Bliss Warrior

FOLLOW MY RULES - PART II

Written by Miss Bliss on May 16, 2008 – 1:30 pm -

ANOTHER FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY BY BLISS WARRIOR TO HELP YOU SLEEP MORE SOUNDLY

This is part 2 of a two part story. Missed Follow My Rules Part I? CLICK HERE to catch up.

“My martinis are better than any restaurants.”

“Really,” you ask, aware of his need to impress you. “How lucky for me to have such a talented bartender.” Your tone is mildly flirtatious although your body language is not.

The black-haired beauty is suddenly hopeful, eager for you to see what she sees in her man. “Everyone says he makes the best martini in the city and he’s not even a bartender.”

He hands you the perfectly shaken drink into a long martini glass with three olives on a long plastic spear. “It certainly looks perfect,” you say and feel his tension. It is so easy to throw him off-guard and you enjoy each moment. You take a sip and open your eyes up to his with deep fascination. “Wow. This really is a perfect martini. Just dirty enough for a girl like me.”

Smiling, he shares the secret of his drink. “It’s not just the vodka, which naturally, has to be the smoothest vodka. But what really gives it that distinct taste is the olives. I tried hundreds of olives until I found the perfect taste.”

“He really did,” she gushes. “We must have been drunk for weeks trying out different olives for the martinis!” She comes up behind him, wraps her arms around his waist, and squeezes him tightly. Her love for him is so true that your darkness towards him softens slightly.

“You two seem like you have a lot of fun together.” Wandering around the small living room in their tiny apartment, you study the pictures of them on vacation, getting married, in a group photo with her family members. There aren’t any pictures of his family which makes you curious about him for the first time. In every photo she glows and he is expressionless.

“Are you going to show me the bedroom,” you ask, taking control once more.

“Don’t you want to finish your drink,” she asks, confused that you aren’t following the normal protocol.

“Are drinks not allowed in the bedroom,” you say with a teasing voice.

“Oh, of course they are! I just thought you might want to….” Her voice trails up and she looks up at her man to see if he has the words to complete her thought.

His jaw clenches slightly and you smile to yourself. Did he think a well-mixed drink would change the rules? Silly boy. As far as you are concerned nothing would change the agreement you set just thirty minutes before in the café. Both of you can touch her, but you won’t touch him and he is not allowed to touch you.

He gestures to the door and you open it to reveal their small but romantic bedroom. The walls are a deep emerald green and the bed is large compared to the size of the room, covered in a jewel-toned velvet quilt. It is beautiful and inviting and you tell them so.

“He found the quilt in an antique shop in Connecticut – isn’t it gorgeous? - and we designed the room together around that.”

“Your man has great taste,” you say, like he isn’t in the room with you. In the corner, facing the bed, is a small purple velvet chair. You turn to him and say, “Have a seat.” At first he doesn’t move and looks to her. She shrugs and smiles nervously and he sits. “I want you to get on the bed with me.” Looking over at him, he nods, and she climbs onto the bed with you. “I am going to undress your wife now. You are not allowed to leave that chair until I say so.”

He looks like he is about to object, but decides to keep quiet. Turning to her, your voice changes, becomes gentler and sweeter than it has been all night. “Do you know how badly I have wanted to see your petite and perfect body? From the minute I saw you sitting in that café, I looked forward to this moment.” Slowly, you unbutton her lace shirt, taking time to let your fingers linger on each bit of flesh the opened buttons revealed. Before you slide the shirt off of her, you slowly open it to reveal a black bra with embroidered roses. “What a stunning bra. And, your breasts are just perfect.”

“Really,” she asks. “Thank you.” She seems shocked by your complements.

“I’ve always wanted a girl to see how perfect my wife is.” His interruption annoys you and for a moment you want to gag him, but you know this would freak her out. Instead, you choose to ignore him and remove her shirt. Her tummy is a little round but is scrumptious. You kiss her bellybutton and she moans. Your tongue traces a circle around it and slowly you lick a line up the middle of her body until you reach her bra.

“You taste sweet and smell amazing.”

“Thank you.” Her eyes glow with adoration of you and you feel him getting more insecure and tense, which almost makes you giggle.

