Sugasm 147 - The Best of This Week’s Sex Blogs
Written by Miss Bliss on September 13, 2008 – 10:40 am -The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.
This Week’s Picks
Amazing
““You’re lucky I’m not being mean right now.””
Cum Squirt With Me. Confession #131
“Not much research has been done on the female orgasm in general, much less this seemingly new erotic marvel.”
Jealousy, Pornography and the Boundaries of Blogging
“I search to be a sexually free, independent and satisfied woman without the stigma of slut yet with the positive implications of slut.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
Blue Fantasy, Red Silk Rope
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)
Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
DVD Review: “Hostel Lupus” (Lupus Pictures)
Lady Sascha Reviews the Light-Of-Love T
Sarge Ties Up Charlotte Vale On Hogtied
VibeReview Fantasy: Decadent Indulgence
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Enigmatic Angel Finds Out Just HOW Kinky She IS
Fetish Fridays: Interview With A Sissy
How Grey Does Your Garden Grow?
Rock Me Sexy Jesus
We don’t plan to stop
Where Do I Fit In The Picture
Why I hire escorts
Why, Oh Why Do I Like Watching My Wife Get Fucked
You Are Beautiful Tonight
Sex & Humor
Overheard In BDSM
BDSM & Fetish
Bonds of Love
Brutal Bastinado And Intense Sadistic BDSM
Don’t Slam The Door
Exceeding My Expectations
Meeting with BS 4
Mistress or Lusty Bitch?
Public Displays of Discipline
Renewing and Reviewing: Rule 5
Sarge Says: The Vale That Is Thin Enough For Me
Sex and Submission Round 2 Report: Mz Berlin, Mark Davis, And Bondage
She works hard for a living…
Sex Work
Satine Phoenix Is A Sinner? Repent Repent Repent!
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Clips and Clamps
Feather Fan HNT
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Sunny Side Up
Sex Advice
Bend over boyfriend how to make him want anal sex
How To Put On A Condom In The Dark
Man-Handled: What Makes the Perfect Blowjob?
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Being Alone
Catalina loves Fucking Mr. F (In My Mind At Least)
Chasseur
Fuck My Mouth
Horny
The Long Kiss Goodnight
Making out in the air part1
One
What She Forgot - Another Friday Night Bedtime Story
While it rains outside…
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ONE FRENCH AFTERNOON - A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY
Written by Miss Bliss on January 18, 2008 – 12:09 am -Selma knocks on the door and you let her in. “Don’t you just love French afternoons,” she purrs with dramatic flair. She kisses you on the lips and kisses your man on the cheek. She wanders slowly into the apartment, studying the room while filling it with her ginger and grapefruit scent. She is older than you, more aggressive, and today, she wants to be your lover.Wine is poured and music plays, but there isn’t much time for small talk. Selma came over for a reason and only has an hour or two before she goes. “Dance for me,” she says to you. “Let us watch you and salivate.”
“Let me finish my drink,” you say, unnaturally shy and unexpectedly nervous.
“Take your time,” Selma says with a playful wink. “But don’t take too long.” She pats the sofa, inviting him to sit next to her, and he does. Her arm loops around his neck and you see the delight in her eyes that she gets to have him. She’s waited for him, too, but she can’t show that yet. Since the day you met in a dark candle-lit cafe, the three of you have talked about this moment, and here it is.
The first time with anyone is a little awkward, but something about the light in the afternoon makes you feel more exposed than usual. Normally you are the aggressive one, but Selma has thrown off your game by taking over control. “Dance for us,” she says again.
