From the category archives:

BISEXUALITY

WHEN YOUR STRAIGHT FRIENDS FIND OUT

April 10, 2010
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“I told my friends I’m bi!” Melanie is smiling from ear to ear, and she is utterly adorable.

“That’s wonderful, sweetie,” I say, “What did they say?”

Melanie is a baby bigirl. Only a year before, this 23 year-old redhead discovered the joy of being with a girl. “You will not believe what Bethanie said.” Bethanie is Melanie’s best friend from college.

“What? Did she freak out?”

“Not at all! It ends up she’s bi, too!” Melanie is stirring her water and lime and I cannot take my eyes of her lace-framed cleavage.

“How long has she been bi?”

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WHY I CREATED THIS BLOG

October 7, 2008
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“I finally wrote a blog that the straight girls hated.  I always post my blogs in a couple of places – on my commercial site, myspace and this site, thisisby, for writers.  As far as I can tell, the writer site is just straight folks, and because they are writers, they can be a bit [...]

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HAPPY BISEXUAL AWARENESS DAY!

September 23, 2008
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All around the country and the world, bisexuals are coming together to celebrate our unique culture.  So many events are happening today and this weekend to demonstrate that bisexuality is a stable identity with a rich history. According to Wikipedia, Bisexual Awareness Day began in 1999 when three activists, Wendy Curry, Michael Page, and Gigi [...]

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WHEN YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND OUT

September 15, 2008
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Last November, I posted a blog entitled, “When Your Straight Friends Find Out” which discussed the four most common reactions girls have when you come out as bisexual.  But your male friends also react in all sorts of ways when they find out you are bi.   Here’s a list of the seven most common male [...]

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CAN A THREESOME HELP YOU FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE?

September 8, 2008
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Talk to some couples, and they might just tell you that there is no such thing as the single bi-girl who enjoys threesomes. In fact, many couples call these girls “unicorns” because they are magical creatures that are impossible to find. Or are they? In my travels across the country brunching with bi-women, I have [...]

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WHY INVITING BI-GIRLS TO BRUNCH IS THE BEST

July 1, 2008
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Lovely and luminous readers, In the last year, as you know, I have sponsored or attended brunches in Los Angeles, San Diego, New York, Albuquerque, Miami, and most recently, Toronto. At these meetings, bi-women come together to share stories, meet others like them, and build community. But what you may not know, is after those [...]

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LOVING GIRLS OF MANY SHAPES AND SIZES

May 12, 2008
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“It’s so strange that we have no idea of our own size or the space we actually fill. It’s so hard for us to see what others see.” I am having lunch with a gorgeous baby bi-girl friend of mine in Hollywood. It is unusually cold – the June gloom came in May – and [...]

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OUT WITH THE STRAIGHT FRIENDS

April 14, 2008
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“How’s your blog going?” The question takes me off-guard. It is Saturday night and my man and I are out having drinks with his coworker, Maria, her fiancé and their friends, a lovely couple that just moved to L.A. from the east coast. “It’s going great,” I say, while trying to remember what I told [...]

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PLEASURE HER WITH PEARLS

March 6, 2008
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Pearls. Layers and layers of pearls. Wrapped around your neck, draped down your body, and dangling from your wrists – pearls can accent any lingerie look. Classic, sexy, and timeless, a girl can never wear enough pearls. What you may not know, however, is that pearls can also double as a tool to pleasure, tease [...]

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FIVE NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES ABOUT BISEXUALS

February 18, 2008
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Dear Miss Bliss, I don’t know if I would classify myself as bi. I don’t really know what my sexuality is. I am only 22 years old and have been in a serious relationship for the past three years. I knew I was attracted to girls before I met my current boyfriend. I’ve been lucky [...]

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