She reaches around you to take off your sweater and you stop her. “Not yet, sweet girl. I want to see you first. Turn around.” She turns, and you find the zipper to her pencil tight skirt, pull it off and release her firm, round behind. Wearing a simple black lace g-string and lace-topped thigh-high stockings, she is simply delicious. Kneeling behind her, you wrap your arms around her and cusp her full breasts through her bra in your hands. You kiss her neck and she moans. Bringing your mouth up to her ear, you whisper to her a command. Facing her man, she follows your direction and says to him quietly, as if she can barely get the words out, “I want to see your cock.”

Shock registers on his face. It is obvious that she is not used to telling him what to do during sex. Quickly, the wry almost handsome smile is back and he unzips his pants and frees his already hard, surprisingly large self from containment. You whisper another order into her ear and she giggles. “I can’t say that without laughing,” she says under her breath. You move your right hand down to her lace g-string, and slide your fingers beneath it. She is so wet and ready, you know she will do anything you ask. She is already enjoying this more than she expected and you are certain he is fascinated by seeing a new side to his girl. Touching her as lightly as you can, you make her involuntarily push into you, wanting to be touched deeper, harder, faster – but you do not give her what she wants. Instead, you whisper the command once more.

This time, she says, “I want you to touch yourself and…” She shakes her head. You stop touching her even lightly. “And, after she gets me ready, I want you to take me up the ass.”

“What,” he says.

“You heard her,” you say, and you command her to get on her hands and knees. She does and you pull the tiny underwear off of her and throw them into his lap with a challenging smile. Looking right into his eyes, you keep your right hand on her wet clit and hold up your left hand, you lick your index finger to thoroughly wet it.

A whisper in her ear and she says to him, “Tell her to get me ready for your cock.”

“Is that what you want,” he asks, stroking his cock and beginning to enjoy the game.

“That’s what I want,” she says between breaths as you give her hardening clit more direct attention.

“Get her ready,” he says, with a gruff voice.

A light bite to her right butt cheek, then a light bite to the left, and she cries out. You bury your face between her and begin to lightly lick in the most delicate of places. Treating her opening like it is her pussy, you start by gently circling the opening with your tongue. At first she is nervous, wary of how she may smell or taste, so completely unprepared for this new sensation. As your right hand keeps vibrating her clit, she begins to press her behind into your face, wanting more, and you give it to her.

Your tongue finds the opening and penetrates her. She moans loudly and you pull your tongue out and direct her to tell him what you are doing to her. Again, you enter her with your tongue, darting it in and out, getting her used to the sensation of being fucked lightly. She says quietly, “She’s fucking my ass with her tongue.” Both he and you are surprised by the dirtiness of her words. You didn’t think she would go there this fast and you are impressed.

She is opening up to your tongue, expanding, getting ready for more force, so you pull back and lick one of your left fingers. Dripping wet with saliva, you circle her opening with your finger, teasing her with what it next. “Tell him what you want,” you say. “Tell him now.”

A moan, more panting, and finally the words escape her lips. “I want her fingers to fuck my ass.”

“Is that what you want,” he asks, still stroking himself, slowly, thoroughly.

“I want it!”

“She wants it,” he says to you, with more gentleness in his eyes than you’ve seen all night. He is beginning to like you.

Slowly, you let the first knuckle of your index finger enter her. She is tight but quickly relaxes around you as you keep vibrating her clit with the right. Soon, her body opens and you go deeper. She gasps. Moving your finger in a small, slow circle, she expands, and even starts moving forward and back, encouraging you to fuck her faster, deeper. You do for awhile until you ask him, “Do you think it’s time for another finger?”

“I think it’s time.”

Pulling out your index finger, you place it next to the middle one, and re-enter her. A gasp and then a moan and then she says, “Oh, yes. Oh, she is fucking my ass so good.” You go in and out faster now and are amazed by the warm wetness there. She expands even more and you add a third finger. In and out and out and in and her pussy is dripping all over your other hand. She is loving this and you focus your concentration on her pleasure. “I’m getting close,” she says.

“Should I make her come,” you ask him.

“Yes,” he says so quietly you barely hear him.