Downing the glass of Pinot, you slowly step out in front of them. Her eyes on you make you shy. Wearing a lace dress, with promises of good things to come underneath, you begin to move. You try to look at her and are surprised when you can’t maintain eye contact. Closing your eyes, you focus on the bass line and let your hips move back and forth in time. The music envelops you and you forget your audience. You let your hands caress the curves of your body, showing her the path her hands will soon follow. Your long painted fingers find the hem of your dress and you lift it to expose a blue satin slip underneath. You turn your back on them and, slowly, ever-so-slowly, lift the hem of your dress. Pulling the lace over your head, you turn, and toss the dress into her lap. An invitation, do you want more? They whistle, tell you how gorgeous you are, and ask to see more.
Smiling, the nerves have worn off and you feel your power. Still moving to the music, you approach her and take her small hands in yours. She stands and you pull her into you and dance with her while he watches proudly. Turning, you press your back against her warm body, reach behind, and wrap her arms around you. Together you move but this time both of your eyes are on him. Placing your hands over hers, you lead her hands down your back, over your hips, down your thighs, until her fingers find the lacy hem of your slip. She pulls it over your head, turns you to face her, and studies the black corset and stockings.
“You’re an angel,” she says, and kisses you lightly, as if asking permission. Suddenly, your roles have changed: she is no longer the aggressor, you are.
From behind, you feel him press into you and his arms surround both of you. Pulling her closer, the three of you become one: for an afternoon.
Over too soon and yet there are too many perfect images to remember. At the door, you notice the back of her hair is mussy and sticking up. You try to smooth it and she laughs and says, “Only a shower will fix that, but thank you, darling.” You wonder if your doorman will notice. She looks at him and says sincerely, “Thank you both. Until the next time.” She opens the door to go, but then, turns and shuts it just as fast. “I don’t want to leave,” she admits and melts back into both of you.
Closing the door behind her, you embrace your man, kissing his eyes, his nose, and his cheeks. He lifts you into the air and carries you back to bed.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORIES BY BLISS WARRIOR
a little erotic fiction to help you sleep soundly….
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BLISS WARRIOR’S ELEVEN INSANELY HOT SAPPHIC SCENES
Written by Miss Bliss on January 16, 2008 – 6:00 am -Bliss Warrior prides herself on exquisite taste in film – and women. So I thought I’d share my favorite sensuous girl scenes and seek the opinions of all you Angels, Goddesses and Vixens.
Top Eleven Absolutely Gorgeous Scenes Of Women Making Love
There’s no porn here – everything’s available on NetFlix. And I’m not saying these are all great films, either. These are just scenes that drive me wild every time I see them, and remind me that girls who don’t love girls are just a little bit insane.
1-Unbearable Lightness of Being.
It’s 1988. Juliete Binoche photographs Lena Olin. Lena photographs Juliette. Bliss Warrior’s life changes forever.
2- Show Me Love.
Lukas Moodyson’s sublime coming-out story that’s really a luminous coming-of-age story. Lost and lonely Swedish teens Agnes and Ellin share their first kiss while an unlikely 80s power ballad plays on the car stereo. Trust me on this.
3- The Hunger. Catherine Deneuve and Susan Sarandon’s love scene is as shocking and hypnotic now as it was in 1983. It’s great fun to revisit this film and remember the moment Goth peaked.
4 - Exterminating Angels. Halfway through this
unholy French exploitation flick you realize you’re watching a self-indulgent male-menopausal misogynist cry for help masquerading as feminism. “Silly” is a kind word for this one. But the love scenes are some of the most gorgeous ever filmed. The restaurant scene is worth the rental, and the all-girl threesome will change your life.
5 - Aimee and Jaguar.
Required viewing. A Nazi’s wife falls in love with a Jewish girl who’s helping the resistance. It’s devastating, gorgeous, sexy as hell, and a true story. Great book, too.
6 - Bound. You knew this would make the list. If you still haven’t seen Gina Gershon & Jennifer Tilly share the most tantalizing first kiss ever, catch up. Quick!
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7 - Gia. This film’s influence on bi-girls is like the Big Bang – it’s still expanding. Trashy, exploitative, made-for-cable, and I own it proudly. The best performance Angelina J. ever gave – until “A Mighty Heart” (which is also required viewing, just for different reasons). Insanely hot. Damn.
