CAN A THREESOME HELP YOU FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE?
Written by Miss Bliss on September 8, 2008 – 10:49 am -Talk to some couples, and they might just tell you that there is no such thing as the single bi-girl who enjoys threesomes. In fact, many couples call these girls “unicorns” because they are magical creatures that are impossible to find.
Or are they?
In my travels across the country brunching with bi-women, I have met many “unicorns” and, am here to tell you now, they definitely exist.
Some straight girls, and even some bi-girls in relationships, have no idea why a single girl would want to join a couple in bed. “Isn’t she being used,” women like to ask.
“Not at all,” I say to them. “Good group sex may just help that girl find her soul mate. Perhaps that’s why the single bi-girl is so hard to find. Shortly after a love affair with the right couple, she finds the man or woman of her life.”
CAN A THREESOME HELP YOU FIND TRUE LOVE?
1. COUPLES SPOIL YOU
The right couple will never make you pay for dinner (unless you REALLY want to), will treat you with the utmost dignity and respect, and will shower you with appreciation, adoration, and pretty lingerie. When two people treat you right, you learn to expect the same from dates. When you have high expectations, you attract the right partner who will also shower you with love.
2. THE BETTER THE SEX, THE BETTER YOU LOOK
What could be better for your health than hours of lovemaking with two people? Studies have shown the more sex you have, the healthier you become, the more attractive you are to other suitors, and the more confident you feel. Sitting alone on a Friday night does not bring you closer to the perfect partner, but being out with a couple might give you the glow that does.
3. COUPLES DON’T NEED ANYTHING FROM YOU
Contrary to the belief that couples are “using” single girls for their pleasure, couples are actually able to give more love to you than single boys/girls because they do not NEED you to fill their emotional gaps. Couples have each other to share work stress, financial fears, emotional dramas, and family problems; they don’t have to dump that stress on you. Instead, they can shower you with attention, affection, and appreciation without demanding anything from you. This helps you to appreciate future suitors who are available to truly love you, instead of those needy ones who want you to fix them.
4. THE BUSIER YOU ARE, THE MORE INTERESTING YOU BECOME
We all want to find a partner who is slightly “better” than we thought we could get. The ideal relationship happens when both partners feel they “won” and scored a partner who is light years beyond them. When you are between boy/girlfriends, dating a couple may just be that thing that makes you seem exceptional: (1) obviously, others want you, (2) you are independent, (3) you enjoy life, and (4) you aren’t sitting around waiting for the phone to ring. And, let’s face it, darling readers, what’s more interesting to a potential date than the single girl who dated a couple?
5. LEARN NEW SEXUAL TECHNIQUES TO PLEASE YOUR FUTURE PARTNER
One of the greatest reasons to be the single girl in a threesome, is you get to learn new sexual techniques. He can teach you how to better love a woman; she can teach you how to love a man (and a woman J). With more sexual confidence, you will appear more attractive to the right partner. When you finally start dating, you will amaze your new lover with the sexual techniques you learned from a weekend of splendor with a couple.
6. IMPROVE YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIP BY STUDYING ONE THAT WORKS
Another wonderful aspect of dating a couple is you have the opportunity to learn what makes their relationship successful. Studies have shown that couples in open relationships tend to communicate better and handle jealousy and envy issues better than couples in strictly monogamous relationships. So over dinner, watch how your couple talks to one another, supports each other, and actively loves one another. You may just be cracking the code to an amazing future relationship.
XOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR
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THERE IS NO “ONE TYPE” OF BI-GIRL
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DEAREST READERS – THANK YOU FOR ALL THE KIND COMMENTS AND E-MAILS WHILE I WAS AWAY ON VACATION. I SO APPRECIATE YOUR WORDS AND SUPPORT. ALSO, ANOTHER BIG THANK YOU TO JUNGLE JANE AND CHRISTIAN HOLMES FOR TAKING CARE OF HOTEL BLISS WHILE I WAS AWAY. I AM THRILLED TO BE BACK AND CAN’T WAIT TO CONNECT WITH YOU ALL AGAIN. XOXOXOXO BLISS
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EVEN CANADIANS WATCH THE L-WORD - TALES FROM TORONTO, PART 2
Written by Miss Bliss on June 11, 2008 – 10:49 am -“Do you watch the L-Word,” asks the lovely Marcela, a German-Spanish Canadian.
“I certainly do,” I say. “There’s nothing I love to hate more than the L-Word.” Seven bi-girls have met on a sunny Saturday in June for conversation, community and fun. Already, the food has been eaten, drinks have been downed, and strangers have become friends.