“I will only do it if you promise to change places with me and let me watch you fuck her ass.”

“It would be my pleasure.”

With energy and desire, your hands move at faster and faster speeds. She is panting moaning, shifting herself back and forth to get closer and closer. With three fingers in her, you make wide circles, then go in and out and back to circles. “Yes,” she says. “Yes.” And soon, her back is covered in sweat and she is shaking, gasping, moaning and collapses onto her stomach, grabbing your hands in hers. “No more,” she manages to say. “I just came too hard.”

“No more,” you ask with a laugh. “Sweet girl, that was just my turn. Your man gets his turn now and I know you won’t disappoint us.”
“I can’t.”

“Yes, you can,” he says, rising from the chair. You step off the bed, still completely dressed, and switch places with him. Neither of you touch or will touch, but something has shifted between you. A silent mutual respect and understanding lingers between you, as you watch him reclaim her.

XOXOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR

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IF YOU ENJOYED READING THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY OTHER EROTIC FICTION BY BLISS WARRIOR:
CAPTIVATING THE COLLEGE GIRL PART ONE, PART TWO, AND PART THREE
TOUCHING UNDER THE TABLE
WAKE ME UP WITH YOUR TONGUE
YOU MADE MY BRAIN COME
LEARNING TO LOVE STRAP-ONS
ONE FRENCH AFTERNOON
WALKING HOME IN HER PANTIES
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PLAYING WITH GENDER: DAPHNE STRAPS IT ON FOR HER MAN

Written by Miss Bliss on April 23, 2008 – 8:57 am -

Dearest Readers,
This week our marvelous guest blogger, Daphne, returns to share her true experience using a strap-on in sexual play with her boyfriend. I hope you enjoy and I look forward to hearing your comments.
XOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR

PLAYING WITH GENDER

The first time I used a strap-on was on my ex-boyfriend Jacob. He was, as he liked to say, heteroflexible. During our relationship, we played with gender quite a bit. I am a small cute girl, while he is a tall handsome man; yet we played opposite roles in the bedroom.

MY FIRST STRAP-ON
I was familiar with strap-ons in so far as girls had used them on me before. Jacob was the first person – male or female - I strapped it on for. I went to my favorite store, Toys in Babeland, and bought several dildos, as well as a harness. It’s good to do research because one can easily become overwhelmed with the variety of sex toys out there; silicone, glass, anal, vaginal, dishwasher safe, etc. I had no idea what to buy my first time out.

After studying many options, Jacob and I purchased five silicone and glass dildos. I decided on silicone because it was dishwasher safe and Jacob liked it the best. I also bought glass ones because when girls used toys on me in the past, I liked glass the most. Glass sex toys are dishwasher-safe but are not good for strap-on play. They are great, however, for anal play and warming your lover up for penetration.

We also bought a butt-plug because the sales girls suggested it as a way to ease into play, although I soon found out fingers, ice and glass toys are the best way to ready your lover.

TRY VARIOUS TOYS UNTIL YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE
Jacob was into big and hard dildos, while I liked softer and smaller toys. One night, we tried using a double dildo with the harness. I found it to be very uncomfortable because the dildo was made of extremely hard material. It was too hard for my liking and just sat inside me with no clit stimulation. Obviously, it did not do anything for me physically, except the idea of it excited my brain.

Once, Jacob and I used a blow-up dildo. This was a big mistake! After inserting it, I inflated it until it got too big inside him. I had to slowly deflate it. I thought I had ruined him for life and felt horrible. I would not recommend this toy.

Another favorite were anal beads. Ah, they are so much fun! They are not big and the pleasure of using them is delightful.

TAKE CONTROL AND LOVE IT
I loved the power that penetrating him gave me. I’m five feet tall, weigh barely one hundred pounds to his six foot four, one hundred eighty five foot frame. Having him on his knees, begging me to take him and sticking the dildo down his throat… Ah, that’s a great feeling. He said it was the best sex he ever had.

