THE GRAND OPENING OF THE HOTEL BLISS BOUTIQUE
Written by Miss Bliss on August 8, 2008 – 10:44 am -Ladies,
The Bliss Warrior Team is proud to announce the grand opening of the Hotel Bliss Boutique.
Dedicated to supporting female artisans, the Boutique will be featuring handmade one-of-a-kind goods at exceptional prices. All sellers are members of Hotel Bliss, so if you have any questions about an item, feel free to contact them and ask them about their amazing work.
Some of the new items on sale now at the Hotel Bliss Boutique:
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Interested in selling your goods at the Hotel Bliss Boutique?
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XOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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PLAYING WITH GENDER: DAPHNE STRAPS IT ON FOR HER MAN
Written by Miss Bliss on April 23, 2008 – 8:57 am -Dearest Readers,
This week our marvelous guest blogger, Daphne, returns to share her true experience using a strap-on in sexual play with her boyfriend. I hope you enjoy and I look forward to hearing your comments.
XOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR
PLAYING WITH GENDER
The first time I used a strap-on was on my ex-boyfriend Jacob. He was, as he liked to say, heteroflexible. During our relationship, we played with gender quite a bit. I am a small cute girl, while he is a tall handsome man; yet we played opposite roles in the bedroom.
MY FIRST STRAP-ON
I was familiar with strap-ons in so far as girls had used them on me before. Jacob was the first person – male or female - I strapped it on for. I went to my favorite store, Toys in Babeland, and bought several dildos, as well as a harness. It’s good to do research because one can easily become overwhelmed with the variety of sex toys out there; silicone, glass, anal, vaginal, dishwasher safe, etc. I had no idea what to buy my first time out.
After studying many options, Jacob and I purchased five silicone and glass dildos. I decided on silicone because it was dishwasher safe and Jacob liked it the best. I also bought glass ones because when girls used toys on me in the past, I liked glass the most. Glass sex toys are dishwasher-safe but are not good for strap-on play. They are great, however, for anal play and warming your lover up for penetration.
We also bought a butt-plug because the sales girls suggested it as a way to ease into play, although I soon found out fingers, ice and glass toys are the best way to ready your lover.
TRY VARIOUS TOYS UNTIL YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE
Jacob was into big and hard dildos, while I liked softer and smaller toys. One night, we tried using a double dildo with the harness. I found it to be very uncomfortable because the dildo was made of extremely hard material. It was too hard for my liking and just sat inside me with no clit stimulation. Obviously, it did not do anything for me physically, except the idea of it excited my brain.
Once, Jacob and I used a blow-up dildo. This was a big mistake! After inserting it, I inflated it until it got too big inside him. I had to slowly deflate it. I thought I had ruined him for life and felt horrible. I would not recommend this toy.
Another favorite were anal beads. Ah, they are so much fun! They are not big and the pleasure of using them is delightful.
TAKE CONTROL AND LOVE IT
I loved the power that penetrating him gave me. I’m five feet tall, weigh barely one hundred pounds to his six foot four, one hundred eighty five foot frame. Having him on his knees, begging me to take him and sticking the dildo down his throat… Ah, that’s a great feeling. He said it was the best sex he ever had.
USE LUBE AND SMALL TOYS FIRST
When we played, I would tie his hands together, then blindfold him, and use a finger, then two, to massage him and open him up. (Eros is the best lubricant I’ve found for fingering a lover or lubricating latex, by the way, though it should not be used with silicone toys because it is not a water based lubricant and will break down toys over time.) When he was ready, I ‘d insert a dildo, then a larger one, working my way up to the strap-on. Sometimes he would be on his back, sometimes his stomach, but he was always quiet.
TEASE HIM WITH ICE
If I were really in a cruel mood, I would use ice cubes before inserting the dildos. I would first run them over his body, gently and slowly–then I would stick one inside of him. His hands were tied most of the time so he could not stop me. He would beg me to stop but he loved the feeling. Sometimes I would use two or three ice cubes at the same time. I don’t know how he could take the pain, but he always did. When I finally took him, the dildo came as a huge relief.
RELAXATION IS KEY
The most important thing was that Jacob was relaxed. That’s why I used different sized dildos and my fingers first. He would usually take a bath too. It’s important to be prepared and open as well as clean. It makes the experience much more fun for both of us.
CONTROL HIS CLIMAX
I would pretend I was a man, and it felt amazing. The raw power of knowing I was in control of his orgasm and pleasure was the greatest feeling. I would not let him touch himself when his hands were free. I wanted him to be ready for me. Once in a great while, I let him come, but not often. He would beg me, whimper, and I would say, “Shut up, it’s not time. Be still. Don’t touch yourself.” He would squirm but lie there obediently with his ass in the air.
