I am a happily married- bi woman that is blessed enough to be in a relationship with a man who is cool with me being with other women sexually with or without him in the picture. However, he always wants to know and no secrets. The key is honesty and communication. Not cool to cheat.

Would you want it happening to you?

Just this weekend I had the sexiest conversation I’ve ever had with my man. He’s known for a while now that I’m open to a threesome, but we never talked directly about bisexuality. We did on Sunday! It started like this: We always ask each other “What are you thinking about” whenever one of us clearly dozes off into daydreams. Saturday night he asked me and it totally caught me off guard. I was thinking about you and this online world and all the wonderful conversations I’ve been having with like minded females recently. I usually tell him EVERYTHING, but this time i felt nervous/embarrassed and told him “i can’t remember now, nothing imparticular” Which was clearly a lie. He tried to pry at first, but let it go. That bothered me. I don’t lie to him and I like that when we ask each other “what are you thinking?” we always answer honestly. So Sunday I had to make it up for it. Over our favorite french pressed coffee in our kitchen I brought it up. I said “Clearly I was thinking about something last night.” and he said “I know, what was it?” Deep breath: I told him that I read your blogs and I have a new understanding about bisexuality and feminine energy. I told him that I’m ready to use the word bi for the first time and that you and all these lovely confident women are the reason. I ALSO told him that I love him dearly and he is number one in my life. I want to grow old with him, have children with him, travel the world together, and experience total bliss in our sexual life. I said a lot. He asked a lot of questions. I answered all of them honestly. I asked him how he feels about everything and he took a deep breath and gave the most genuine, sexy response of any question I’ve ever asked him. He said, “I think you are a very sexual human and I see that you are comfortable in it and I am proud to see you grow into your sexual identity as a woman. I think it’s wonderful and normal. Women are beautiful creatures, how could you not want to be sexual with them. I am just happy that I get to be a part of it. It’s very exciting. I don’t care about fucking another girl, I like the idea of seeing you do it.”
I was completely horny for the rest of the day. Everytime we looked at each other we smiled with a new sense of excitement. I feel even more free and open around him now. I didn’t think I could be anymore in love with him that what I was, but WOW! It’s a new peak.
Honesty is how love grows!

Thanks again Miss Bliss.

I am a bi-girl in a married relationship and am completely honest with my man. Of course, all men are different but here’s what I’ve found:

My man loves that I’m attracted to women. Of course, you must approach it the right way. “Honey I want to have a girlfriend so I can be properly satisfied.” for example, is not a good way to approach him. During sex, when both of you are really into it…you could say: “I just had a really naughty thought…” that, of course is a good start, “would it turn you on at all to think about me playing with ((or kissing or touching or having suck your tit)) another girl?” … shed a good light on it and show him how it could be a good thing for him. And maybe you don’t want him involved in your girly curiosity and fun…but could he be persuaded if he was promised to later find out EVERY detail while you play with him?

Something to think about, ladies.

As always great blog, Bliss – Hugs and Kisses!