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ASK MISS BLISS – HOW DO I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?

March 10, 2010
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Hi, Miss Bliss,

I have a question on how to deal with explaining my lifestyle to friends. I am only out to a few of my friends as bisexual. And it’s not something I want to tell everyone I come across, because I feel although it is an important part of who I am, it is not the only defining part of who I am.

I am happily married and bi and my husband and I have a girlfriend that comes to visit us a couple times a year. Not only is she our lover but she is one of my closest and dearest friends. So it is more than just physical.

I guess my question is what is the best way to explain this to another friend?

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EVEN NEW YORKERS ARE FIGHTING PROP. 8 – A BRUNCH TALE

December 11, 2008
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“It shocked me when I learned Prop. 8 had passed,” says a woman named Helen with long hair and kind eyes.  “I thought when Obama won, Prop. 8 would fail.” “A lot of people did,” I say.  It is a quiet and cold November afternoon in Manhattan, and six bisexual women have come together to [...]

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EVEN CANADIANS WATCH THE L-WORD – TALES FROM TORONTO, PART 2

June 11, 2008
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“Do you watch the L-Word,” asks the lovely Marcela, a German-Spanish Canadian. “I certainly do,” I say. “There’s nothing I love to hate more than the L-Word.” Seven bi-girls have met on a sunny Saturday in June for conversation, community and fun. Already, the food has been eaten, drinks have been downed, and strangers have [...]

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FOLLOW MY RULES – PART II

May 16, 2008

ANOTHER FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY BY BLISS WARRIOR TO HELP YOU SLEEP MORE SOUNDLY This is part 2 of a two part story. Missed Follow My Rules Part I? CLICK HERE to catch up. “My martinis are better than any restaurants.” “Really,” you ask, aware of his need to impress you. “How lucky for me [...]

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FOLLOW MY RULES – PART I

April 25, 2008

You study them both with curious eyes. She is adorable, a little older than you, but with a youthful glow and energy that makes you like her. He is harder to read. You aren’t sure if he is nervous, angry, or just doesn’t know how to act. Deciding he must just be uncomfortable, you lose a little respect for him and even more desire. [...]

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BISEXUALS ARE NO LONGER CONFUSED

January 23, 2008
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Last week, the American Psychological Association announced the findings that bisexual women are not “confused”, or in a transitional phase to become lesbian. According to Lisa Diamond, an associate professor of psychology and gender studies at the University of Utah, the bisexual identity is a stable sexual preference and bi women continue to be attracted [...]

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ONE FRENCH AFTERNOON – A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY

January 18, 2008

Selma knocks on the door and you let her in. “Don’t you just love French afternoons,” she purrs with dramatic flair. She kisses you on the lips and kisses your man on the cheek. She wanders slowly into the apartment, studying the room while filling it with her ginger and grapefruit scent. She is older [...]

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CAN FRIENDS BE LOVERS AND FRIENDS AGAIN?

December 7, 2007
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I light her cigarette and George inhales. She looks incredible in the silver metallic dress I made and as she smokes in front of the mirror, she twists and turns and admires herself. “Why isn’t this shit in a store,” she says, and I take a moment to realize I am having a marvelous time [...]

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ASK MISS BLISS – WHAT TO DO WITH UNEXPRESSED DESIRES

November 28, 2007

Dear Miss Bliss, I have recently explored my bisexual side with my husband’s approval. He is my best friend and I believe in honesty and trust. I would never go outside of my wonderful marriage without his approval. The problem is my bisexuality has sent him on an emotional rollercoaster. With his approval, I have [...]

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ASK MISS BLISS – MARRIED TO A MAN AND IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN

October 30, 2007

Hi, Bliss Warrior, I’m Bi myself. I made my fantasy a reality about a year ago. Now, I am in love with a girl and I am also married to a man. I find myself really confused about just how honest I should be with my husband. I know that the only way he would [...]

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