USE LUBE AND SMALL TOYS FIRST
When we played, I would tie his hands together, then blindfold him, and use a finger, then two, to massage him and open him up. (Eros is the best lubricant I’ve found for fingering a lover or lubricating latex, by the way, though it should not be used with silicone toys because it is not a water based lubricant and will break down toys over time.) When he was ready, I ‘d insert a dildo, then a larger one, working my way up to the strap-on. Sometimes he would be on his back, sometimes his stomach, but he was always quiet.

TEASE HIM WITH ICE
If I were really in a cruel mood, I would use ice cubes before inserting the dildos. I would first run them over his body, gently and slowly–then I would stick one inside of him. His hands were tied most of the time so he could not stop me. He would beg me to stop but he loved the feeling. Sometimes I would use two or three ice cubes at the same time. I don’t know how he could take the pain, but he always did. When I finally took him, the dildo came as a huge relief.

RELAXATION IS KEY
The most important thing was that Jacob was relaxed. That’s why I used different sized dildos and my fingers first. He would usually take a bath too. It’s important to be prepared and open as well as clean. It makes the experience much more fun for both of us.

CONTROL HIS CLIMAX
I would pretend I was a man, and it felt amazing. The raw power of knowing I was in control of his orgasm and pleasure was the greatest feeling. I would not let him touch himself when his hands were free. I wanted him to be ready for me. Once in a great while, I let him come, but not often. He would beg me, whimper, and I would say, “Shut up, it’s not time. Be still. Don’t touch yourself.” He would squirm but lie there obediently with his ass in the air.

STRAP-ON TOYS ARE GREAT STRAP-LESS, TOO
I also found that I liked using the toys without the strap-on because I could achieve a level of control that was not possible with the harness. I could go very hard and deep with just my hand and a toy. Jacob preferred the strap-on, though.

PLANNING TO USE AND BUY NEW TOYS CAN BRING YOU TOGETHER
Talking about the experience, preparing for it, and actually having it also brought us closer together. It’s something that not everyone does. We read books, watched DVDs, and went shopping. We talked about having a threesome but broke up before that happened. It would have been a great experience under the right circumstances. Using toys, being with another person, working as one, I am excited even as I write about it!

EXPLORE AND GROW CLOSER AS A COUPLE
Strap-on play is certainly not for everyone but can be quite fun. I love both giving and receiving. It’s something to discuss with your lover. Whether in a relationship with a man or a woman, anal play is amazing. It’s all about trust and understanding. Exploration, there’s a whole new world out there!

XOXOXOXO
DAPHNE
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YOU MADE MY BRAIN COME - A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY

Written by Miss Bliss on February 1, 2008 – 2:37 pm -

please note: this story is not suitable for anyone under the age of 18. contains graphic sexual content.

Other girls bored you. You enjoyed making them come, who wouldn’t? But no girl got to you.

Until, you met her.

And, it wasn’t because she went down on you better than any other. She was the best, no doubt, but that wasn’t what made your heart open. She definitely surprised you with her gentle, responsive, and soft tongue. Nothing about her technique reminded you of a man. She performed one hundred percent femme cunnilingus. Every lick was a question: do you like this? Am I pleasing you? Am I better than any other?

Against her smooth face, you move your thighs fast. It is your second date and already you are slippery wet with the juices she stirred up in you. Rubbing your thighs fast against her mouth, chin, and cheekbones, you notice no roughness, no trace of male stubble to slow you down, or make you pause. Your thighs ski back and forth in orgasm. You look at her - a girl with patent leather hair and deep, dark eyes, her small nose against your clit - and you shake. Deep in your vaginal canal, you are shivering, pulsing, releasing. She has made you climax again.

“You are better than any other,” you say. And she is.

But this isn’t how she got you.

You pull her up and clasp her face in your hands. Her white skin is covered in your scent, dripping in your body’s adoration of her many talents. You bring her pink full lips up to you and slowly kiss, tasting yourself while tasting her. You lick her right cheek and then kiss her left. Her chin is slick with your juices and you lick it lightly. She moves, rapidly darting her tongue into your mouth and you kiss deeply, savoring the mixture of your salt and her sugar.

But that wasn’t the moment, either.

Drenched in adoration and still shaking from pleasure you hug her tight. You pull away from her and turn, finding your man. He kisses you deep, frantic to communicate the frenzy you create together as three.

