CRUSHING ON THE TAKEN GIRL - A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
Written by Jungle Jane on May 8, 2008 – 10:53 am -Tall shoes, short dress, long hair, polished, and glossy.
Fresh from head to toe? No!
It can’t be the same girl with what seemed to be day old dirt
crammed under her nails and outling her cuticles.
Her legs are shaved?! I assumed wrong.
Her hair is so shiny. So unlike the dull dirty brown I saw matted to the sweat on her face.
As cute as she was there dirty with a pick in her hand, I brushed her off as not my type.
Tonight she smelled like the tropical flowers in her garden.
Not like how she smelled while planting those tropical flowers.
Thinking back, how could I have mistaken that sweaty scent for anything less than pure sex?
How could I have missed her natural radiant beauty?
Was I blinded by the sun as I stood so close to the equator?
Does she carry the equator with her between her legs?
She looks like poetry and speaks in stanzas with no rhyme.
Or at least that is how I read her.
I watched her as she walked around her new yard
with an expression on her face like she lost something
when she sees me, her expression changes, relaxes
She says ‘Hi’ to me in a relieved tone of voice.
“There you are”, I say, “I was looking for you.”
She smiles and turns her head slightly
as she slips her hair behind her ear.
A silence passed while we held eye contact.
“I forgot what I wanted,” I said
She gave me a shy smile as her cheeks blushed.
He came up from behind, wrapped his arms around her waist, and kissed her blushed cheek.
She introduced him to me with apologetic eyes.
I shook his hand and studied his face.
I looked at him then at her then back at him.
Trying hard to reserve judgement,
I wondered if those apologetic eyes were for me or for herself.
The girl disappeared for minute to pace around her new yard,
again like she lost something.
The boy and I sat to get to know each other on their porch
I was skeptical, hyper aware of his personal hygiene,
but holding out hope for great redeeming qualities
There had to be something special about this guy.
He had her.
I can say now that she is the special thing about the guy.
And that is about it.
When she comes to my house, she lingers.
I want her to stay and she stays.
Her eyes remind me of Venus.
I wish she didn’t have to go home.
Somewhere inside her, she wishes she didn’t have to either.
Why do women settle? I realize that I do not know the details of my girlfriend’s relationship with her man, but I can feel her sadness. I can see that the spark is there and then it isn’t when he comes around. It makes me want to hold her. I want her to see her own beauty. I want her to be appreciated. Ultimately it is none of my business so I keep my distance.
On the special occasions where we get to sit down and have girl talk over glasses of red wine and loaded bowls, I make sure she knows I’m here for her if she needs a friend. My hand is out to her and she can hold it whenever she wants.
XOXOOXOX
Jungle Jane
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SHALL WE PLAY A GAME?
Written by Miss Bliss on May 7, 2008 – 9:40 am -For my 33rd birthday, I decided to have a slumber party. I invited my six sexiest bi-girl friends and told them they had to come in lingerie. These friends did not know one another, but they trusted me to invite girls like them: smart, sexy, savvy bi-girls.
My man and I spent an entire week getting the apartment ready for the big fest. I covered the floor in red and purple satin cushions and balloons draped ribbons from the ceiling. Candles were everywhere and the music playlist was just right - setting the stage for a sensational event. It was the slumber party I couldn’t have imagined as a little girl, but always wished could happen as an adult.
But before the girls could come to the party, I asked them to help me plan for the main event: THE GAME.
Even when girls know each other are bi, it is tricky to feel comfortable enough to be their open, flirtatious selves until they feel they KNOW the other girls. Many bi-girls are not used to being the aggressor, so they can be shy even when they are with other open girls. With my man’s assistance, we created a game to help my friends get to know one another while ensuring the conversation did not revolve around boring small talk.
A few days before the party, I e-mailed each of the girls three questions and asked them to e-mail me their answers before the day of the party.
The questions were:
1. WHAT IS THE NAUGHTIEST THING YOU’VE EVER DONE?
2. WHAT IS A FANTASY THAT YOU HAVE MASTURBATED TO?
3. HOW DO YOU COME? (OR, WHAT MAKES YOU CLIMAX?)
Each girl sent me their answers, and I printed them out in the same font onto individual index cards. When the girls arrived, we began to play the game.
