be involved with a very healthy couple who discussed everything.  She got permission to be alone with me and the rest was history.  After a few months of lady love, the perfect night came along when all participated.

Sadly, I’ll be moving to another state in the near future, parting from my dearly beloveds.  I’m excited for my new frontier and now that the door is open my fantasies are filled with coupled-friends in which I’m attracted to both lovers.  With my first bi-experience and threesome under my belt, I feel confident in exploring other relationships.  However, I’m new to the scene and I’ve yet to explore approaching women independently, let alone couples.

The prominent couple of my fantasies is one in which I’m better friends with her, but unsure if she’s open to the idea.  How do I approach the subject without offending her in order to maintain a friendship if uninterested?  While trying not to get carried away I want to be respectful of where others are at in their relationships and I want to explain that I am in no way trying to devise a plan to attain her man.  I would like to find the right words to describe the healthy dynamic that I am hoping to find.  Any advice on the matter would bring much gratitude.

xo,
1/3

Dear 1/3,

Congratulations, my dearest unicorn, for finding the perfect couple to open you up to the marvelous world of group intimacy.  As I wrote in my post, Can A Threesome Help You Find Your True Love, there are many single bi-girls who enjoy being intimate with couples.  But you bring up an excellent question: How does a unicorn approach an attractive couple without freaking them out or damaging the friendship?

1.  FIND OUT IF THE GIRL IS OPEN TO BI EXPERIENCES
The first thing to do is take your female friend out for a drink and assess how open she is to bisexual experiences.  (If you are closer to the male partner, you might want to have this conversation with him.)  If you are not quite ready to tell her you are bi, you may want to talk about erotic books (like the Anne Rice Vampire Chronicles or if you are more literary, Henry Miller and Anais Nin) to get a sense of her openness.  Maybe she saw Woody Allen’s new film, Vicky Christina Barcelona, where Scarlett Johansson, Penelope Cruz and Javier Bardem briefly live in a triad relationship.  It does not take long to know if she is NOT bi, because if she is grossed out by these scenarios, I am sure she will tell you.

2.  SHARE YOUR PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES TO GET A SENSE OF THE COUPLE’S OPENNESS
Some girls may think they are straight until they hear about your previous adventures with another couple. A lot of female fear quickly turns to curiosity and fascination when someone they know, trust and love has experienced group sex.  Think about the assumptions you had about threesomes before you experienced it firsthand.  Share with the new couple that in your previous threesome you never felt used, were in love with the couple’s relationship, and had no idea it could be so loving, fun and drama-free.

3.  NOT ALL GUYS ARE COMFORTABLE WITH GROUP SEX (SERIOUSLY!)
I know this may come as a surprise to some readers but not all men are open to threesomes.  Men, just like women, can be jealous, insecure and possessive.  Don’t assume that it is a done deal if the female partner is into the threesome.  Make sure that her man wants it just as much as she does.

4.  ASK HER/HIM ABOUT THEIR UNEXPLORED FANTASIES
A good way to get a sense of how open a couple is to being approached about a threesome is to ask them about their sexual fantasies.  What naughty things have they done in the past?  What naughty things would they like to do in the future?  What fantasies have they masturbated to?  Nothing turns people on more than talking about sex.  Get them talking and the sexual energy will surge.  Plus, if they say they’ve always wanted a threesome, you may just be on your way to an unforgettable night.

5.  SHARE YOUR STORY AND HELP HER SEE YOU WERE NOT EXPLOITED
Once you know the couple is open to bisexuality, share your positive past experiences.    Pornography has conditioned us to believe that threesomes are male-centered and about the guy’s pleasure.  This makes some women hesitant to participate in group scenarios because they do not want to exploit other women.  However, in a loving threesome, no one is exploited because all three participants share equal love and pleasure.  For the group sex virgin, this is hard to imagine and understand.  By sharing your threesome story, you help them to see how loving a group experience can be.  You also become a leader because you are teaching that most porn does not represent bisexual culture.

6.  DOES SHE KNOW YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HER?
An important secret about girls is they are always the last to know if another girl likes them.  Because of this, they also fear that you are more attracted to their partner than them.  Make sure she knows you are attracted to her.  Girls want to feel special,  so make sure to let her know how beautiful she is (and, if you’re feeling confident, how much you want to kiss her.)

7.  SHOW THAT SEX DID NOT HARM YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH YOUR PREVIOUS LOVERS
Another block to having sexual experiences with friends is they worry that the love affair will harm the friendship.  What the group sex virgin does not know is that sex can enhance a friendship.  Again, the best way to convince someone of this truth is to share your story and show that sex only made your friendship with the couple better.