What makes her so different, you wonder. How can it be explained in words? Was it because she was so clever and sensual, and in every way, the most perfect lover of both a man and a woman?

She slides down his chest, while your finger climbs up her spine. He looks at you and smiles, his eyes full of language and emotion. Her lips lick the tip of his cock and he gasps, his eyes look up into nothing then back down into hers. She is a great cocksucker, you see that instantly. She knows how to caress a cock, and you watch her worship it with loving licks and strokes. She takes him deep; all the way down her throat. He breathes in, surprised and controlled, and you kiss him. His back is sweating, and in that moment, you know that she is not merely a great cocksucker. She is a fantastic cocksucker.

And, a very good girl.

You slide down his body to meet her. Her mouth slides under his shaft and kisses his balls, lightly. A butterfly flick of the tongue, and you smile. You are impressed. She will go as far as you will, maybe even farther. You watch her for a second, then focus your attention on his shaft while she continues tasting and teasing his sack. Licking the length of his cock up and down, you notice he is already wet with her saliva. All you can see is his smooth skin and her closed eyes. Focused, lost in savoring him, the two of you move together, making him moan.

Occasionally, your tongue brushes hers and you kiss. She then licks him, and turns to kiss you, and you kiss her while licking him. All three of you are connected and focused on mutual pleasure. You watch her move her left hand down and she starts stroking his ass, warming him up for her finger.

You are overwhelmed by her power and want to impress her. You take him into your mouth and suck him as deep as you can without choking. Looking up into his eyes, you tell him how much you adore him by stroking the underside of his cock with your tongue.

He begins to move beneath you, his hips moving forward and back, and you realize she is making him move by lightly fucking him with her finger.

Pre-come shoots into your mouth and he tastes sweet. You love his pre-come because it is something he doesn’t control. Incredibly in command of his orgasm, he will only come when he wants to, or when you beg him to. When he gets wet, however, a girl knows she earned it.

He’s getting too close and pulls you both up. Both of your hands surround his cock and you bring him to orgasm together. He kisses you ravenously, and the three of you feed off of each other’s lips. Her come, your come, his taste, your sweat, his come and her saliva all mix - and you are still hungry for more.

That’s when she got you.

She made your brain come.

XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR

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NEED A LITTLE LUBRICATION?

Written by Miss Bliss on January 8, 2008 – 6:00 am -

For the first seven years of my relationship with Mr. Bliss, we never used “store-bought” lubrication. Our sex was passionate, deep, and amazing with only our bodies’ natural lubricants. One day, we decided to add Wet’s Light Lubricant to our play and discovered that personal lubricants can add a whole new dimension of pleasure to lovemaking.

ADD A LITTLE LUBRICATION TO YOUR LOVEMAKING

1. INCREASE VAGINAL PLEASURE WITH LUBE There is nothing worse than being touched by a dry hand when you are not quite wet yet. Sometimes, a girl can take awhile to relax, get turned-on, and start getting wet. Place a quarter sized amount of lube in your hands and rub them together to warm it up. When your hands have warmed the lube, start touching her slowly inside and out, and soon, you will have a girl moaning and quivering with pleasure.

2. INCREASE ANAL PLEASURE For some, being penetrated anally is relatively easy; for others, it takes more time and technique to relax and open. Lube up your hands and mentally make a note that one will hand will play with the clit, while the other plays with the anus. (Never touch the anus and the vagina with the same hand! This can cause bacterial and yeast infections. After any anal play, make sure to wash hands immediately.) As you play with her two pleasure zones, pay attention to keep adding lube to her anally if she is still tight there. Listen and make sure to ask her if your massaging her is making her feel good. Ask her if she needs more lube. When she desires penetration, make sure to add extra lube to her and to your strap-on before entering her. With anal, there is never too much lube!

3. GOING ALL NIGHT? LUBE CAN PREVENT SORENESS Sometimes sex without enough lubrication can quickly lead to clitoral and vaginal soreness. Thus, even though a girl is multi-orgasmic, she may want to stop sexual play early because she does not want to become even more sore. So make sure your fingers are dripping wet and she will want to have you make her come all night long.