The first round was, “What is the naughtiest thing you’ve ever done?”
We sat on the satin cushions in a circle, and the first girl picked one of the index cards and read the answer printed on it. She then had to guess who had written the answer. If she guessed right, she got to dare the girl to do something. If she guessed incorrectly, the girl who wrote the answer got to dare her to do something.
It was incredibly fun and interesting to contrast first impressions with the daring, sexy and hot answers on the cards. Did the shy blonde have sex with a coworker on the conference table during lunch? Did the vivacious, bubbly brunette cut school to make out with her best friend?
Soon, the girls felt like they knew each other very well. And, the dares became more and more daring.
Let’s just say… we never got to round 3.
1. WANT TO PLAY THE GAME?
Starting next Monday, we are playing the game at Hotel Bliss. If you are already a member, log in and e-mail me with your answer to the first question, “What is the naughtiest thing you’ve ever done?” If you aren’t a member yet, click here and sign up to be a beta tester at the Hotel Bliss slumber party. Membership is completely and totally free to all fabulous females.
Obviously, we cannot dare each other to do things in the cyber-world, but this is an excellent way to get to know other bi and bi-friendly girls in a new and fun way. Besides, you may just learn how naughty you and the girls around you, really are!
2. ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO JOIN THE GAME
We already have a bunch of Hotel Bliss guests who are game to play. You can help encourage others to play by commenting here saying you are in the game, too.
3. DO NOT POST YOUR ANSWER HERE AS IT WILL GIVE THE ANSWER AWAY.
E-mail me your answer to the first question through the hotel or directly to bliss@blisswarrior.com ASAP. The sooner I receive your answer, the faster you will be in the game.
4. THE GAME STARTS MONDAY, MAY 12th.
Starting next Monday, I will post one answer a day along with five of the participant names. By checking out the five girls hotel rooms can you figure out which girl wrote the answer? The first girl to guess who wrote the answer will be highlighted as a Hotel Bliss Goddess and, if they desire, they can ask a “truth” question to the author of the answer. Each day a new answer will be posted, along with five new participants, until we’ve posted them all and are ready for question number two.
Don’t be shy, girls. We all want to answer the question, “How do I meet a bi-girl?” The Hotel Bliss Party Game is the best way to get to know other bi-girls and make new fabulous friends.
Comment here to show you are game and encourage your friends to do the same.
XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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BEEN WONDERING WHERE BLISS HAS BEEN THIS LAST WEEK? I’VE BEEN MOVING TO A LOVELY 1920′S HOLLYWOOD COTTAGE, WITH A SWEET YARD FULL OF JASMINE AND HUMMINGBIRDS. MY MAN, MY CATS AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER, BUT I AM GLAD TO BE BACK AT WORK!
XOXOXOXOX BW
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TOMORROW: JUNGLE JANE RETURNS WITH A NEW POST ON BEING A BABY BI-GIRL
FRIDAY: FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORIES RETURN WITH FOLLOW MY RULES, PART II
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BE THE BI-GIRL YOU WANT TO MEET
Written by Miss Bliss on November 3, 2007 – 8:47 pm -Magical, marvelous, mystical bi-girls,
In the last week, I have received emails from bi-girls complaining that it is impossible to meet other cool girls through the internet. Dating is never an easy enterprise, and learning to date closeted bi-girls is a particularly specialized art. The first step is to be the bi-girl you want to meet.
Lovely, luminous Kendra told me that she met a girl she liked on myspace and the two of them hit it off, emailing back and forth flirtatiously for a week. The vibe was there. Kendra found the girl to be funny, sweet and cool and asked if she would like to meet for tea. The girl said she would love to meet Kendra, and the date was set.
On the day of the date, Kendra woke up early to make herself gorgeous. She took a long bath, perfumed herself, painted her toes, curled her hair, and put on a new turquoise dress. Devastatingly hot and full of excited confidence, Kendra arrived early and waited to meet this new friend and potential lover.
But the girl never showed.
Maybe she did come, saw Kendra, wasn’t attracted to her and fled…
Maybe she freaked out because of her own insecurity and did not have the guts to show up and be rejected…
Maybe she was a pic-collecting guy pretending to be a girl, so he couldn’t show up…
BUT…
This girl never realized how insecure this made Kendra.
