Posts tagged as:

friends

WHEN YOUR STRAIGHT FRIENDS FIND OUT

April 10, 2010
Thumbnail image for WHEN YOUR STRAIGHT FRIENDS FIND OUT

“I told my friends I’m bi!” Melanie is smiling from ear to ear, and she is utterly adorable.

“That’s wonderful, sweetie,” I say, “What did they say?”

Melanie is a baby bigirl. Only a year before, this 23 year-old redhead discovered the joy of being with a girl. “You will not believe what Bethanie said.” Bethanie is Melanie’s best friend from college.

“What? Did she freak out?”

“Not at all! It ends up she’s bi, too!” Melanie is stirring her water and lime and I cannot take my eyes of her lace-framed cleavage.

“How long has she been bi?”

CLICK HERE TO READ MORE…

Read the full article →

ASK MISS BLISS – HOW DO I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?

March 10, 2010
Thumbnail image for ASK MISS BLISS – HOW DO I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?

Hi, Miss Bliss,

I have a question on how to deal with explaining my lifestyle to friends. I am only out to a few of my friends as bisexual. And it’s not something I want to tell everyone I come across, because I feel although it is an important part of who I am, it is not the only defining part of who I am.

I am happily married and bi and my husband and I have a girlfriend that comes to visit us a couple times a year. Not only is she our lover but she is one of my closest and dearest friends. So it is more than just physical.

I guess my question is what is the best way to explain this to another friend?

Read the full article →

AM I BISEXUAL BECAUSE OF MY HUSBAND?

Tales From The Los Angeles Brunch

April 7, 2009
Thumbnail image for AM I BISEXUAL BECAUSE OF MY HUSBAND?<br /></br>Tales From The Los Angeles Brunch

“Wait… You’re from Afghanistan,” asks a girl with curls. “Are there a lot of bisexuals there?”

“Well, I left Afghanistan when I was four, so it’s hard for me to know,” says Asalah. She then adds with a teasing grin, “But it is a country where men take multiple wives…”

Read the full article →

BRUNCH WITH BLISS IN HOLLYWOOD

March 4, 2009
Thumbnail image for BRUNCH WITH BLISS IN HOLLYWOOD

Ladies, one of the number one complaints I hear from bi-girls is there is no community. There was a time when I thought it was impossible to have a group of intelligent, lovely, talented and kind bisexual girl friends in Los Angeles, but that is no longer the case. Thanks to Bliss Warrior, I have met many wonderful bi women in LA and have developed deep and fun friendships with them.

Read the full article →

WHY I CREATED THIS BLOG

October 7, 2008
Thumbnail image for WHY I CREATED THIS BLOG

“I finally wrote a blog that the straight girls hated.  I always post my blogs in a couple of places – on my commercial site, myspace and this site, thisisby, for writers.  As far as I can tell, the writer site is just straight folks, and because they are writers, they can be a bit [...]

Read the full article →

WHEN YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND OUT

September 15, 2008
Thumbnail image for WHEN YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND OUT

Last November, I posted a blog entitled, “When Your Straight Friends Find Out” which discussed the four most common reactions girls have when you come out as bisexual.  But your male friends also react in all sorts of ways when they find out you are bi.   Here’s a list of the seven most common male [...]

Read the full article →

WHAT SHE FORGOT – ANOTHER FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY

September 14, 2008

“Hey, girl, sit at the bar and I’ll be right over,” she says as she carries a tray of drinks to a booth in the back. You watch her hips switch back and forth as she walks away and am once again overwhelmed by her casual beauty.

At the bar, you pull up a stool and wonder if you overdressed. Maybe you should have worn jeans; it seems a little silly to be hanging with a girl in her workplace in a tight black dress and platform heels. [...]

Read the full article →

TOO YOUNG FOR MONOGAMY – Tales From the Seattle Brunch

August 11, 2008
Thumbnail image for TOO YOUNG FOR MONOGAMY – Tales From the Seattle Brunch

“I’m in an open relationship,” says Geneva. Eight bisexual women have come together for brunch, community and friendship on a rare sunny day in Seattle. This is my first trip to the great state of Washington, and in the last twenty-four hours I have fallen in love with Seattle’s mountains, hills, trees, and clean sparkling [...]

Read the full article →

She Danced Into My Fairytale – Part Three – A Baby Bi-Girl Shares Her First Time

July 29, 2008
Thumbnail image for She Danced Into My Fairytale – Part Three – A Baby Bi-Girl Shares Her First Time

Saturday morning the ballerina was the first thing on my mind. My man and I had our coffee and breakfast together and he headed out to work in the yard. I took a walk down to Danya’s. I had to talk to a girl. I was overflowing from the night before. My face was blushed and I was silly with excitement for this human. I slipped into Danya’s little house and fell onto a pile of pillows on her floor. She knew. [...]

Read the full article →

SPIN THE BOTTLE – THE CONCLUSION

July 11, 2008

“I think these are straight gin,” giggles Carina, handing you and George tall glasses full of ice and clear liquid. “I made the mistake of pouring the gin first and I’m so drunk… Let’s just say, it left little space for tonic.”

She leaves to collect her drink from the kitchen as you and George linger on Carina’s bed, sipping your drinks. If they are straight gin, you are too drunk to notice [...]

Read the full article →