4. USING CONDOMS? USE LUBE! The only birth control that protects against 99.9% of all STDs is condoms. Many girls do not enjoy condoms because they can “stick” to the vaginal walls, making sex feel drier and less comfortable. Using lube with condoms will increase pleasure and decrease your awareness of the rubber latex. Also, if your man does not like the feel of condoms, advise him to place a small drop of lube in the inside tip of the condom. A little interior lubrication will make your man forget he is wearing a rubber.

5. ADD LUBE TO YOUR HAND JOBS Sometimes it takes a girl awhile to realize that men will enjoy her handjobs much more if they are lubricated. As with girls, warm up a quarter-sized amount of lube in your hands by rubbing them together, than place your slick hands on him and see him shake with desire.

6. IF YOU USE TOYS, YOU NEED LUBE Girls love to use dildos and strap-ons with their partners, but it will feel a lot better if properly lubricated. While wearing a strap-on, stand in front of your partner and stroke your “cock” with lube. Show your partner how hard she has made you as you stroke and lube yourself up for her. Believe me, she will enjoy the show!

7. LUBE IS THE ANSWER TO DRY MOUTH Sometimes when we are being decadent creatures, we partake in substances that leave a girl with dry mouth. Without saliva, it is very hard to lubricate your partner naturally. At these times, make sure to drink lots of bottled water and pull out your bottle of Wet Light to help make your partner glide.

8. REMEMBER, ORAL FIRST, LUBE SECOND It is not fun or the least bit yummy to taste lubricants, and some of the flavored lubes are the worst-tasting of all! So, remember to enjoy your partner orally before she is covered in a not-so-tasty taste.

9. TRY DIFFERENT TYPES OF LUBE UNTIL YOU FIND YOUR FAVORITE There are many kinds of lubricants on the market today and it may take you awhile to find the right lube for you. Some are too sticky, some taste too sugary-sweet, and some taste too chemically. (Not that one should be ingesting lubricant… but if you are into deep, sensuous play, chances are you will taste lube at some point.) After much experimentation, I have grown most fond of Wet Light Personal lubricant. It is not sticky and does not taste noticeably bad. When you go to a sex shop, ask a salesperson for recommendations. Some lubes interfere with condoms, so be careful while making your selection. A great resource is the online store, Babeland, which reminded me to let you know lubricants with the spermicide Nonoxynol-9 can cause allergic reactions.

WHICH LUBRICANT DO YOU USE?

XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS

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MY FIVE FAVORITE SEX TOYS

Written by Miss Bliss on November 5, 2007 – 3:28 pm -

As a young girl coming of age in a small town in northern California, I learned about sex and sexuality by reading books. At age 12, I read Kurt Vonnegut’s Breakfast of Champions and was fascinated by a scene where Kilgore Trout masturbates with a fake silicon vagina he bought through a mail-order catalogue. It was the first time I ever heard of a sex toy and the idea that one could purchase fake genitalia to practice making love with turned me on incredibly.

Since I have been of age to purchase my own toys, I have amassed quite a collection of toys, but no matter how many I try, there are five classics that I always return to.

Some of you may be shocked that there are no clitoral vibrators listed here, but my clit is very sensitive and I have always thought, “I’ll get into vibrators when I’m in my sixties.” Until then, fingers, lips and tongues are plenty for my personal pleasure.

1. GLASS DILDOS WITH HANDLES

If you have not had the opportunity to play with a glass dildo, I highly recommend that you go out and get yourself one today. Glass dildos are marvelous for play because at room temperature they feel cool and glide easily in and out. If your insides “stick” or “catch” a bit on traditional silicone dildos, glass is a change you want to make. Glass can also be heated in the microwave or cooled even more in the fridge, to delight and stimulate your lover in all sorts of ways.

A couple of years ago, my petite friend Emily gave me a glass dildo with a handle for my birthday. At first I thought, “Oh, no, this is much too intense for me,” thinking the handle might make it possible to hurt a girl accidentally. When we used it that night, we discovered that the handle added a lot of control. It allowed me to move the dildo around in slow, deep circles, or in and out quickly, depending on what my lover’s body desired. It can also move the dildo side to side rapidly, which is deeply pleasurable.