This girl taught Kendra that bigirls are not reliable or respectful of others.
This girl made Kendra feel humiliated.
This girl made Kendra want to give up her search for a bigirl lover.
BE THE BEST BI-GIRL YOU CAN BE
1. IF YOU MAKE A DATE, KEEP THE DATE
Sometimes bi-girls get so caught up in the potential for sex, that they forget to enjoy the date. It can be lonely being a bigirl, and a date is an opportunity to have a conversation about topics that cannot necessarily be discussed with straight friends.
2. IF YOU MEET HER, AREN’T ATTRACTED TO HER, YOU CAN STILL HAVE A GREAT TIME
Many bi-girls do not want to go out and meet their cyber-bi-girl-pals because they are worried that they will show up at the date and not be attracted to the girl. This happens.
However, I am personally tired of girls assuming a date equals sex. Just because two girls are open sexually does not mean that every encounter with another girl has to be sexual. It might be, if the connection is strong and the vibe is right…. But the only way to know that is to meet the person.
So go out. If you don’t connect with the girl sexually, maybe you will intellectually or emotionally, or… MAYBE SHE IS A GIRL YOU CAN GO OUT WITH TO PICK UP NEW GIRLS. You never know what will happen, but nothing will happen if you stay in your safe little home with your laptop.
3. DON’T FREAK OUT WHEN A BI-GIRL ASKS YOU OUT
Many bi-girls write me and I try to respond to everyone I can. Sometimes girls write, “If you’re in town, let’s meet up.” Because I love meeting new bi-girls of all types, (not to sleep with necessarily, but because I believe bigirls are simply the most fabulous women on the planet and definitely the most interesting girls to talk to), I say, “Sure, I’ll be there next month. Let’s have tea.” Some girls say, great, and we set a date.
But some baby bi-girls freak out and never write back, worrying that a date for tea will somehow force them into group sex or a porn shoot or BDSM or something.
The next time you receive a girl’s invitation to go out, try to think about how scary it must be to reach out to a virtual stranger. Think about how nice it is to meet new people without fearing that they will be crazy psychos. Go with the hope that you will at least meet an interesting person and have a good talk, and maybe you will be surprised and meet someone that you connect with. And, if the girl does end up being a crazed sociopath, you will have a story that will entertain others for months.
LOVE BEING BI
LOVE OTHERS FOR BEING BI
REACH OUT AND MAKE A BI FRIEND.
OXOXOXXOXOXOXO
BLISS
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ASK MISS BLISS - THE ART OF FLIRTATION
Written by Miss Bliss on October 22, 2007 – 6:26 pm -Dear Miss Bliss,
I’m not the most sociable person, but I’m working on getting out more. Now that I’m trying to find a girl that might be interested in me (or me and my boyfriend), I’m running into my biggest road block: flirting. My biggest problem is I tend to send the wrong signals. I don’t even realize when people are flirting with me, so I’m never sure how or when to flirt back. I’m sure when some of these things are explained to me, I’ll slap my forehead and think, “Oh… They were flirting?!”
So my question is, what are proper steps of flirting? What are the do’s and the dont’s? What’s too much, not enough, or just plain wrong? This is for flirting with other girls, as I’m happy with my boyfriend.
XOXOXOXOX,
Afraid to Flirt
Dearest Fearful Flirter…
In a writing class of mine, a lovely thin Irish girl was reading a true story about being lesbian in Los Angeles. “You can always tell when a girl is straight,” she read,”because straight girls cannot maintain eye contact.” After she finished her funny, moving piece, I came up to her and looked her straight in the eye and said I adored her work. As we were leaving the class, she gave me a folded up piece of paper with her phone number tucked neatly inside.
FLIRTING STARTS WITH THE EYES
As girls and young women, we often look away when we catch someone looking at us. To be an effective girl-flirt, however, it is time to start opening your eyes and making contact. The next time you and your boyfriend are out at a restaurant, take a moment to study the people around you. Find a girl who you think is cute. Don’t worry if she is straight or married or gay or if she’ll like you; just take a moment to appreciate a girl whose loveliness caught your eye. When she senses you are looking at her, she will look up. Do not look away. Hold her gaze and send her warmth. Watch her turn her eyes away quickly, but keep looking. Wait until you catch her looking at you again to see if you are still looking at her. If she keeps looking at you, she is flirting with you.