“Come on, now. It’s a fun show to watch,” Marcela says.
“Look, I would watch anything Jennifer Beals does. Ever since Flashdance, I just love her. I think she’s great on the show and I am so glad her marriage with Tina ended so we could see her seducing new girls.”
“I love her and Shane,” says the pretty blonde to my right.
“Everyone’s in love with Shane,” I say.
“The scenes with Shane and Paige were just gorgeous,” says the beautiful brunette to my left. “I’m sorry that relationship ended. Paige has the greatest tits, don’t you think? And I heard Shane’s a real lesbian, and I think Max is, too.”
“I saw Shane once at NY Pride,” I say. “She’s definitely gay. I’m bummed they took Max’s character and made the only pretty butch on the show a pre-op transgender. Why couldn’t she just be the hot butch? Does every lesbian have to be an uber-femme super model?”
Marcela says, “I think they’re trying to bring awareness to transgender issues, which is good. Whatever they can do to create drama they will do because it’s a soap opera.” She turns to her auburn-haired friend on her left and asks, “Do you watch the L-Word?”
“I don’t have cable,” she says.
“My man is a computer guy,” says the asian beauty across from her, “we just download the episodes and watch them for free.”
“I love Cybill Shepard on the show. I thought she was just terrific,” the girl next to me says, and the table agrees.
“I hated Jenny so much until the end of this season,” says Marcela. “I just felt so bad for her when her assistant took over her whole film and her life. It was so sad.”
“Jenny deserves to be hated,” I say. “The best part of this season was when the writers realized that these girls would HATE Jenny and NEVER hang out with someone that self-absorbed and annoying.”
“And she’s the Canadian on the show,” says my co-host, Harper, and the table laughs.
“I’ve read some articles written by bisexuals about the show and they have many valid critiques,” I say.
“Like what,” asks Marcela.
“Well, Tina and Jenny both dated men at some point in the show, but they are also the most annoying characters. They always talk about Alice being bi, but she’s only interested in lesbian relationships,” I say. “I remember there was this one episode that started with each of them pointing a ‘gay-dar’ at each other. When it pointed at Alice it read ‘bisexual’ but nothing about her behavior seems bi to me.”
“Just because she’s only dating women now doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian,” says Marcela.
“True,” I say, “but the writers seem to critique any type of relationship that is not strictly monogamous. This season they had the sexiest scene when Shane met a lesbian couple that was in an open relationship. They invited Shane to join them for a threesome which was incredibly hot. But in the next episode, they punished their audience for enjoying the hot scene when they showed one of the girls lying to be with Shane behind her partner’s back. So, the message was, girls in open relationships are liars.”
“Whatever creates drama,” says Marcela. “Can you believe there are only 8 episodes left?”
“Only eight,” asks the brunette next to me.
“Next season is the last season.”
“Let’s just pray that Bette doesn’t get back together with Tina,” I say, “and let’s hope there’s a lot more sex and a lot LESS talking.”
Canadians should watch The L-Word, I think, as the conversation switches once again. After all, it is shot in Vancouver, the Los Angeles of Canada. And, no matter who I am with - bi-girls, lesbians or straight girls - everyone loves to hate it and can’t stop watching it. But then again, who wouldn’t want to watch beautiful women make love?
Are you a fan of the L-Word? What do you love about the show? Are you someone who loves to hate the show like me? What drives you crazy and what keeps you watching? Let me know!
XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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IF YOU ENJOYED THIS BLOG, YOU MIGHT ENJOY READING ABOUT OTHER BLISS BRUNCHES:
FROM TOMBOYS TO FAB FEMME GIRLS - TALES FROM TORONTO, PART 1
GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE AND MAKE A BI-GIRL FRIEND
AN ODD PLACE TO MEET A BI-GIRL
THE STRANGE FOLKS ON CRAIGSLIST
THERE IS NO “ONE-TYPE” OF BI-GIRL
SHE’S A PERFECT GENTLEMAN AND SHE’S PACKIN’
I HAVE A CONFESSION TO MAKE
MY MOM OUTED ME OVER THANKSGIVING DINNER
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THE BEST OF THE HOTEL BLISS GUEST BLOG - READ WHAT BI-GIRLS ARE WRITING!