One thing to note here: if bringing up the fact that you are bi and interested in a threesome harms the friendship, you may have outgrown it.  Although this is sad, letting go of some friends gives you space for new relationships with people who love you for who you really are.

8.  OPENLY DISCUSS HOW SURPRISED YOU ARE BY HOW WONDERFUL IT IS TO BE BI
As I have written before, Be The Bi-Girl You Want to Meet.  When you are bisexual and proud, you will attract the right lovers to you.  Trust your intuition.  If it doesn’t feel right to share your desires with certain friends, don’t.  If it feels like certain friends are potentially great lovers, trust it and expect great results.

XXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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Sugasm - The Best of This Week’s Sex Bloggers #151

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #151? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Stolen Time
“The sigh of a kiss that has been too long waiting is a wicked rush.”

Keeping things hot when everything hurts
“While it’s not as fun for him, what I love about those times is how sexy he makes me feel at a time when I probably feel the most worthless as a lover.”

Like lovers do…
“As soon as I got that groove, he felt it. His body started to tense up and tremble.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
At What Point Have You Crossed The Line?

More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Sgt. Major from Backdoor Bondage and Kink.com
Click Foreplay
The End of the Sex Writer?
Lust Objectified: Lelo’s Lily Vibe
Sex News Roundup

Sex Work
20 Questions With Janet Jacme
Busy Busy Busy

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Backward (One)
The Five Twenties - The Fifth Twenty
i Kissed a Girl
The love for guys in uniform
Natalie Gets Laid
A Night to Remember, ft. Mariella and VibeReview
Talk Dirty To Me
Will you suck it?
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend Won’t Pose Just How You Imagined

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Boymeat’s Boots
HNT: Lucky Heather 2
Kelly Zhang (Met Art)
Radka - OJ

Sex & Politics
Do BDSM and McCain Go Together Like Vinegar and Oil?
Invasion

BDSM & Fetish
3 days
Punished in the school gym
Sex Camp 2008: The Petting Zoo!
slut to the Mailbox ….. This Morning’s Task as Accomplished
Someplace I’ve never been, part 2

Sex Advice
Man-Handles: What to Do with His Nipples?
Sadie’s Advice for Craigslist Dating. Confession #151

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can Group Sex Get Your Man to Clean the House?
Channeling Jessica Rabbit
How I started paying for sex
Present Genitive
Seven Daily Sins: Lust
Trust

WHY I CREATED THIS BLOG

“I finally wrote a blog that the straight girls hated.  I always post my blogs in a couple of places - on my commercial site, myspace and this site, thisisby, for writers.  As far as I can tell, the writer site is just straight folks, and because they are writers, they can be a bit snobby at times.  I rarely get comments on any of my posts that deal with bisexuality (they like the blogs about vegetarianism) and if I do, it’s usually men who write.  But after I posted my last blog, tons of comments from straight girls started flooding in and they were devastating.  They didn’t just hate the post, they hated me.”

“What did you write about that got them so upset,” asks my luminous redheaded friend, Amanda.

“It was her post on can group sex get your guy to clean the house,” says Karin.  I had emailed Karin a few days before when the negative comments started pouring in and she helped pull me out of a potential depression with a supportive email.

“What did they say,” Amanda asks.

“Well, I made the mistake of adding the sub-header, ‘A New Feminism’, to the post.  The straight girls did NOT like that.  They said things like, ‘This is the stupidest thing I’ve ever read,’ ‘You would still have to ASK him to clean if a lover was coming over so this is not feminism,’ ‘you’re manipulating other women and that’s not feminist,’ and many more comments agreeing that my blog post was the most ridiculous and inane thing they had ever read.”

“Oh, honey,” Amanda says.

“The morning the comments started rolling in, I was devastated.  There’s nothing worse than waking up, turning on your computer and then BAM!  Hate pours out of the computer.  I thought it was just a funny little light post.  I had no idea the straight girls would get so upset.”

“Something in your post really threatened them,” says Karin, and a dark curl falls elegantly over one eye.

“I guess so,” I say as I sip my tea cooler.  “The good side of all of this is it made me realize how safe the Bliss Warrior community has made me feel.  When I first started this blog, I was very careful of the words I chose and how I described being bi because I wanted straight readers to feel unthreatened.  After a year and a half of writing and having readers support the work, I forgot how vulnerable we bi-girls really are.  The community made me feel protected and safe.”

“We aren’t safe,” says Karin.

“No,” I say.  “But it is easier to expose ourselves when we have good friends who understand and can help us when we feel attacked.  That is why I created this blog, so each day we could feel a little safer to be our true selves.  That’s why all the negative comments I now see as a good thing.  For the first time ever, I freaked out the straight girls and the experience reminded me to feel so much gratitude for the Bliss Warrior community.”