Another great place to practice flirting with you eyes is at a dance club. While you are dancing with your friends or your man, try to catch and hold the gaze of other dancing girls. Pretty soon, one will be coming over to dance with you.
A GOOD FLIRT GIVES TRUE COMPLEMENTS
Whenever I am out and about, I flirt with girls. Sometimes I am attracted to them, sometimes I am not. Attraction does not matter to me, because I flirt with women to make them feel appreciated and special in that moment. The key to being a good flirt (while avoiding being a transparent flatterer) is being truthful and detailed when giving complements.
For example, let’s just say you are waiting in line at the local grocery store and there is a stunning, athletic brunette waiting in front of you. It would freak her out if you said out of nowhere, “You are hot!” Plus, you would be exactly like every other creepy guys who said something like that to her that week. Take a moment and study her. What made her stand out to you? Does she have shiny, thick hair? Is she wearing the cutest top you’ve ever seen?
When she turns to grab a magazine and sees you, give her a truthful, detailed complement like, “You must be told all the time how gorgeous your hair is. Where do you get it done? I would never stop looking at myself if I had hair as pretty as yours.” Can you see the brunette blushing, mumbling a surprised thank you? Soon, she is telling you all about her fabulous hair stylist. By the time she has to pay, you have already made a foxy new friend. Plus, you feel great because you made another woman feel good.
FLIRT AND GIVE LOVE TO ALL WOMEN
Nothing feels as good as a meaningful complement from a fellow girl, and a complement with eye contact feels even better. Practice these two techniques on all women you come into contact with and you will become a practiced flirt. Eventually, you will be able to flirt effortlessly with girls you really like.
But more importantly, you will make a lot of women feel appreciated, adored, and admired. This, in my opinion, is what bigirls are on this planet to do.
XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS
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HAVE YOU LOVED A GIRL TODAY?
Written by Miss Bliss on March 20, 2007 – 6:52 pm -Have you loved a girl today?
As you walked home from work, did you see her? Did you see her white chopped hair and big black eyes? Did you see the pink blush of her lips, the slight worry in her forehead, her hands holding a patent-leather bag? When she stopped at the corner waiting for the light to change, did you turn to her and say, “You are a French movie postcard come alive. A starlet. A vision.”
And when she lifted her eyes back at you, wary that you’re some jerk trying to steal her magic… slowly, under lined lashes, she studied you. A girl like her, with long red hair, fierce bangs, and a really cute double-breasted coat. She smiled. You smiled. The light changed and she crossed the street. Did you see her walk lighten? Did you see her smile to herself?
Flirting with girls is a great way to give love.
Try it.
Tell me what happens.
xoxoxoxo
bliss warrior
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FOXY GIRLS SAY THANK YOU
Written by Miss Bliss on February 12, 2007 – 6:03 pm -
Darling girls around the globe…
When some young woman or man comes up to you and says, “Your hair is beautiful,” take a moment, and say, “Thank you.”
This may seem a simple thing, but you would be surprised how hard it is for some women to accept a complement. Just the other day, I watched a friend of mine perform in a crowded black box theatre. Her piece was wonderful-funny, smart, charming- and the audience loved her. After the show, I came up to her and said, “You were amazing. It was the best performance I’ve ever seen you give!”
She turned her eyes away from me, and started grumbling that she forgot a line, she messed up the sequence of the second act, on and on she went, determined to prove to me how wrong my complement was.
“Stop!” I took her hands into mine. “I am going to say my complement once more and this time you are only allowed to say thank you, okay?” She nodded. I said again, “You were amazing. The best performance I’ve seen you give.”
Quietly, she looked into my eyes and sincerely said, “Thank you.” Her face glowed. I knew she heard me.
Saying thank you is telling your friend that you heard their kindness and have taken it in. You’ve let their love be felt. When you deny the complement for the sake of being humble, it feels like you are digging for more complements, or that the original complement wasn’t enough to convince you. When you refuse a complement, you reject the love your friend, lover, relative, boyfriend, wife is giving you.
Say thank you, it’s what all the foxy girls do.
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