Written by Miss Bliss on May 1, 2008 – 11:00 am -Dearest Readers, As many of you know, Hotel Bliss, the first private community site for bi and bi-friendly women, is open for beta testing, and already the Guest Blog is full of amazing true stories. Some girls are writing about bi identity, some are sharing coming out stories, others are describing their unusual jobs… All the posts are well-written and incredibly interesting. Each week, I will highlight some of the best posts from the blog for your reading pleasure. XOXOXOXOXXO BLISS WARRIOR
I WAS THE LAST TO KNOW I WAS BI
written by Evocateur
I was twenty when I finally decided that there was no getting around it. I was unashamedly, irrefutably bisexual. The funny thing was, I had been saying I was bi since I was fifteen. Now, before you accuse me of being the type of girl that would make out with another girl at parties just to get attention, let me explain that I was hopelessly clueless about who I was even when I was staring straight at myself. Until I was twenty, I called myself theoretically bi. I knew I thought girls were stunning, but I had never felt a deep emotional attachment to one.
That changed when I met Jaime. Jaime was a bi girl who was an acquaintance of mine. I was dating a man at the time and they had fooled around. Overcome with guilt, she insisted to him that she had to tell me. Up until that conversation, I really didn’t know her that well. We started talking and I immediately became interested in this delightful and complex girl. After one conversation, it didn’t matter that she had fooled around with my boyfriend. In fact, I was happy because I never would have discovered how wonderful she was otherwise.
Jaime was just as surprised as I was at my reaction. I fell head over heels for her in a surprisingly short period of time. My man became convinced that I liked girls more than I liked boys. I was fighting spontaneous romantic urges I had never felt before in my life. I called her my inamorata.
Now here’s what I valued most about this precious bit of time where I had my inamorata’s affection. I began to look at women differently. I had always had a somewhat uneasy relationship with other women. I found them intimidating, inscrutable, or too catty for my liking. Now, everywhere I turned I found something wonderful in the women around me. Their beauty, their intellects, their hopes and their creativity. They all reminded me of her. I also had far more self confidence because I loved her and I was a woman just like her, so I began to love myself. I looked different when I saw myself in the mirror. This is what my love for Jaime did to me.
TO READ THE REST OF THE BLOG, CLICK HERE.
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A SIGH OF RELIEF: COMING OUT TO MY FRIEND
by Shananigans
I went to go pick up my check, thinking I would just be in and out. In my case, nothing really goes as planned for me. I end up wandering to see my friend that is working her department. Before I can see her, I hear her lispy voice ” hi chi-chi girl!” ( she calls me that in reference to my new clit piercing). I turn and I blush in her direction. She hugs me. ” I knew it was you, because I saw that big butt of yours.” I laugh thinking about all the gossip I have heard regarding my ass from co-workers. I am not offended. I feel complimented, in fact.
So we both get to talking about plans for the weekend. I remind her of my trip to California. She beams ” you are the luckiest girl I know.” She thinks it’s admirable that my man and I have been so strong thus far in our now two-year relationship. She asks if I have been out lately. I mumble something about working and not having time. I mentioned something weird that happened one drunken night recently. Her eyes lit up. “Oh, you have to tell me!” I say, “Nah, you really don’t wanna know.. You’ll probably think I am weird or something…,” I trail off. She assures me, and after five minutes of gentle prodding I admit to having a threesome. Her eyes grow large. “WITH TWO GUYS?!!!!”
I say no…
She stares a second…
I say, ”It was with a guy and a girl, I’m bi.”
TO READ THE REST OF THE BLOG, CLICK HERE.
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TALES OF A DANCER: THE FIRST INSTALLMENT
by Heavenly Heather
She put on black slacks, a dressy, low-cut, sexy shirt, and pulled on the black high heeled boots. The flat-iron clamped on each clump of already-straight black hair. Each one had to be in place. She needed this.
She carefully covered each blemish on her face with the pale base make-up. Her eyeliner had to be straight. Her lips had to be red. Her eyelashes had to be curled. If she didn’t get this, where would they go?
He had told her she didn’t have to do it. But she knew she did. He was visibly angry at himself for allowing this to happen. Why couldn’t he do more? Why couldn’t he get another job…maybe two? Why was she being so stubborn about this? But he knew she needed to do it. It was the only way.
She held her breath and tried not to think about it as she gripped the steering wheel.
It’s okay. You can do it.
Her very christian childhood prohibited sex, petting, or even talking intimately before marriage. Kissing was to be EXTREMELY limited and reserved for those who were engaged…and now it had come to this. How could she?
