STRAP-ON SOME VIBRATION

by Miss Bliss

Many bi girls fantasize about pleasing their partners with a strap-on, but sometimes the fantasy does not live up to reality.  Traditional strap-ons can be disappointing because often the wearer feels little to no sensation when penetrating a partner.  Since the wearer cannot feel much, she may worry that she is penetrating her partner too hard, too deep, or not enough.   Without sensation, the wearer can also tire easily because her special parts are not being stimulated during intercourse.  So how does a girl resolve these issues and give her lover the right royal rogering she deserves?

The answer may just come in the form of a bullet – a wireless vibrating bullet that is.

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Dildos are now being sold with a pocket at their base to hold battery-operated bullet vibrators.  The vibrator sends waves of stimulation to the wearer’s clitoris which (1) ensures the wearer’s special parts are deliciously teased and tormented, which (2) makes her want to take her lover from behind, standing up, from the side, scissored, etc., which (3) makes her so crazed with desire she may just forget to worry about how she’s penetrating her lover and just keep on doing it until her partner squeals with delight.

A vibrating strap-on also gives extra pleasure to the receiver because it sends sensual waves up the shaft of the dildo.  Also, if the receiver is on top, she can grind into her lover, ensuring both partners feel even more intense sensation.

As I discussed in my post Strap-On Some Etiquette, strap-on play is not necessarily a first date activity.  A male member attached to a girl’s body can feel awkward initially, so I recommend waiting to use one with a truly trustworthy and beloved partner.   The right partner is the girl who will tell you what feels good and will giggle sweetly when awkward things happen.

TIPS FOR A GIRL STRAPPING ON A DILDO WITH A BULLET VIBRATOR

1. CHOOSE A SILICONE DILDO THAT COMES WITH A BULLET VIBRATOR
High-end adult toy stores carry a variety of silicone dildos that are sold with bullet vibrators.  The Tantus line of silicone vibrators offer a variety of sizes, shapes and curves.  Be sure to choose a dildo that is long enough not to slip out easily and curved to find her secret spots.   Silicone is wonderful because it can be cleaned and sterilized in the dishwasher (just make sure to remove the vibrating bullet first!)

2. USE A WATER-BASED LUBRICANT
Although saliva is always a natural and sweet way to lube up your strap-on, sometimes a girl needs more moisture to ensure she slides in and out of her partner easily.  Water-based lubricants work well with condoms and silicone, are easy to clean up and are the gentlest on the body.  If you are prone to yeast infections, make sure to use a glycerin-free lube as glycerin has been proven to increase the risk of infection.

3.  USE A LITTLE LUBE WHEN INSERTING THE BULLET INTO THE DILDO
When you first purchase your new vibrating bullet, twist it open and remove the plastic that keeps the batteries from operating.  Screw it back together and then apply a little lube to it before inserting it into the dildo.  The lube will make it much easier to remove the bullet later.  Also, make sure to buy extra batteries because nothing is worse than being right on the verge of climaxing only to discover your bullet has run out of power.

4.  MAKE SURE THE VIBRATOR IS ON AND SECURELY IN PLACE
At the base of the bullet is a little button that turns on the vibrator when pressed.  Unfortunately, if the button is pressed again during intercourse, the vibe will turn off.  To make sure that your bullet does not keep turning on and off at inopportune moments, make sure to insert the end with the on/off button into the dildo first.  Keep inserting it until the button is pushed on and the vibrator is securely in place.

5. FIND THE BEST SPOTS FOR THE BASE OF THE VIBRATING DILDO
As the wearer, it will take a little practice to discover the best spot for the dildo to rest.  The good news is the more the wearer plays with moving the dildo in and out and around her partner, the easier it will be to find the spots that give her pleasure, too.   Experiment, communicate and play!

XOXOOXXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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NEXT WEEK I WILL POST A BLOG WITH TIPS FOR THE RECEIVING PARTNER…  EVEN IF SHE IS NOT WEARING THE VIBRATING DILDO, SHE CAN CERTAINLY MAXIMIZE HER PARTNER’S PLEASURE AND JOY WITH A FEW KEY MOVES.
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Rio April 22, 2009 at 6:36 am

Agree – the right partner will speak up and giggle with you

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DevilDoll April 27, 2009 at 4:50 pm

You do make me want to choose from my collection and strap one on..xoxo!!!

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Sex Toys, Adam & Eve December 1, 2009 at 10:16 pm

Thanks for the tips – it’s not often that you find information on proper strap-on etiquette and handling. But it’s just oh so handy ;)

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