Our conversation moves away from the blog, and as I sip my tea in the Autumn sun, I am also grateful for the two beautiful bi friends I have made because of Bliss Warrior.  I silently remind myself what a gift it is to belong to a community who loves you for who you are and supports you when the outside world is against you.

XOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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SUGASM - THE BEST OF THIS WEEK’S SEX BLOGS 149

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.

Art of the Cunt
“The point of the abstraction was so that they, although anatomically correct, are hidden enough in colouring and some of the external shapes to hide the image for what it is.”

Come Get Your Knife
“”Do you trust me?” I asked.”

Tangle of Limbs There is Softness
“But I know myself, I know my desire.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sugarbutch Star: Eileen

More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Sex Humor
I’m suspending my campaign…for a domme

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
A Day in the Life of… an Indie Rocker
Escort rules/client rules
Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy-#9
Fucking Words
Shame on You

Sex Advice
How to Talk Dirty

BDSM & Fetish
Bang The Bum Harder
Fucking and Flogging
How To Train Your Slave
Ins and (Mostly) Outs of Public Displays of Kink
Like a $20 Whore
She disappears
Submission

Sex Work
Is calling a phone dominant or seeing a pro domme cheating?
The Land of the Misfits
Princess Pussy Panties for Sale!

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Foot and Converse Sneaker Fetish
HNT- Hand In Glove

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Kink.com CEO Peter Acworth
Happy Bisexual Awareness Day
Lingerie & Lipstick Lesbians ~ It’s Two, Two, Turn-Ons In One!
A Review of Vibereview’s Japanese Silk Love Rope

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Cliched Sex
Coming into Queerness - Toybox
Fetish Fair Fleamarket and Ellie Lumpesse - What a Weekend!
Heavy Metal
I Think We’re Alone Now
I’m imagining you
Monday Mirage (It’s back!!!)
Nothing Beats a Free Massage
There’s a First TIme For Everything. Confession #146
Trading my ass p2

CAN GROUP SEX GET YOUR MAN TO CLEAN THE HOUSE?

Some feminists argue that women who participate in group sex are exploiting and abusing other women for their man’s pleasure. Some psychiatrists believe any couple that asks others to join them in bed are codependent and unhealthy. And, there are even some bisexual women who wish other bi-girls would stop fooling around and become monogamous to earn the bisexuality community respect in the larger culture.

What these folks do not understand is group sex can have some surprisingly feminist benefits for women.

It has been 88 years since women gained the right to vote, but studies show that women continue to make less pay for the same work as men. Even when both partners work full-time, women tend to spend more hours cleaning, cooking and managing the home than their male partners.

How do we fight this imbalance? Girls, it may just be time to start bringing home new lovers.

FIVE WAYS GROUP SEX CAN BRING MORE EQUALITY INTO YOUR HOME

1. A CLEAN HOUSE. There is something about a new female lover coming over that gets a man interested in cleaning. Never seen your partner volunteer to vacuum? Didn’t know he could dust? Watch as dirty clothes get picked up, dishes get put away and your house becomes sparkling clean.

2. LAUNDERED FRESH SHEETS AND TOWELS. When it is just you and your partner, it can be easy to leave the same sheets on the bed for weeks and to avoid washing the towels in the bathroom. But when you start opening your home up to new love, watch how much your man enjoys doing the laundry. If you want your house to seem like an elegant hotel with clean sheets and fresh towels every night, fill up your calendar with dates and see how much joy it brings him to do another load of wash.

3. A SPARKLING BATHROOM. There is nothing like the possibility of a long shower or bath with a third to give a man a reason to get out the bleach and start scrubbing those tiles. Once the two of you have lathered up a girl with soapy bubbles, he will understand why cleanliness is next to godliness.

4. UNEXPECTED PRESENTS. With new lovers in your life, watch as he surprises you with flowers, lingerie, and sex toys. If your man is a gentleman, he will make sure that you and your lover are spoiled and adored.

5. TRUE EQUALITY. By sharing in the household chores, true equality will start in your home. So go out and be a feminist one new lover at a time!

XOXOXOXOXXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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THANKS TO ALL THE MARVELOUS GIRLS WHO ATTENDED OUR FIRST WEB CHAT.
JUST LIKE THE BRUNCHES, WHEN THE TIME WAS UP, GIRLS STILL HAD STORIES TO SHARE. SO I WILL BE HOSTING WEB CHATS EVERY OTHER TUESDAY NIGHT FROM 6-8PM PST (9-11 EST). JOIN US FOR THE NEXT CHAT ON OCTOBER 14TH.
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