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WHAT TO GET AN ESCORT FOR HER BIRTHDAY
by Saying It All
I’m sitting in the shade on a pleasantly hot afternoon. The condensation on my glass of whiskey is making a small puddle on the glass top of the bar that Dani and her man Bart have set up on their patio. It’s a birthday barbeque for me and Dani. I’m surrounded by the people who know me best. My chosen family. Each and every one of them knows my secrets and would protect me with all that they have. They know that my work takes so much out of me, in spirit and love and energy. They know I’ve been feeling a bit of care-giver burnout. And every one of them is making sure I simply enjoy myself for a change. I’m in the most comfortable space I can imagine.
But we’ve been drinking for hours now. The sun is starting to sink, and I’m feeling the heat and liquor. I ask Dani if I can lay down for just a bit. She leads me into her bedroom and pulls back the covers while I strip off my pants. I climb between the cool sheets and she tucks me in and places a sweet kiss on my forehead.
“I’ll come wake you in just a bit.” she says, as she’s walking to the door. But as she opens the door, there stand Lia and Jane. These two are my partners in crime. And though Dani offers to shoo them away, I tell her to go ahead and let them in. My girls are always welcome.
They come to the bed, one on each side, and stroke my hair and face, kiss my fingers, ask me if I’m feeling ok. I assure them that I’m just laying down for a bit. Recharging. A look passes between them. A sly smile. They peel the covers down to my waist and encourage me to let them take my tank and bra. “To make you more comfortable”. And they are right. I’m more comfy without them. Especially when Jane runs her hands up from my bellybutton to gently stroke my breasts. They are such dolls. Being soothing, kind, loving. And I’m feeling like the most loved being on Earth.
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FOLLOW MY RULES - PART I
Written by Miss Bliss on April 25, 2008 – 9:57 am - ANOTHER FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY TO HELP YOU SLEEP A LITTLE SOUNDER…
You study them both with curious eyes. She is adorable, a little older than you, but with a youthful glow and energy that makes you like her. He is harder to read. You aren’t sure if he is nervous, angry, or just doesn’t know how to act. Deciding he must just be uncomfortable, you lose a little respect for him and even more desire. Turning back to her, she looks at you, smiles broadly and lets out a giggle. With each minute, she is becoming giddy and more beautiful.
You lean back in the maroon leather chair and let your hand finger the stem of your martini glass. “This is what I’d like to do tonight,” you state with an authority that surprises you. “I’m ready to go home with you both, if you follow my rules.”
“Tonight?” Her voice is full of eagerness. “I thought you said you just wanted to meet us tonight. I didn’t know you’d want to…” Her voice trails off and she looks at her husband.
“What are your rules,” he asks with a gruff voice. Obviously, he is not used to someone else leading the game. Or, maybe, he has never been challenged by a women. She seems like the type who lets him make decisions and his unease makes you feel even more in control.
Speaking slowly, with a voice no mortal could resist, you say, “I’ll come home with you both, but this is the scenario I envision.” You look right into his eyes, “I want the two of us to destroy her together.”
“Destroy me?” She lets out an involuntary gasp and blushes.
“Yes. I want to him and I to take turns making you come over and over again.”
“That sounds wonderful!” A lock of black curly hair falls into her eyes and she is more desirable than in the pictures she sent online.
“What are your rules,” he asks again, sensing a threat.
You don’t like him which makes this easy for you. Sure, he is probably a great guy for her - she seems to love him or at least likes to say she does – and he is attractive in a tough guy kind of way, but being his lover is utterly unappealing. “You are not allowed to touch me and I am not allowed to touch you. She can touch both of us and we both can touch her. Those are my rules.”
There is a silence while she looks at him wondering if he is hurt. But you know men a little better than she does, or you think you do. You have thrown down a glove and are asking him if he is man enough to accept your challenge. Will he duel to see who can please this dark-haired beauty more?
A wry smile crosses his face and for a second, you see the handsomeness she must see. “If my wife agrees to the rules, I will agree.”
She is surprised to be the final vote in this proposition. “Are you sure,” she asks him quietly, “because we do not have to…”
You love seeing how awkward you have made them and it emboldens you. “This deal is only good tonight. I can’t predict how I’ll feel tomorrow.”
A look of anger mixed with curiosity flashes across his face but you are not scared. Feeling like you are able to predict every one of his emotional reactions, you smile. They are both yours and for a night, you will own them. You know it even before he nods and says to his wife, “It’s up to you.”
“It could be fun, right?”
“It will be fun for you,” he says, but there is no jealousy or malice in his voice. He understands that this encounter will not be the threesome they imagined or hoped for, but the rules are creating a newer dynamic that might be hotter than any fantasy. He smiles that almost-handsome smile once more and looks right into your eyes. “Don’t think you can please her better than I can, because if you do, it will be a disappointing night for you.”
