In the 2000 Census, it was revealed that for the first time in American history, more couples are “living in sin” than married. With divorce so prevalent, it is natural that our generation is looking for new, more flexible, open relationships. Relationships where partners can explore their sexuality and share their sexual fantasies with their partners; relationships where partners encourage each other to explore new sexual play; relationships where jealousy and envy are replaced with appreciation of their partner’s sexual strength and vivacity.Through the wonder of the Internet, I have connected with many trailblazing bi-girls who are discovering new forms of relationships.
THE SWINGING BI-GIRL
Many bi-girls are in couples and find that playing with other couples is a fun way to explore, without worrying about the new lovers becoming too “attached”. Hooking up with couples can be a fun, safe way to see your partner in a new light.BUT… it is tricky to find a situation where all four people are into each other equally. Never be with a couple when only one of you is into it. Instead of increasing intimacy, it will lead to resentments, jealousy and hurt. Also, for the partners of bigirls: in this situation, it should be about the two girls connecting and you and the other man being the lucky witnesses. Put the girls first, and your experience will be much deeper, more fulfilling, and more likely to be repeated in the future.
THE BI-GIRL WHO DATES BOYS BUT PLAYS WITH GIRLS
More and more bigirls are discovering they can have a “monogamous” relationship with a man, but still play with girls once in awhile. In successful relationships, the bigirl plays with her girlfriends in the presence of her man. He may or may not play with the girlfriend, too, depending on the relationship, but he is there… sharing in her joy, amazed by her sexual power, in love with her bisexual nature. Bigirls in this scenario may just kiss a girl at a club and feel fully satisfied, or it may be more extreme, depending on the girl and the situation.There are some bigirls who have worked out deals with their male partners that they can have “girlfriends” outside of the relationship, as long as they share details once they come home.
The Bliss Warrior NEVER recommends infidelity outside the relationship, as it can invite drama, unnecessary misunderstandings, and jealousy into the primary relationship. The question to always keep in mind is, is this adventure bringing me and my partner closer together? If it isn’t, something needs to be corrected.
THE BI-GIRL THAT ONLY PLAYS WITH HER MAN
In this scenario, the bigirl and her man only play together with lovers who love both of them equally. If something doesn’t feel right, they both have instant veto power.The key to this type of relationship is the couple is into sharing their love and connection with others who appreciate what the two of them share. Perhaps they have an experience with another bigirl, maybe a couple, or maybe even a group. The possibilities are endless, as long as it works for both of them equally.Communication is the number one factor here, as both partners need to be able to express their desires, fears and hopes before and after play encounters.
Single girls LOVE relationships where the man is TOTALLY into his wife/girlfriend. Guys, focus your love and passion on your girl, and the other girl will feel safer with you. She won’t have to worry that you’ll be calling her behind your girl’s back, or that you will try to commit adultery with her. By being madly in love with your woman, you become more attractive to her because she can play freely with both of you.
I have yet to meet the couple that is completely against bringing a single bigirl into their bed, but for many, they don’t know where to find her. I encourage bigirls to flirt with girls actively– flirt with your friends, your waitresses, the random girls your standing behind in line– because you never know who might flirt back. The tricky part of being in a relationship with a man is the Heterosexual Cloaking Device; other girls will assume you are straight. The more out you are, the more out other bigirls in hiding can be around you.
The Bliss Warrior page has brought so many amazing bi-girls into my life…What will your page look like?
DO YOU HAVE A NEW TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP THAT IS WORKING?
TELL ME ABOUT IT.
XOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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well written, interesting, and beautiful blog.
I thought about including a link to your site on my blog.
if you ever get the chance, come visit me back
Best,
Simon
my blog is www.BrawnyHunk.com (not nearly as superficial as it sounds
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