STRAP-ON TOYS ARE GREAT STRAP-LESS, TOO
I also found that I liked using the toys without the strap-on because I could achieve a level of control that was not possible with the harness. I could go very hard and deep with just my hand and a toy. Jacob preferred the strap-on, though.
PLANNING TO USE AND BUY NEW TOYS CAN BRING YOU TOGETHER
Talking about the experience, preparing for it, and actually having it also brought us closer together. It’s something that not everyone does. We read books, watched DVDs, and went shopping. We talked about having a threesome but broke up before that happened. It would have been a great experience under the right circumstances. Using toys, being with another person, working as one, I am excited even as I write about it!
EXPLORE AND GROW CLOSER AS A COUPLE
Strap-on play is certainly not for everyone but can be quite fun. I love both giving and receiving. It’s something to discuss with your lover. Whether in a relationship with a man or a woman, anal play is amazing. It’s all about trust and understanding. Exploration, there’s a whole new world out there!
XOXOXOXO
DAPHNE
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IF YOU ENJOYED READING THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY READING OTHER GUEST BLOGS…
BY DAPHNE:
TIE ME UP, TIE ME DOWN: A BI-GIRL SHARES HER FIRST S&M EXPERIENCE
BY JUNGLE JANE:
A GIRL’S FIRST VIBRATOR: A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
GETTING HER NUMBER: A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY
BY V.:
AND THEN THERE WERE TWO – CHAPTER ONE
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TIE ME UP, TIE ME DOWN – A BI-GIRL SHARES HER FIRST S&M EXPERIENCE
Written by Miss Bliss on March 20, 2008 – 7:01 am -Dearest Readers, Daphne is a New York bi-girl who recently started exploring light BDSM play. We are delighted to have her share the story of the first time her lover tied her up and deliciously tormented her. XOXOXOXO BLISS WARRIOR
As a bi-girl I have always had an active fantasy life. I remember as a little girl when we played Cops and Robbers, I always wanted to get handcuffed. As a teenager, I was the ‘naughty’ schoolgirl, always wanting to be punished. I can’t remember a time I didn’t have the desire of being tied up but was too shy to say anything.
A few years ago, a lover who was quite dominant knew right away what I needed. Before our date, he called me with the following instructions: leave the door ajar, dress in my sexiest black lingerie and leave my high heels on. “When you finish dressing, kneel on the bed and wear a blindfold,” he said.
When he got to my apartment, I was so excited, I could barely stand it. I could hear his every move. I wanted to rip the blindfold off. I could hear the rustle of his jeans, the music as he put it on, the equipment as he laid it out. He seemed to take forever.
“Put your arms up,” he said. Finally, I thought. He tied me up with expertise in two minutes flat. I was almost unable to breathe. He turned me over. Kissed me gently all everywhere. I imagined that he was my female roommate from college because his mouth was so gentle, and so like a woman’s. I was almost at the verge of coming by his touch alone. That’s what being tied up did to me.
I tried to squirm free but couldn’t move. He had secured my ankles as well, which was maddening. I kept rubbing up against him to no avail. He undid the ankle clasp, and, slowly, began to tease me. I thought I was going explode. I screamed, I came. He didn’t let up. I couldn’t stop him because I didn’t have the use of my hands. I tried to headlock him with my knees, but he was stronger than I was.
And, I was glad I couldn’t stop him. It really felt quite good.
He then proceeded to use a dildo on me: one of my very own and one of my favorites. It reminded me of an ex-girlfriend.
I was about to come again, and then he stopped, and slapped me rather hard. I wasn’t expecting this, but I liked it.
“Open your mouth and stick out your tongue,” he demanded. I did as I was told, though I was a bit frightened. He put a substance that was familiar yet I could not place it, on my tongue. “Swallow.” I did. “Did you like it?” he asked. “Yes.” I said. “Good.” He put some more in my mouth and kissed me. I would find out later it was whipped cream he had whipped himself.
He then took a feather and tickled me until I almost fainted. “Stop!” He wouldn’t listen. The more I begged, the worse things got. One thinks of S&M as just pain, but there’s torture in far less painful things than slapping and things of that nature.
He finally quit tickling me and whispered into my skin, “What do you want me to do?”
“Use the whip,” I pleaded. I have a very cute, very lightweight, leather flogger that when used properly leaves no marks. He used it for a few minutes so very lightly that it tickled me. Then he did it a little harder.
