TIE ME UP, TIE ME DOWN – A BI-GIRL SHARES HER FIRST S&M EXPERIENCE

by Miss Bliss

Dearest Readers, Daphne is a New York bi-girl who recently started exploring light BDSM play. We are delighted to have her share the story of the first time her lover tied her up and deliciously tormented her. XOXOXOXO BLISS WARRIOR

As a bi-girl I have always had an active fantasy life. I remember as a little girl when we played Cops and Robbers, I always wanted to get handcuffed. As a teenager, I was the ‘naughty’ schoolgirl, always wanting to be punished. I can’t remember a time I didn’t have the desire of being tied up but was too shy to say anything.

A few years ago, a lover who was quite dominant knew right away what I needed. Before our date, he called me with the following instructions: leave the door ajar, dress in my sexiest black lingerie and leave my high heels on. “When you finish dressing, kneel on the bed and wear a blindfold,” he said.

When he got to my apartment, I was so excited, I could barely stand it. I could hear his every move. I wanted to rip the blindfold off. I could hear the rustle of his jeans, the music as he put it on, the equipment as he laid it out. He seemed to take forever.

“Put your arms up,” he said. Finally, I thought. He tied me up with expertise in two minutes flat. I was almost unable to breathe. He turned me over. Kissed me gently all everywhere. I imagined that he was my female roommate from college because his mouth was so gentle, and so like a woman’s. I was almost at the verge of coming by his touch alone. That’s what being tied up did to me.

I tried to squirm free but couldn’t move. He had secured my ankles as well, which was maddening. I kept rubbing up against him to no avail. He undid the ankle clasp, and, slowly, began to tease me. I thought I was going explode. I screamed, I came. He didn’t let up. I couldn’t stop him because I didn’t have the use of my hands. I tried to headlock him with my knees, but he was stronger than I was.

And, I was glad I couldn’t stop him. It really felt quite good.

He then proceeded to use a dildo on me: one of my very own and one of my favorites. It reminded me of an ex-girlfriend.

I was about to come again, and then he stopped, and slapped me rather hard. I wasn’t expecting this, but I liked it.

“Open your mouth and stick out your tongue,” he demanded. I did as I was told, though I was a bit frightened. He put a substance that was familiar yet I could not place it, on my tongue. “Swallow.” I did. “Did you like it?” he asked. “Yes.” I said. “Good.” He put some more in my mouth and kissed me. I would find out later it was whipped cream he had whipped himself.

He then took a feather and tickled me until I almost fainted. “Stop!” He wouldn’t listen. The more I begged, the worse things got. One thinks of S&M as just pain, but there’s torture in far less painful things than slapping and things of that nature.

He finally quit tickling me and whispered into my skin, “What do you want me to do?”

“Use the whip,” I pleaded. I have a very cute, very lightweight, leather flogger that when used properly leaves no marks. He used it for a few minutes so very lightly that it tickled me. Then he did it a little harder.

By this time a few hours had passed and we still hadn’t had sex. Ladies, this is a great reason to be into BDSM. You get to have many orgasms, then have sex, and have more orgasms. Men are about your pleasure. And, by the time you do get to sex, you’re very open.

INTERESTED IN ADDING A LITTLE S&M INTO YOUR SEXUAL PLAY?

1. BABELAND IS A GREAT STORE TO PURCHASE S&M TOYS
Babeland is a great place to find S&M toys here in New York (click here to see their website). They also have shops in Los Angeles and Seattle, if you’re on the West Coast. The women are all super friendly, bi or lesbian themselves often times. I’ve never felt uncomfortable there buying anything from a strap-on to lube. I can ask them ton of questions and they answer them all matter-of-factly. They have a section on bondage play for the novice to the pro.

2. NEED SOME S&M TRAINING? VISIT A DOMINATRIX WITH A FRIEND

Another really fun adventure for the daring, is to take a girlfriend and visit a dominatrix together. I did this once with my friend, Melissa, and we had a great time. The dominatrix gave us a lesson in bondage and slapping. In fact, she told me I slapped too hard! I didn’t know there was such a thing. She said to mix it up with light kissing and blowing. It was better than a day at the spa! Both of us thought we knew a thing or two about sex, but we left feeling like neophytes and were excited to learn the ‘ropes’.

3. S&M TOYS YOU CAN FIND IN YOUR OWN HOME
Even if you live in a place where getting toys seems difficult, there is always the Internet. But it’s really fun to see what you have at home to use in S&M play. I’ve discovered all sorts of fun things to use with my lover: clothespins, duct tape, yoga straps, candles, etc. You never know what you might have in your closet. And you would be surprised by what a turn-on they can be for your man, as well. He might just be waiting for you to ask…

XOXOXOXO
DAPHNE

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HAVE A STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL ME AT bliss@blisswarrior.com
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Anna-dote March 20, 2008 at 10:35 am

I have to stop reading these at work! :)

The best part about Babeland is that all the toys and accessories are out of their boxes and out on the counters (with batteries in them) for you to turn on and touch so you can see how it works before you buy it. And the ladies that work there are amazing too!

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dragon March 20, 2008 at 10:37 am

That’s a great story, and great advice, too! How wonderful to finally find someone who gets it, who understands what you need. I’m still looking, myself…

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Ginormous Boobs March 20, 2008 at 1:05 pm

Your blog is GREAT!!!!!!!! Keep up the good work.

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Christina March 20, 2008 at 2:19 pm

wow! that sounds hot as hell! this kind of thing really peaks my interest, but i have never found anyone i was comfortable enough with to bring it up! This story makes it sound even better than i ever imagined! I might just have to suck it up and let my true self come out! Thanks for sharing!!

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Mardhi March 20, 2008 at 2:19 pm

WOW that sounds like fun!!! Man, now I’m all turned on… :)

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hey jude March 20, 2008 at 7:04 pm

yes, Babeland is the ultimate playground for women. I have become addicted to their PINK silicone lubricant, and their never-fails to thrill assortment of toys, vibes and bondage jewelry. Simply the best!

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kathy March 21, 2008 at 9:25 am

Well done.
This is very fucking hot – we want more!

Don’t forget your safety word…

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snarff snarff March 21, 2008 at 9:25 am

I used to be a dominatrix and that story turned me on so much. I miss the s and m play. My current partner doesn’t play like that anymore, boohoo…

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