The best part? Glass is completely cleaned and disinfected by just putting it on the top rack of your dishwasher.

2. ANAL BEADS

For some girls, anal sex is easy; for others, it takes a bit more time to open up down there. Anal beads are a great way for you and your partner to begin exploring anal play. The beads start small and become larger so your partner can place the smallest in first, and when you are ready, add more and more beads, until the entire chain is inside of you. This is especially nice with clitoral stimulation. Some sex stores carry vibrating anal beads, which is even better if you can find them, because they shake and shimmer until you are much more open.

When you are about to come, tell your partner and have him or her pull all the beads out as you climax. You will come even harder.

3. THE CURVED STRAP-ON DILDO

Over the years, I have used many types of strap-on harnesses and many kinds of dildos. My favorite to use on girls is the curved, glittery dildo in a leather harness. Curved dildos are particularly good at hitting a girl’s special spots, both from behind and in more traditional positions. As my friend Claire says, “Fucking a girl can burn a lot of calories and force you to use muscles you haven’t used in years,” so make the workout a little less intense by making sure the dildo is doing as much of the work as you are!

4. ANAL PLUGS IN VARIOUS SIZES

Fun to use on both girls and boys, it is important to start with small butt plugs and work your way up slowly. You may want to start with anal beads, then work up to a small butt plug after. During intercourse, leave a plug in you or in both of you, and see how much pleasure you both experience. If you want to have anal sex but have not been able to due to pain, have your lover take a long time using beads, then plugs, then larger plugs on you until you open up. By the time the third plug is removed, you will be very ready for anal penetration. In fact, you will be surprised at how easy and good it feels.

5. SILK RESTRAINTS

Long, 2-inch wide, silk ribbons make for wonderful and sensual restraints. Tying up your partner should be a delicious act, and silk satin feels amazingly sexy against the skin. Handcuffs are fine sometimes, but I prefer the soft feel of fabric to the hardness of metal restraining devices. There is something so gorgeous about the simplicity of tying up your lover and then pleasuring him or her over and over again. Have your man tie you and your lover up together, so all you can do is kiss one another while he pleases you both. I promise, you will not want to be released anytime too soon.

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ASK MISS BLISS - ANAL PLAY IN THE JUNGLE

Written by Miss Bliss on October 3, 2007 – 5:35 pm -

Dear Miss Bliss,

I have a couple questions for you regarding anal sex…

I have been with my boyfriend now for 5 years with a two year, lustful break. We reunited here in Maui and now live in the rainforest together like Tarzan and Jane in the Garden of Eden. We are always looking for new and exciting ways to make love and look forward to our first threesome.

Until we find the right girl to share, we’re trying new things such as anal pleasure. I love it, but I have some concerns. My mother is a clean freak and is obsessed with salmonella and botulism and everything else that can be killed with bleach. While I am tidy, I usually reject all the obsessive, compulsive cleaning my mother tried to instill in me. I like a house that’s lived in. However, now at 25, I find myself becoming more concerned with germs, especially since living in conditions conducive to mold and mildew.

Back to the subject… My nurse friend told me that the anus is a breeding ground for germs, etc. She said that anal sex can lead to bacteria infections. My question is do you have the same concerns? Do you take any “safety measures”. I am VERY reluctant to kiss/lick the area, though I would like to. Also, is it necessary to clip my fingernails to pleasure him there properly? He doesn’t seem to be totally comfortable with it yet, though he would like to be. It’s a tricky, intriguing subject for me, who would like to try everything.

–Jane in the Jungle

Darling Jane,

Before I answer your question, I want to let all blissgirls know that anal play is something you should only do with a man you love, trust, and know very well. Anal play is something your lover has to EARN. Ask yourself, does my lover treat me like a goddess? Does he put me first and make me feel worshiped and adored? If you do not feel totally and completely loved by your man, he has not earned it yet. Put yourself first and never participate in anal play with a man to try and make him love you.