By this time a few hours had passed and we still hadn’t had sex. Ladies, this is a great reason to be into BDSM. You get to have many orgasms, then have sex, and have more orgasms. Men are about your pleasure. And, by the time you do get to sex, you’re very open.
INTERESTED IN ADDING A LITTLE S&M INTO YOUR SEXUAL PLAY?
1. BABELAND IS A GREAT STORE TO PURCHASE S&M TOYS
Babeland is a great place to find S&M toys here in New York (click here to see their website). They also have shops in Los Angeles and Seattle, if you’re on the West Coast. The women are all super friendly, bi or lesbian themselves often times. I’ve never felt uncomfortable there buying anything from a strap-on to lube. I can ask them ton of questions and they answer them all matter-of-factly. They have a section on bondage play for the novice to the pro.
2. NEED SOME S&M TRAINING? VISIT A DOMINATRIX WITH A FRIEND
Another really fun adventure for the daring, is to take a girlfriend and visit a dominatrix together. I did this once with my friend, Melissa, and we had a great time. The dominatrix gave us a lesson in bondage and slapping. In fact, she told me I slapped too hard! I didn’t know there was such a thing. She said to mix it up with light kissing and blowing. It was better than a day at the spa! Both of us thought we knew a thing or two about sex, but we left feeling like neophytes and were excited to learn the ‘ropes’.
3. S&M TOYS YOU CAN FIND IN YOUR OWN HOME
Even if you live in a place where getting toys seems difficult, there is always the Internet. But it’s really fun to see what you have at home to use in S&M play. I’ve discovered all sorts of fun things to use with my lover: clothespins, duct tape, yoga straps, candles, etc. You never know what you might have in your closet. And you would be surprised by what a turn-on they can be for your man, as well. He might just be waiting for you to ask…
XOXOXOXO
DAPHNE
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ENJOYED DAPHNE’S FIRST BLOG AND WOULD LIKE TO READ MORE?
CHECK OUT HER BLOGS PUBLISHED ON MRBELLERSNEIGHBORHOOD.COM:
NAUGHTY AND NOT NICE ON CRAIGSLIST
HETEROFLEXIBILITY
MANHATTAN SEX CLUBS: THEY HAVE THEIR UPS AND DOWNS
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IF YOU ENJOYED THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY READING:
BLISS WARRIOR’S ELEVEN INSANELY HOT SAPPHIC SCENES
NEED A LITTLE LUBRICATION?
HOW MANY WAYS CAN YOU CLIMAX?
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WAKE ME UP WITH YOUR TONGUE - A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY
Written by Miss Bliss on February 8, 2008 – 4:09 pm -PLEASE NOTE: THIS STORY CONTAINS GRAPHIC SEXUAL CONTENT. IT IS ONLY APPROPRIATE FOR ADULTS OVER THE AGE OF 18.
You’re on your side pretending to sleep; Lisa’s curled around you, moving her hips back and forth, wanting more. One hand touches your shoulder, and fingers crawl down your arm. She explores your naked body in the grey morning light, but she hasn’t given you a reason to get up yet.
You know what she wants, but you pretend not to. You purr a little, and turn to lie on your stomach. “Sweetie,” you say, “it’s way too early.” You aren’t going to make this easy for her.
Lisa changes tactics and straddles your naked back. Licking her tongue down your spine, over your buttocks and tasting your inner thighs, she won’t let you go back to sleep. Although you don’t show it yet, you are delighted by this sexy formerly-straight-now-totally-turned bi-girl.
Her tongue is pressing, discovering, opening your legs as her hand lightly reaches under you and gently taps your clit. Girls are always too gentle the first time they touch another girl. So many guys have ripped them up, making them sore or in pain with their eagerness, that it is no wonder a girl touches another girl with hesitant feather-light fingers.
The tease of her touch makes you expand, get harder, and the frenzy of her tongue behind you, licking you between your buttocks, can no longer be ignored. Your body is responding and doesn’t care how tired you are. Your hips start moving on their own, pressing down on her hand, grinding into the mattress, determined to create more pressure.
But she pulls her hand away, and laughs this deep sexy tropical laugh, and says, “Oh. The kitten doesn’t want to nap anymore.”
You get up on your knees and face her. Her eyes sparkle with delight because she knows she has turned you on. You kiss. “Prepare yourself,” and you push her down on her back.
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The night before, you stumbled home drunk on each other’s beauty, and she asked you, “If I wasn’t with you tonight, you’d be with some other girl, right?”
This frustrated you. “Just because I’m bi doesn’t mean I sleep with every girl I meet.”
