BLISS BRUNCH DEBATE IN DETROIT

by Miss Bliss

Darling Readers,

Since I posted BE THE BIGIRL YOU WANT TO MEET, many amazing bliss girls have decided to GET OUT OF THEIR HOUSE AND MAKE A BIGIRL FRIEND. Brave bigirls are posting on Craigslist.com all around the country and inviting other bigirls to brunch.

It is not easy to put yourself out there and organize a social event for bigirls to meet one another. This amazing bliss warrior is doing just that, but started a bit of a firestorm in the process.

BI GIRLS WHO BRUNCH: update (please do not flag, this is not spam) – w4w – 28

*** So I have put together a group of three women so far, they are beautiful and intelligent, please read below if you need the details again and are interested ***

My goal is to create an exclusive group of beautiful, educated, bi-society women who can socialize, network, and meet on a monthly basis for Sunday brunch.

It will be absolutely no pressure, simply a gathering of women of like minds, and will allow the possibilities to lead where they may. Absolutely no men allowed to these gatherings. Ladies, if you have any male significant others whom you would like to include at some point, that will be up to the discretion of the beauty you might plan a meeting with at another time.

Looking forward to hearing from you. The typical rules apply:
no pic = no response
voice verification before locale is disclosed to you

I am being fair by including my own pictures here. I promise they are all me (I’m a former model) so the pictures were done professionally.

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AFTER THIS WAS PUBLISHED, A GIRL POSTED THIS:

RE: BI-GIRLS BRUNCH

how come it’s a requirement for me to be “beautiful” to have brunch with you three? what’s beauty anyways? I have a great heart, am sweet, smart, have a great job, but am not as “attractive” as some women in the “worlds eyes.”

Just because I am not as skinny or perfect as you (or the girl in those pictures) doesn’t mean I’m not beautiful on the inside. So what if I’m too tall, have nappy hair, am pretty big, wear glasses, and wear only Burkenstocks, eat pizza, and drink.

So again, I ask how come I’m not invited to your little brunch-in? I thought being bi was all I needed to have a bond with you all. but now it appears, you three (just like the rest of the world) requires that I have to be pretty too in order to fit in.

I hope that one day you find someone who likes you for what’s on your INSIDE(and not your perfect outside!) so you’ll know what knowing a TRULY GOOD PERSON is, instead of only knowing your snotty, skin-deep perfect friends. Maybe then you’ll regreat not having allowed me to attend your little brunch in.

AFTER THE RESPONSE WAS POSTED, ANOTHER GIRL POSTED THIS:

RE: re: BI-GIRLS BRUNCH – 27

Ok first of all, there’s no denying that you could be my PERFECt girl “too tall, have nappy hair, am pretty big, wear glasses, and wear only burkenstocks,
eat pizza, and drink” buuuut ignoring that…..who are you to get off being so judgmental on those three?

If you’re such a “sweet” person then how come you’re trying to tear down a sense of community that someone else is taking the time and care to build? You don’t know them, their lives, their personalities, or anything about them so what gives you the justification to attack their post?

and lastly, who are you to assume that the term “beautiful” used was only referring to “skin-deep” beauty? You’re just like everyone else out there who is so fucking fixated on beauty ONLY referring to looks. When will people start realizing that beauty without character is worthless?!

If you want people to start accepting you for “you,” then stop pre-judging everyone. My guess is if you would have emailed that poster she/they would have been more than happy to “invite” you to the brunch. You just didn’t give them the chance. Also, if they didn’t invite you, then who cares?! would you have wanted to be friends with them anyways?

ps. to the original poster (chick in those pics) I would totally go bi for you. CALL ME! (and please disregard everything I wrote about looks not mattering.) :p

THE NEXT DAY… THE ORIGINAL AUTHOR OF THE POST POSTED THIS:

ASSUMPTION AND BITTERNESS – 28

I have one point to address:

1) To the person that posted a response to the bi-girl brunch:

It saddens me that you are so defensive as to take that posting as a personal assault. Everyone has their preferences. Some women like “studs,” some like “bbw,” some might even wanna pop the cherry of a bi-curious chick, and that’s fine. No one ever puts that down, but there’s a definite double standard when someone who might be considered stereotypically attractive, would like to find the same for themselves. It is not a beautiful person who choses to be defensive, make assumptions about people they have never met and finally verbally attack them. I have one thought for you to take some time with please:

You have a double standard where it’s okay to assume that stereotypically attractive people = shallow personalities while at the same time you tell others to assume that because you may not be so stereotypically attractive, that means you automatically have a beautiful and omnipitent personality. Beautiful souls are much more introspective and tend to try to do away with double standards.

CONGRATULATIONS TO OUR DETROIT BLISS WARRIOR FOR WORKING HARD AND STAYING STRONG TO BRING BRILLIANT, BEAUTIFUL, BRIGHT BIGIRLS TOGETHER!

IF YOU ARE IN DETROIT AND WOULD LIKE TO RESPOND TO THE ORIGINAL POST, CLICK HERE.

IF YOU ARE ORGANIZING A BRUNCH OR ANY EVENT TO BRING BIGIRLS TOGETHER FOR FRIENDSHIP AND CONVERSATION, PROMOTE IT HERE. JUST SEND ME AN EMAIL WITH A LINK.

BLISS ALSO RECOMMENDS THE FOLLOWING WONDERFUL BLOG, CREATED BY ANOTHER BLISS GIRL, ABOUT THE TRUE LIFE STORIES OF A SEX WORKER:
SAYING IT ALL

PEACE AND LOVE TO ALL MY AMAZING BLISS WARRIORS.
YOUR EMAILS AND COMMENTS MAKE ALL OF THIS SO VERY WORTHWHILE.

NOW GO OUTSIDE AND FLIRT WITH A GIRL!

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