8 - Desert Hearts. Helen Shaver & Patricia Charbonneau redefine chemistry with one of the all-time classic lesbian love scenes. It’s charming, it’s campy, and who doesn’t love a film about the 1950s made in the 1980s. The new 2 Disc DVD has extra footage you really should see.
9 - Bitter Moon. Not exactly a bi-girl film, but Polanski got creepy again in the early ‘90s. Hugh Grant spends half the film wondering how he can cheat on Kristin Scott-Thomas with Emmanuelle Seigner. Then Kristin gets her instead. Their moment is brief, but it balances out the brilliant psychological creepiness of the story. This film makes very uptight men even more uptight. I mentioned it was creepy, right?
10 - High Art.
I don’t think I can say anything about Radha Mithcell and Ally Sheedy’s scene that hasn’t been said by those more eloquent than me. This show is everything “The L Word” wishes it was. Before there was Shane, there was Ally Sheedy.
11 - Mulholland Drive.
Because, well, you know.
And if you don’t, rent it right now!
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IN CASE YOU WERE WONDERING…
Sorry frat boys, there’s no “Wild Things” on this list. Nothing against Neve Campbell or the former Mrs. Sheen, but that little piece of swimming pool infamy was two women PRETENDING to be into each other to sucker a man. It’s also a prime example of female bisexuality being used as a marketing tool to suck-in males. Not hot. (Neve more than redeems herself with Jolie Carter behind a gauzy curtain in the intriguing-and-yet-silly “When Will I Be Loved”)
There’s no “Chasing Amy” here either. Many love this film, but I could never get too hot for a story of a woman who thought she was lesbian until she was straightened out by Ben Affleck’s Goatee.
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Okay, ladies! Tell me what scenes and films you love. I’m waiting.
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THANK GOODNESS FOR GIRLS WHO PLAY DRESS UP
Written by Miss Bliss on November 26, 2007 – 9:46 pm -Arriving after work and bundled up in a sleek black coat, Caroline is pale and breathtakingly gorgeous. “I’ve missed you so much,” I say, and I have. Trapped in Los Angeles for months, it is delightful to be back in New York with friends.
She kisses my cheek and says, “It’s been too long.” Caroline is a lingerie designer and dear friend and has come over to play dress up. “You look amazing,” she says.
“What until you see what’s under this dress.”
She smiles and is radiant. “Show me.”
“I will,” I say fixing a garter, “but you have to do me one favor first. Put this on.” I show her a satin and chiffon babydoll dress I handmade with her in mind.
“It’s beautiful,” she says, and I help the fabric fall around her tiny body.
PLAYING DRESS UP
Young girls often invite their friends over to play dress up. They exchange clothes, pose in front of mirrors, role play, and, sometimes, take pictures. As we grow up, some of us forget how magical it is to play dress up with a special girlfriend.
The next time you have a day off, invite one or two very close, trusted, open friends over to play dress up and have a make-shift photo shoot. Ask them to bring over their best and most beautiful lingerie; the pieces they rarely get a chance to wear. Encourage them to bring costume pieces like wigs, platform pumps, and sequined shawls. Tell them you want to take turns trying on outfits, drinking wine, styling each others’ hair, playing with make-up, and taking really gorgeous pictures just for fun.
If there is a man in your life and all of your friends trust him, they may agree to allow him to play photographer.
