February 2009

"I Buy prozac without prescription, don't think of myself as bi.  I actually hate that word," says Jenn, a stunning brunette with sky blue eyes.  "I think I am just a very sensual person who loves sex."

It is a cool Saturday afternoon in Albuquerque, New Mexico, and ten women have come together to share the stories they cannot tell their straight friends.  I have not been to Albuquerque since the first brunch I hosted almost exactly a year ago to the day.  When I first saw the fabulous Lacivia waiting for me outside the cafe, I hugged her tightly and thanked her for working so hard to create a community for bisexual women in New Mexico.  "It's a lot of hard work," she said.  "I know," I said.  "But brunches like these make all of the work so worthwhile."  Now, it is two hours into the brunch and we have brought three tables together to make sure everyone can talk and be heard.

"I don't like the term bisexual, prozac purchase, Discount prozac online, either," says Nicole, prozac malaysia, Best price for prozac, a girl with cropped blond hair and a tattoo curled around her ear.  "I consider myself to be 'open'."

"A lot of women who date men and women don't like the term 'bisexual' because of the negative connotations," I say.  "But I think this is exactly why we need to reclaim the term as a form of empowerment, drug prozac, Buy cheap prozac online, like the lesbians did with 'dyke' and the gay rights movement did with 'queer'.  If we do not take the label back, how are we supposed to find one another?"

"But when you say you are bisexual, prozac buy, Purchase prozac overnight delivery, " says Jenn, "it just is so gross.  People think you're slutty or into threesomes..."

"That's why I like to say that a goal of Bliss Warrior is to take the sex out of bisexuality.  By creating a bisexual community that is strong and vibrant, low cost prozac, Buy prozac no prescription required, we can show our diversity.  Bisexuals can and do have successful monogamous relationships.  Bisexuals are not liars, or confused, buy generic prozac, Cheap prozac without prescription, or discontent in their relationships.  They are not trashy girls who will jump into bed with just anybody.  The problem is, if we all go around saying we are 'beyond labels', prozac from canada, Low price prozac, how do we create community and fight the negative stereotypes?"

"That is so interesting," says Nicole.  "I never thought of it in terms of bisexual culture.  Whenever I heard 'bisexual', prozac without a prescription, Prozac generic, I always thought it was in terms of sex."

"That's what we are fighting.  When we have no visibility or power, it's easy for pornographers to define our culture, buy cheap prozac, Prozac canada, " I say.  "There is an incorrect assumption that if you are bisexual, you are sleeping with men and women all the time.  It is hard to admit you are bi to people who don't get it, buy prozac online australia, Discount prozac, because the minute you say, 'Yes, prozac india, Prozac no rx, I am bisexual,' you can almost see their minds wondering, find prozac on internet, Prozac order, 'Oh, so you're a swinger, prozac free sample, Order prozac in canada, '  or, 'Oh, prozac prescription, Buy prozac us, you must have orgies,'  or, find no rx prozac, Cheap prozac from canada, 'Oh, that means you're an easy lay.'  They don't react how we wish they would react.  We know we are attracted to a person despite gender; we love who we love and it does not matter if it is a woman or a man."

"As soon as you say you're bi, prozac cheapest price, Buy prozac generic, " says Lacivia,  "straights think you're hitting on them and lesbians don't trust you."

"It is the lack of a bisexual community that makes us feel shame.  If we just keep floating under a non-labeled identity, prozac buy online, Compare prozac prices, we continue to perpetuate the myth that we are either gay when we're dating girls or straight when dating men,"  I say.  "I have a dear friend in Seattle who is 'straight' when she's with her heterosexual friends and 'lesbian' when she is out with her dyke friends.   But she has no space to be her real self and few friends who understand who she really is."

"That's exactly how I have been, prozac online, Buy cheap prozac internet, " says Nicole.  "When I'm with the lesbians, I'm gay.  I even came out as lesbian when I was in high school, compare prozac prices online, Cheap prozac online, but later on, I fell for a guy.  So then I thought, prozac online stores, Prozac in bangkok, maybe I'm straight?  And I tried to be straight for awhile, but then I fell for a girl... Ultimately, I married a man and when I was pregnant with my son I felt - maybe due to the hormones - really heterosexual.  I had no desire for women at all.  But as soon as he was born, something changed and I said to my husband, 'I want to go to Exhale and dance with girls!'"

The table laughs and the conversation turns to other topics.  I take a moment to smile at Lacivia for creating a space where women can discuss these complicated issues and feel less alone.

XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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DEAREST READERS - LIFE HAS BEEN VERY BUSY FOR ME LATELY SO I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO POST AS MUCH AS I WOULD LIKE TO.  MORE BLOGS ON THE ALBUQUERQUE BRUNCH ARE COMING IN THE NEXT WEEK, SO STAY TUNED.  ALSO, THANKS TO THE OVER 50 GIRLS WHO HAVE BEFRIENDED ME ON FACEBOOK.  IF YOU ARE FEMALE AND WOULD LIKE TO JOIN THE PARTY, BECOME BLISS WARRIAR'S FRIEND BY CLICKING HERE.  (PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS PAGE IS PRIVATE AND ONLY FRIENDS OF MINE CAN SEE IT.) IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO CONNECT WITH OTHER 'OPEN' OR BI GIRLS, THIS IS THE PLACE TO GO.  HOTEL BLISS IS STILL UP AND WORKING.  IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO JOIN OUR PRIVATE COMMUNITY FOR WOMEN, E-MAIL ME AT BLISS@BLISSWARRIOR.COM WITH A BRIEF NOTE EXPLAINING WHY YOU WOULD LIKE TO JOIN, AND I WILL SEND YOU AN INVITATION.  XOXOXOXOXOXO
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