“I am not worried about being disappointed at all.” You pick up her hands across the café table and take her index finger into your mouth, your eyes on his the entire time. In the middle of the darkened, crowded room, you begin sucking her finger in and out, saying to him with your eyes, “You won’t get to feel these lips on you tonight.” She lets out a muffled moan and he takes her other hand. Placing his hand in her lap under the table, you soon realize he is under her skirt and touching her as you toy with her finger. No one else in the restaurant seems to notice.
Her eyes show panic; being out in a public establishment and being sexually overtaken, frightens her. “This is so nice, but can we pay and go?” Her voice is breathy and nervous.
“Not until you come,” he commands with a lifted eyebrow. He wants to make her come first, even if it means bringing her to a climax in a public place.
This annoys you and you remove her finger from your mouth. “Let me watch,” you say. “I’ll play lookout.”
You are in the back corner of the café and even though the tables are filled with people, your back does conceal them from the other patrons. His arm moves faster, and shakes the table at times. You aren’t particularly interested in what he is doing to her, but her face is fascinating to you. Trying to resist, wanting to succumb, embarrassed and scared she’ll be discovered, overwhelmed with desire and a passion to break all the rules – she is the most beautifully conflicted creature you have seen.
Soon the shaking moves up her body and her shoulders begin to rock, her breaths are quicker, less controlled and her eyes close. Lost in the vibration of his hands, she is in another world, until a large shudder shakes her whole body and the table and you have to catch your drink.
Soon she is quiet and her body is still, again. He withdraws his hand and smiles at you, silently asking, “Can you make her come that fast?”
He thinks he has control again, and you don’t like this. “Put your fingers in her mouth,” you command. “I want her to taste herself.”
Looking at you with a competitive eye, he places two fingers in her mouth and she sucks at them hungrily. His eyes stay on you.
“Shall we get the check,” you say, pleased to be in a powerful place once again. “I think it’s time to take this girl home.”
With his left hand he signals for the check, while his right two fingers remain buried in her lips. By challenging him, he has lost all sense of where he is. If you pushed him a little more, he may just fuck her right on the table.
Smiling, you cannot wait to see what this night will bring.
XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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IF YOU ENJOYED READING THIS BLOG, YOU MAY ENJOY READING OTHER EROTICA BY BLISS WARRIOR:
CAPTIVATING THE COLLEGE GIRL PART ONE, PART TWO, AND PART THREE
TOUCHING UNDER THE TABLE
WAKE ME UP WITH YOUR TONGUE
YOU MADE MY BRAIN COME
LEARNING TO LOVE STRAP-ONS
ONE FRENCH AFTERNOON
WALKING HOME IN HER PANTIES
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YOU MADE MY BRAIN COME - A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY
Written by Miss Bliss on February 1, 2008 – 2:37 pm -please note: this story is not suitable for anyone under the age of 18. contains graphic sexual content.
Other girls bored you. You enjoyed making them come, who wouldn’t? But no girl got to you.
Until, you met her.
And, it wasn’t because she went down on you better than any other. She was the best, no doubt, but that wasn’t what made your heart open. She definitely surprised you with her gentle, responsive, and soft tongue. Nothing about her technique reminded you of a man. She performed one hundred percent femme cunnilingus. Every lick was a question: do you like this? Am I pleasing you? Am I better than any other?
Against her smooth face, you move your thighs fast. It is your second date and already you are slippery wet with the juices she stirred up in you. Rubbing your thighs fast against her mouth, chin, and cheekbones, you notice no roughness, no trace of male stubble to slow you down, or make you pause. Your thighs ski back and forth in orgasm. You look at her - a girl with patent leather hair and deep, dark eyes, her small nose against your clit - and you shake. Deep in your vaginal canal, you are shivering, pulsing, releasing. She has made you climax again.
“You are better than any other,” you say. And she is.
But this isn’t how she got you.
You pull her up and clasp her face in your hands. Her white skin is covered in your scent, dripping in your body’s adoration of her many talents. You bring her pink full lips up to you and slowly kiss, tasting yourself while tasting her. You lick her right cheek and then kiss her left. Her chin is slick with your juices and you lick it lightly. She moves, rapidly darting her tongue into your mouth and you kiss deeply, savoring the mixture of your salt and her sugar.
But that wasn’t the moment, either.
Drenched in adoration and still shaking from pleasure you hug her tight. You pull away from her and turn, finding your man. He kisses you deep, frantic to communicate the frenzy you create together as three.