Caroline and I took turns running into the bathroom, changing into new outfits, and delighting one another when we reappeared in new stockings and lace. I decorated her with my jewelry, belts and ribbons, and she glowed under the candlelight, reminding me to be thankful for all the truly beautiful friends I have.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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ASK MISS BLISS -SHE TIED ME UP, TOOK MY PICTURE & TOOK OFF
Written by Miss Bliss on November 7, 2007 – 10:34 pm -Dear Miss Bliss,
A couple of weeks ago I received some great advice from you regarding my first date with a girl. Well, the date was successful. She is as cute as a button. We have very different body types; she is a very petite and I am taller and curvier. We had dinner and drinks, and she insisted she come back to my place. For some reason, she wanted me to be drunk when she started to caress my breasts and feel me up. Things started getting heavy and I found myself butt-naked while she was still fully clothed. All energy was focused on me which was great. I had a couple of intense orgasms but I really wanted to touch her. That didn’t happen. After she was done pleasuring me, she had me take her home.
Since then we had a second date and it was pretty much the entire experience all over again only this time she brought her own vibrator and tied me up, which I thought was great, as well. Once we arrived at my house, she started to remove my top and wanted to take pictures. She said she wanted to remember my large gorgeous breasts later on, but it was a bit absurd to me. Again, she wouldn’t allow me to undress her, but I did get a few small feels which was hardly enough to satisfy my needs.
It’s been two weeks now and neither of us have attempted to contact one another. This girl is really mysterious and there is a small language barrier between us because she is originally from Beijing and I have a hard time understanding her character. I am totally confused and kind of weirded out knowing there are pictures of my breasts out there. Does this type of behavior normally occur between two girls? I know it sounds naive or presumptuous, but I was kind of blindsided by the whole camera thing and her not being able to get naked.
Thanks,
Camera Shy
Dear Camera Shy,
Now you understand why men think girls are so crazy. There is nothing like dating girls to help a girl feel more like a guy.
Darling girl, this is by no means an ordinary or normal date between girls, and I can understand why are you are feeling used and cheapened. You entered into the date with love, opened yourself up to the possibility of great sensual pleasures, and trusted your lover enough to let her take control. But because of a communication problem, and because the two of you do not know each other very well, you had different expectations for the date.
There are many possible reasons why the girl wanted to please you but did not want you to touch her. I do not think it has anything to do with the difference in your body sizes. She obviously was into your body and you were into hers.
WHY DIDN’T SHE JUST GET NAKED?
1. She could be seeing someone else, most likely a man, and feels it would be cheating if you gave her pleasure. She is allowed to make you orgasm, but would be betraying her relationship if anyone but her primary partner made her come.
2. She could have some kind of STD, and not being able to communicate that to you, just “protects” you by not letting you touch her.
3. She could be on her period and does not want to gross you out.
4. She could be into BDSM and likes to “top” or “dominate” other girls. If this is the case, her pleasure comes from the power she has over you and the pleasure she gets from pleasing you.
5. Or, she could be a man. (Just kidding.)
BAD COMMUNICATION EQUALS BAD SEX
Whatever her reason, she was not communicating it to you, and this is a problem. Girls, in my experience, very much prefer equality in sexual trysts and enjoy making one another come again and again and again, trading off and taking turns. That is the beauty of two multi-orgasmic girls making love to one another. This girl made you feel insecure and confused because you opened your whole body up to her and she refused to do the same for you. Just because a lover makes you orgasm does not mean she can run off without letting you touch her at all. (Unless, of course, you both find that sexy.)
PICTURES WITH PERMISSION ONLY
As many of you know, the pictures of me and my friends on my page are all real, taken by my husband, and are true candids with no special lighting or makeup. Any picture with another person in it (even faceless) has been posted with permission. I love erotic photography and believe that pictures of women making love can be very empowering. However, we also live in a digital age and have to protect ourselves from pic collectors and other creepy folks.
These are my rules for erotic photography:
1. All pictures taken will be burned onto cd immediately, so all parties involved will have the pictures.
2. Any pictures that are “bad” will be deleted immediately and everyone has veto power.
3. No pictures will be made public, be put on a myspace page, or any web page without the explicit consent of all involved, even if the pictures are faceless.
If she was taking pictures for anyone but herself, she should have told you. In the future, if you do not know a lover well, do not let her take your picture. She has to earn your trust and friendship first.
XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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