MY FIRST DATE WITH A GIRL

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Dear Miss Bliss,

I am deeply intrigued by your blogs and actually have a few questions of my own.

Tonight is my very first date with a girl. I am rather excited, I might add. I am not openly bi with my family but have recently been open about it with some of my close friends. I don’t really have anyone to talk to from the gay community other than my gay boss :) and that can be weird.

I assume when I take my date out tonight that it will be Dutch but how do I really know? Do I bring her flowers?

Thanks for reading,
NERVOUS & EXCITED

Dear Nervous & Excited,

Congratulations on your first date with a girl. You most definitely deserve to be excited and after you read this, I bet you’ll feel a lot less nervous.

1. DRESS UP FOR YOUR DATE
A friend of mine showed up to a date with a girl and wore her most stylish dress. The girl showed up in sweatpants. Even though she was cute, my friend lost interest because she felt the girl had not taken the date seriously.

Get out your best lace thigh high stockings, a tasteful garter belt, and a lacy dress. Dress like you would like your date to dress. I bet you both show up looking stunning!

2. A CALM AND CONFIDENT GIRL IS AN ATTRACTIVE GIRL
Make sure to arrive at least 15 minutes early so you can take some time in your car, or in the bathroom, to breathe and get centered. The calmer and more relaxed you are, the sexier and more confident you will be to your date.

If you catch yourself feeling nervous during the date, take time to make direct eye contact with her. Eye contact will center you and it will be easier to focus on her instead of your nervousness.

3. SPOIL HER WITH ROMANCE
Bringing flowers is a great idea. It is always better to be uber romantic. A small, sweet gift like a rhinestone small hair clip or an anklet bracelet can be fun, too. The idea is treat her in the way you would like to be treated and she will turn around and do the same for you.

4. A GOOD LISTENER IS A GREAT CONVERSATIONALIST
Studies have shown that the more you listen and ask questions, the more your date will consider you a good conversationalist. Ask her detailed questions about her life. Often, the less you talk about yourself, the sexier you appear. The more intriguing you seem, the more she will want to ask you about your life.

Make sure to take the time to be honest about who you are, what you are seeking in a lover (or girlfriend), and be sure to be sincere and truthful. The more grounded and real you are, the more she will know who you really are, and your real self, is your most beautiful self.

If you are married or have a boyfriend, it is essential that you make sure she knows this right away. Make sure to ask her about her status, too, if she has not shared it with you.

5. A GREAT DATE PAYS FOR DINNER
Girls always love it if you pay. She may try to split it, and I recommend you say, “Why don’t you pay next time?” This way, you get a second date while treating her like the goddess she is. Remember a date you went on where you were treated like a princess and give that experience to your date.

6. SEND A THANK YOU EMAIL
It is not a good idea to run home and ask her when you will “hook up” or “do it”. Too much pressure to move it towards sex right away can scare a girl off. But of course you know that. Just let her know you had a good time. Make sure to include a detail about the date that was special. Remember, she is insecure too, and may not know if you liked her or not. Let her know she was lovely and that you look forward to the next meeting.

7. BE YOURSELF AND ENJOY YOURSELF
Remember to have fun. A happy girl is a beautiful girl, and joy is irresistible. What do you say, ladies?

xoxoxoxoxo
Bliss

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Sybille January 11, 2008 at 9:16 pm

Bravo, Bliss…dress up, be yourself, smile, eye contact…the only thing I think you didn’t directly say is be sincere.

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Miss Bliss January 11, 2008 at 9:16 pm

sensational sybille…
you are so very right!
i updated the blog and it is much better.
thanks for the comment.
xoxoxoxoox
bliss

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Sybille January 11, 2008 at 9:17 pm

;) good, open communication from the start ensures no headaches later *hugs*

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Maureen January 11, 2008 at 9:17 pm

Go with your heart and instinct. You can’t ever lose with flowers. Just relax and go with it..feel things out. I’ll be sending good vibes your way and would love a report afterwards. ;)

Maureen

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Miss Heather January 11, 2008 at 9:17 pm

Fantastic advice not just for dating but for life too. Well done.

xoxo

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