“You liked her, I could tell.” She meant the tall dark-skinned girl who was flirting with both of you at the club.
“She was sweet, but not my type.”
“You wanted her,” Lisa said with a smile. Another game.
You looked directly into her grey eyes. “I want you. You know I’ve always wanted you.” You kissed her and she wrapped her arms around your waist. “Let’s go back to my place.”
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You are dazed by the orgasm she just gave you, but she has no time to linger. “Are you sure you don’t want to get some breakfast?”
“I have to do some work for tomorrow. I need to get an early start.” She is back to her workday self: tense, brusque and super straight.
We hug at the door and for a moment she is the girl you adored this morning. She hugs you slowly, tracing your spine with her fingertips. She says, “You’re amazing.” Her face shifts and the coldness returns. She turns and is gone, down the hallway towards the elevator.
Back in bed you wonder if she’s the type of straight girl that will put last night’s splendor in a box that will never be opened. It could go either way. Some girls have their one bisexual adventure then close the door, happy to return to a straight and “uncomplicated” life. But how could she forget last night?
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“Have you ever used a glass dildo?”
“No,” Lisa said, her face relaxed and beautiful. No girl glows like one who just came hard.
“I wish you could see yourself right now.” Naked on her stomach, you study the curve of her behind, more magnificent than any mountain peak. “You are the most beautiful creature.”
“You are.”
“Thank you,” you said. “Turn over. Here’s a pillow, put this under your hips.” She giggled and followed your instructions. You leaned out of bed and pulled a curved glass dildo from the drawer of the nightstand. Grabbing a bottle of lube, you squeezed some gel into your hand and started stroking off the glass cock while warming up the lube. Your eyes were only on her – always on her - her eyes focused on the glass.
“Play with your breasts,” you instructed her and she shyly rubbed her nipples. The dildo was still a little cold and you rubbed its head up and down her shaved and perfect self. At first, she reacted to the cold by moving away from the dildo, but as you continued to run it up and down, her body began to desire its coolness.
“Please,” she asked, wanting you to penetrate her. “I can’t wait any longer.”
But you waited, teasing her with just the tip.
“Is the kitten ready to play,” you asked her.
“Yes,” she said. “Fuck me. Please.”
“Shhh,” you teased, very aware of your power. “If I fuck you now with this glass cock of mine, you’ll have to do something for me.”
“I’ll do anything.” Her face was scrunched in concentration and desire. She was already close and you hadn’t even entered her. You thought, “For a straight girl, this girl is fun.”
“Tomorrow morning, when you wake up, you have to do something for me.”
“Tell me,” she said between pants. “I’ll do anything. I promise.”
“Tomorrow morning, no matter how hard I resist, you have to make me come.”
“I will. I swear. Please, fuck me. I’ll do whatever you want.”
You entered her fast and she gasped, feeling the glass spread her open. The dildo slid in fast and you let it pause deep inside her canal. She took in a breath, and you pulled it out, even faster. You stopped and moved the base of it from the left and the right, pressing it against her vaginal walls. She moaned and said how good it felt. “I can’t believe it. It’s better than a guy.” She said the magic words, the ultimate compliment.
You shifted the dildo again and moved it in a curved motion to put pressure on new places inside her, and again a great moan. “Oh, wow,” she said with big eyes, “Keep doing that. Yes, keep doing just that.” You fucked her in the same motion, now increasing speed while your left hand put pressure on her clit. Breathing faster, you followed her motion, the two of you riffing on each other’s rhythms, becoming one person.
“I’m really close,” she said, and you moved the dildo around in a wide circle, occasionally thrusting it into her hard, to surprise her, to jolt her body into a deeper place. This would be the greatest orgasm this girl ever had and you were proud, because it was given to her not by a man, but by you.
“Are you ready to come?”
“Yes.”
With both hands on the dildo, you fucked her fast and deep. “Touch yourself,” you instructed her and she rubbed herself rough and hard. She was so close and her pleasure exploded inside your brain, making you feel like you were close to coming, too, even though she hadn’t touched you at all. Her thighs started to shake, tears rolled out of her eyes, and she said, “I didn’t know. I had no idea. I never knew it could be this good.”
Holding her in your arms, you said, “Don’t forget your promise tomorrow morning.”
She whispered, “Nothing could make me forget.”
XOXOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR
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IF YOU ENJOYED THIS FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY, YOU MAY ENJOY OTHER EROTIC FICTION BY BW:
ONE FRENCH AFTERNOON
WALKING HOME IN HER PANTIES
LEARNING TO LOVE STRAP-ONS
YOU MADE MY BRAIN COME
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