What makes her so different, you wonder. How can it be explained in words? Was it because she was so clever and sensual, and in every way, the most perfect lover of both a man and a woman?
She slides down his chest, while your finger climbs up her spine. He looks at you and smiles, his eyes full of language and emotion. Her lips lick the tip of his cock and he gasps, his eyes look up into nothing then back down into hers. She is a great cocksucker, you see that instantly. She knows how to caress a cock, and you watch her worship it with loving licks and strokes. She takes him deep; all the way down her throat. He breathes in, surprised and controlled, and you kiss him. His back is sweating, and in that moment, you know that she is not merely a great cocksucker. She is a fantastic cocksucker.
And, a very good girl.
You slide down his body to meet her. Her mouth slides under his shaft and kisses his balls, lightly. A butterfly flick of the tongue, and you smile. You are impressed. She will go as far as you will, maybe even farther. You watch her for a second, then focus your attention on his shaft while she continues tasting and teasing his sack. Licking the length of his cock up and down, you notice he is already wet with her saliva. All you can see is his smooth skin and her closed eyes. Focused, lost in savoring him, the two of you move together, making him moan.
Occasionally, your tongue brushes hers and you kiss. She then licks him, and turns to kiss you, and you kiss her while licking him. All three of you are connected and focused on mutual pleasure. You watch her move her left hand down and she starts stroking his ass, warming him up for her finger.
You are overwhelmed by her power and want to impress her. You take him into your mouth and suck him as deep as you can without choking. Looking up into his eyes, you tell him how much you adore him by stroking the underside of his cock with your tongue.
He begins to move beneath you, his hips moving forward and back, and you realize she is making him move by lightly fucking him with her finger.
Pre-come shoots into your mouth and he tastes sweet. You love his pre-come because it is something he doesn’t control. Incredibly in command of his orgasm, he will only come when he wants to, or when you beg him to. When he gets wet, however, a girl knows she earned it.
He’s getting too close and pulls you both up. Both of your hands surround his cock and you bring him to orgasm together. He kisses you ravenously, and the three of you feed off of each other’s lips. Her come, your come, his taste, your sweat, his come and her saliva all mix - and you are still hungry for more.
That’s when she got you.
She made your brain come.
XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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WALKING HOME IN HER PANTIES - A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY
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BI-GIRL DANCE PARTY TOMORROW NIGHT IN WEST HOLLYWOOD!!!
WE HAVE THE LARGEST GROUP YET GOING OUT FOR FRIENDSHIP, FUN & DANCING.
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ASK MISS BLISS - MY BOYFRIEND’S “PUSHING HARD” FOR A THREESOME
Written by Miss Bliss on January 30, 2008 – 2:35 pm -Dear Miss Bliss,
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now and he is pushing hard for a threesome. It’s not that I don’t want to try it… I am just shy and a little insecure. I am afraid of being the “odd girl out”. I have always been attracted to women, their shapes and smells… but I have never been past the heavy petting stage. I know that this threesome thing would be fun and that my boyfriend would love it, but how do I get over my inhibitions and just have fun? Any suggestions would be welcomed.
Wallflower
Dearest Wallflower,
At our brunch last Sunday in Albuquerque, New Mexico, Kairrie described the conversation she had with her man before their first threesome. This was not Kairrie’s first group experience. She had been the “guest star” with other couples before, but this was the first time she and her man would invite a lover into their bed. Kairrie asked a foxy friend of hers if she would be up for a night of decadent fun with them, and the friend agreed. Having set the date, Kairrie’s man had many questions for her about the upcoming date.
“Is it all right if I kiss her,” he asked Kairrie.
Kairrie said, of course!
“Alright,” he said. “Now, for the big question. How would you feel if I came in her?”
TALK IN EXPLICIT DETAIL ABOUT WHAT WILL HAPPEN DURING THE THREESOME
I mention this conversation for one main reason. The way to avoid feeling left out is quite simple. Have clear, detailed conversations with your man about what will happen during the threesome. Is it alright if he kisses her? Is it alright if he pleases her orally, or is it only you who will please her? Would you enjoy going down on your man with her? Would it be fun for both of you to please her at the same time with your four hands? Go through every scenario you can think of with your man and fantasize together. The more you talk about ways you can please her together, the less likely anyone will feel left out.
HOW TO “GET OVER” ANY INHIBITIONS
It is your first time and it is perfectly natural that you feel nervous and have inhibitions. The more you talk about the first time during sexual play with your partner, the more you can both get turned on together and help each other be ready for the first actual experience.
