CAN A THREESOME HELP YOU FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE?

by Miss Bliss

Talk to some couples, and they might just tell you that there is no such thing as the single bi-girl who enjoys threesomes. In fact, many couples call these girls “unicorns” because they are magical creatures that are impossible to find.

Or are they?

In my travels across the country brunching with bi-women, I have met many “unicorns” and, am here to tell you now, they definitely exist.

Some straight girls, and even some bi-girls in relationships, have no idea why a single girl would want to join a couple in bed. “Isn’t she being used,” women like to ask.

“Not at all,” I say to them. “Good group sex may just help that girl find her soul mate. Perhaps that’s why the single bi-girl is so hard to find. Shortly after a love affair with the right couple, she finds the man or woman of her life.”

CAN A THREESOME HELP YOU FIND TRUE LOVE?

1. COUPLES SPOIL YOU
The right couple will never make you pay for dinner (unless you REALLY want to), will treat you with the utmost dignity and respect, and will shower you with appreciation, adoration, and pretty lingerie. When two people treat you right, you learn to expect the same from dates. When you have high expectations, you attract the right partner who will also shower you with love.

2. THE BETTER THE SEX, THE BETTER YOU LOOK
What could be better for your health than hours of lovemaking with two people? Studies have shown the more sex you have, the healthier you become, the more attractive you are to other suitors, and the more confident you feel. Sitting alone on a Friday night does not bring you closer to the perfect partner, but being out with a couple might give you the glow that does.

3. COUPLES DON’T NEED ANYTHING FROM YOU
Contrary to the belief that couples are “using” single girls for their pleasure, couples are actually able to give more love to you than single boys/girls because they do not NEED you to fill their emotional gaps. Couples have each other to share work stress, financial fears, emotional dramas, and family problems; they don’t have to dump that stress on you. Instead, they can shower you with attention, affection, and appreciation without demanding anything from you. This helps you to appreciate future suitors who are available to truly love you, instead of those needy ones who want you to fix them.

4. THE BUSIER YOU ARE, THE MORE INTERESTING YOU BECOME
We all want to find a partner who is slightly “better” than we thought we could get. The ideal relationship happens when both partners feel they “won” and scored a partner who is light years beyond them. When you are between boy/girlfriends, dating a couple may just be that thing that makes you seem exceptional: (1) obviously, others want you, (2) you are independent, (3) you enjoy life, and (4) you aren’t sitting around waiting for the phone to ring. And, let’s face it, darling readers, what’s more interesting to a potential date than the single girl who dated a couple?

5. LEARN NEW SEXUAL TECHNIQUES TO PLEASE YOUR FUTURE PARTNER
One of the greatest reasons to be the single girl in a threesome, is you get to learn new sexual techniques. He can teach you how to better love a woman; she can teach you how to love a man (and a woman J). With more sexual confidence, you will appear more attractive to the right partner. When you finally start dating, you will amaze your new lover with the sexual techniques you learned from a weekend of splendor with a couple.

6. IMPROVE YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIP BY STUDYING ONE THAT WORKS
Another wonderful aspect of dating a couple is you have the opportunity to learn what makes their relationship successful. Studies have shown that couples in open relationships tend to communicate better and handle jealousy and envy issues better than couples in strictly monogamous relationships. So over dinner, watch how your couple talks to one another, supports each other, and actively loves one another. You may just be cracking the code to an amazing future relationship.

XOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR
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DEAREST READERS – THANK YOU FOR ALL THE KIND COMMENTS AND E-MAILS WHILE I WAS AWAY ON VACATION. I SO APPRECIATE YOUR WORDS AND SUPPORT. ALSO, ANOTHER BIG THANK YOU TO JUNGLE JANE AND CHRISTIAN HOLMES FOR TAKING CARE OF HOTEL BLISS WHILE I WAS AWAY. I AM THRILLED TO BE BACK AND CAN’T WAIT TO CONNECT WITH YOU ALL AGAIN. XOXOXOXO BLISS
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Karlita September 8, 2008 at 10:58 am

Awesome writing and SOOO soooo true!

I’ve been the single bi-girl, enjoying three-somes, and I’ve been one half of a couple enjoying three-somes (and foursomes!) and group sex is the best of the BEST!

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Rev. PLURall September 8, 2008 at 12:51 pm

As a girl who’s been both the unicorn, and the girl with a boyfriend who’s open to playing with a unicorn – I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this blog!

We all know the tired cliche of couples who are looking for a unicorn to “fix” their existing relationship with each other, usually at the unicorn’s detriment – but that doesn’t mean those couples who are referenced in your recent writing are as nonexistent as we feared the unicorn herself may be.

Positive experiences are more than just possible, they’re probable! Thanks for shedding the light on that little nugget of truth…

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Gi September 8, 2008 at 12:52 pm

Love it.
Right on !!!

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Krissy September 8, 2008 at 12:54 pm

You are so amazing! I love your brilliance and how easily you let it shine! Thank you for being you!

xoxo

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michelle September 8, 2008 at 9:44 pm

I just got home and dug into the hotel and I LOVE this blog! (and the new graphic, darling!)
My man and I look forward to finding the right girl to shower with adoration and respect and kinky sex and chocolate etc. We have a lot of overflowing love for each other. Plenty to share with woman who wants a fun and easy time with two people who want the best and most for her.

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diana September 9, 2008 at 9:53 am

Thank-you so much for this blog, Bliss! You know, I had figured that my threesome days were long over and that I had moved past all that “fooling around” years ago. Finally at this point in my life (many involvements with unavailables and 3 subsequent years of therapy) I am working on embracing what I want and deserve and will only settle for at this point–the REAL relationship–completely mutually loving, supporting, adoring, and respecting. And then I see all those words and more used in your description of what a truly loving couple will do for their unicorn. That’s what it is all about isn’t it—high expectations will bring high results! Wow—I hadn’t thought of threesomes in that context at all—such an eye opener! I think I’m going to put out some vibes and feelers for the right couple at this point of my journey!

Once again, thank-you so much for bringing this all to light for all of us on the road to that eventual mind blowing amazing relationship! And welcome back!!!

Big hugs~~

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dawn September 9, 2008 at 9:54 am

I agree whole-heartedly! I have been the “unicorn” multiple times in the past and would love the oppotunity again. Being part of a happy couple’s life and playtime is extremely rewarding. I find it more satisfying than a 1 on 1 relationship at times because there is no pressure about a relationship. They already have one and most of the time they are so eager to keep the “unicorn” happy that it takes very little effort on her part. Benefits can be reaped by all! Reading this made me really want to search harder for a new happy couple in my area to share and learn from. It sure makes the in between relationships time much more enjoyable. :)

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The Butterfly Temptress September 10, 2008 at 7:13 am

I have been the “unicorn” and I loved every second of it. Sometimes I wish it were that easy again. I know it can’t be, because my life has changed but I miss all the things you talked about.

An absolutely wonderful post.

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dragon September 12, 2008 at 7:49 pm

Great post, once again!
I have recently discovered that I am one of the ‘unicorns’; a wonderful couple who I was already friends with helped me with the discovery… And it’s been one of the best relationships I’ve ever been in. I am thoroughly hooked on threesomes now, and this writing is a perfect illustration of why. Thanks for another beautiful blog!

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Tom September 17, 2008 at 10:51 am

Very well said.
We are happily married for 12 years and don’t need fixing. Unicorns are worshiped.
Thank you for your posts from the silent eyes that feed our souls.
Much appreciation,
T in ( & W) L.V

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