Jane, you seem to have found a man who is worthy of your love and of new fabulous pleasures. So I offer you these tips on anal hygiene and anal pleasure…

TAKE A BUBBLE BATH
(1) Darling Jane, I hope your jungle comes with a bathtub because the number one way to protect against germs and icky accidents is to take a good, long, bubbly bath before sexual play. In Toni Bentley’s erotic memoir, Surrender, she describes how anal sex helped her to connect with the divine. The book is a must-read for all girls experimenting with anal. Ms. Bentley explains that before every tryst she bathes and makes sure to clean her anus with an inserted soapy finger. Not once, she writes, has a lover gotten sick or tasted waste. This is also a nice way to begin “opening” yourself up and relaxing those muscles. Like masturbating, getting comfortable touching and relaxing yourself anally will make you better prepared to please your partner.

GET A COLONIC… OR AN ENEMA
(2) If you leave the jungle for a day and go to the big city, get a colonic done. I have been to a hydrocolonic therapist three times over four years and always feel very cleaned out afterwards. If this is not possible, many of my male gay friends recommend home enema kits purchased online or at a pharmacy.

A HAND THAT TOUCHES THE ANUS SHOULD NEVER, EVER, EVER TOUCH THE VAGINA
(3) Many women do not know that if a lover touches them anally, and then uses that same hand or finger to touch them vaginally, that lover probably just gave them a yeast infection. (Yeast infections can also happen when a woman wipes from back to front, same basic concept.) This is how bacteria spreads, my dear Jane. My man taught me to be very aware of using just one hand to please a partner vaginally and the other solely anally until I had washed BOTH hands thoroughly. You can also place hand sanitizer on the night table for easy access.

WASH YOUR HANDS FREQUENTLY
(4) After anal play, I always make sure to wash my hands immediately, then return to lovemaking. This ensures no transmission of bacteria that would lead to a yeast infection. No healthy, smart partner will be offended if you tell her you need to wash your hands and you’ll be right back, especially if she is dazed from the pleasure you gave her.

GET RID OF HAIR
(5) Hair around the anus is a breeding ground for germs and for icky things lingering… I highly recommend waxing or shaving any hair that may be there before anal play. Trust me, if you are the anal “giver” you will appreciate this act of primping. If your man is not willing to shave back there, he has not EARNED your exploration yet.

CLIP AT LEAST ONE NAIL
(6) Porn star turned performance artist, Annie Sprinkle, always kept her right index fingernail clipped for anal play. Yes, it is absolutely essential to avoid entering your man or lady with long, sharp fingernails. Trust me, this will not help you open him or her up. Everything should be soft, tender loving initially, so trim those nails!

ARE THERE ANAL TOYS IN THE JUNGLE?
(7) For me, anal beads and anal vibrators are a great way to help a novice enjoy anal play. Use a lot of lube and go very slowly when inserting anything. My gay masseuse, Raymond, recommends telling your lover to push out like she’s about to go to the bathroom while you push in. (Also, true if your man is entering you anally with fingers, toys or himself.)

NEVER LET YOUR MAN ENTER YOU VAGINALLY AFTER PENETRATING YOU ANALLY
(8) This is another way to spread icky germs and can lead to yeast and bacterial infections. Take a break and get a bath together in between if you must go at it again, or use condoms during anal penetration.

CONSTANT CLIT STIMULATION IS THE KEY TO ANAL PENETRATION
(9) If your man wants to penetrate you anally, he has to TAKE HIS TIME. Not only should he use his mouth, tongue, fingers and toys, he should use his one hand that does NOT touch you anally to be CONSTANTLY PLAYING WITH YOUR CLIT.  I cannot stress this enough. The key to good anal sex is CONSTANT CLIT ATTENTION. If it hurts in any way, he has not relaxed you enough and has not EARNED it.

EATING OUT SOMEONE YOU LOVE IS MARVELOUS
(10) Jane, if your man is clean, ready, and up for it, eating him out from behind should be very much like eating out a girl. I believe good anal oral happens when you treat his opening like hers: licking around the exterior, teasing, moving your tongue up and down, penetrating the opening with your tongue. It should feel very much like giving a woman vaginal oral pleasure. It is incredibly intimate and exciting, and if done right, will blow your man’s mind.

DARLING BLISS GIRLS…
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