If you are worried the girl will not be into you, know that ALL girls worry about this. Your lover will probably be worried that she is not as attractive as you are, because all girls, even the prettiest ones, worry that they are not attractive. The more attention and love you give the other girl, the more she will be relaxed with both of you. The invited lover will need you to make her feel comfortable, and by focusing on her, you will feel less nervous.
Reading erotica is a way to get over inhibitions because you realize you are not the only one with these desires and it will teach you a few tips. Finding a bi-girl friend to talk with in your area is another way you can eliminate fears - by acknowledging them, learning tips to avoid jealousy, and feeling better about yourself, your relationship, and your sensual desires.
THE FIRST THREESOME DOES NOT HAVE TO GO “ALL THE WAY”
Many girls get skittish about having a threesome because they do not want their man to penetrate another woman. This is completely natural and totally acceptable. Many women who join couples do not necessarily want to be penetrated by the other girl’s man, at least the first time. If your man does not understand this, or feels that he “must” penetrate both of you to be satisfied, he is not ready for a group situation. He needs to respect your feelings and should not introduce any sexual elements that are not okay with you first. Remember, a threesome is about bringing the two of you closer together while inviting another lucky soul into the love you share.
IF GUYS DIDN’T “PUSH HARD” FOR SEX, MOST OF US WOULD BE VIRGINS
Now, I know this may sound shocking, but if men did not push girls into sex, we might all be middle-aged virgins wondering what the fuss was about. The question is, is your man pushing you in a good way or in a bad way? Many women have fantasies of being with other women, but do not know how to make the first move or are too scared to. If this is the case, dear Wallflower, and your man is pushing you in a good way, helping you get over your fears and make a real move towards finding a lover, then I have no problem with it. I had a friend who was scared to death of going up to a girl and kissing her, but wanted to desperately. One night at a club, her man got a few drinks in her and told her she had to go over and kiss the girl she was flirting with earlier. She said no, he said yes. He said yes again, more sternly this time, and she felt she “had to kiss her.” She went over to her, told the girl she thought she was pretty and asked if she could kiss her. To her delight, the girl said yes, and they kissed. After, she was euphoric and grateful to her man for “pushing her” just enough.
IF HE’S “PUSHING HARD” AND YOU ARE NOT READY, YOU HAVE A PROBLEM
If you are insecure in your relationship and do not trust him to follow the rules you established before the threesome, you two are not ready for a group experience. If he really loves you, he will wait until you are both ready for the experience. As I have written before in the blog, Is Your Man a Deal-Breaker, if he is pushing for penetration with your new lover and does not understand why that should wait, he may not be ready.
FOR MORE TIPS ON AVOIDING PROBLEMS DURING YOUR FIRST THREESOME,
I RECOMMEND RE-READING THESE BLOGS:
ASK MISS BLISS: A GIRL’S FIRST THREESOME
ASK MISS BLISS: A TOMBOY HANDLES JEALOUSY
XOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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THIS SATURDAY NIGHT IN LOS ANGELES BI-GIRL DANCE NIGHT IN WEST HOLLYWOOD
So far we have had a HUGE response to the event and at least 15 girls are coming out to dance the night away.
Want to join us? E-mail me at bliss@blisswarrior.com.
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LEARNING TO LOVE STRAP-ONS: A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY
Written by Miss Bliss on January 25, 2008 – 6:00 am -
You’ve never used a strap-on and liked it.
The first time a girl tightened those leather straps around your hips, fastening her cock to your body, you felt nothing.
On your back, beneath her, behind her, she loved everything you did to her, but still, nothing.
And, when the three of you physically connected, you and your man taking her together, you watched their faces, touched her hair with one hand, stroked his back with the other, and wanted to be there with them. But you weren’t.
Tonight is different. New advances in sex toy technology have created a strap-on that has two attachments: one for her and one for you.
It’s a little complicated to get on. You don’t know if you should insert your dildo before you adjust the straps or the other way around. Either option is awkward.
She watches you from the bed and you smile, a little embarrassed. You ask for help, and she leisurely climbs off the bed and walks towards you. You study the tiny waist, the full breasts, and desire her.
You expect her to come in front of you and help, but she surprises you by coming from behind. Her lips graze the back of your neck as her arms reach around and find the dildo. “May I,” she asks in a whisper. You smile, step your legs a little further apart, and allow her to fill you. She tightens the straps and this time already feels different than the others.
As she leads you back to the bed, you are conscious of the hardness inside of you, connected to the hardness out in front of you.
Now, you are both on your knees. You kiss and run fingers through shampooed hair, while your cock bounces in front of you. Assisting you coyly, she pours lube from her left hand into her right. Slowly, as if you were a man, she strokes the dildo that is facing her thigh. She makes it wet, makes it warm, makes it ready. With each stroke, each gentle pull outward, the cock within you moves, just a bit.
This movement stimulates fierce lust. Suddenly, you want her. You ask her to get on her hands and knees and place a pillow under her belly for soft support. “Touch yourself,” you whisper into her ear, and her right hand shifts underneath her until her body vibrates slowly.
Play began hours ago, and she is ready for you. The head of your new cock is a little bigger than the others you’ve used, so you enter her slowly, just getting the head in first. The tip is in and she moans, and you push further. “Is this alright,” you ask, but she just says, “More.”
You push all the way into her, and something is different. The dildo inside of you pushes back. You pull out of her, and the one inside you pulls out, too. It’s a part of you. Push and pull. Sliding in and out. You are both connected.
Now, it gets fun. You get to fuck her like a man. You have a cock, and you begin to explore her insides with it. You move your hips from side to side, moving your cock to the left and right. Then you switch and make small circles, then wider ones. With each new move, her breath changes: she moans, she sighs, she begs for more. And you feel it all.
“Faster,” she breathes, and your hips move faster.
“Deeper,” she sighs, and you go deeper.
“Yes, just like that,” she moans, “Just like that. Don’t stop. Please don’t stop.”
She is close, and for the first time, you’re going to feel it when you make her come. Lost in the moment, you have never felt so connected to the male part of yourself. This must be what it feels like for a man, you think, or at least it’s close to what a man feels. Your thighs hurt and your abs feel the workout but you keep going. She is going to come all over you and you cannot wait.
“I’m so close,” she says once more.
But right then, out of nowhere, comes the deepest vaginal orgasm you’ve ever felt. Your climax is hard, more powerful than you’ve had a very long time, and you realize - in bliss and horror- you can’t finish her.
You have to stop and catch your breath. Mumbling an odd apology, you roll off her in an orgasmic daze.
“Oh my God,” you say between breaths, “I came too early. I can’t believe it.”
“It’s okay, honey,” she says, but you hear her disappointment.
“No,” you say. “I’m not letting you go without the orgasm you deserve.” You turn to your man who is beaming with pride, so happy the toy he surprised you with works so very well. “Darling,” you say to him, “I think I need your help.”
He smiles and she’s delighted. You place a condom on his warm, hard perfection, then turn, and hold her in your arms. As you kiss her lips, he takes over where you left off.
XOXOXOXOXXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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THIS SUNDAY AT 11 AM
WE ALREADY HAVE 5 GORGEOUS GIRLS COMING
FOR FRIENDSHIP AND CONVERSATION.
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BLISS WARRIOR’S ELEVEN INSANELY HOT SAPPHIC SCENES
Written by Miss Bliss on January 16, 2008 – 6:00 am -Bliss Warrior prides herself on exquisite taste in film – and women. So I thought I’d share my favorite sensuous girl scenes and seek the opinions of all you Angels, Goddesses and Vixens.
Top Eleven Absolutely Gorgeous Scenes Of Women Making Love
There’s no porn here – everything’s available on NetFlix. And I’m not saying these are all great films, either. These are just scenes that drive me wild every time I see them, and remind me that girls who don’t love girls are just a little bit insane.
1-Unbearable Lightness of Being.
It’s 1988. Juliete Binoche photographs Lena Olin. Lena photographs Juliette. Bliss Warrior’s life changes forever.
2- Show Me Love.
Lukas Moodyson’s sublime coming-out story that’s really a luminous coming-of-age story. Lost and lonely Swedish teens Agnes and Ellin share their first kiss while an unlikely 80s power ballad plays on the car stereo. Trust me on this.
3- The Hunger. Catherine Deneuve and Susan Sarandon’s love scene is as shocking and hypnotic now as it was in 1983. It’s great fun to revisit this film and remember the moment Goth peaked.
4 - Exterminating Angels. Halfway through this
unholy French exploitation flick you realize you’re watching a self-indulgent male-menopausal misogynist cry for help masquerading as feminism. “Silly” is a kind word for this one. But the love scenes are some of the most gorgeous ever filmed. The restaurant scene is worth the rental, and the all-girl threesome will change your life.
5 - Aimee and Jaguar.
Required viewing. A Nazi’s wife falls in love with a Jewish girl who’s helping the resistance. It’s devastating, gorgeous, sexy as hell, and a true story. Great book, too.
6 - Bound. You knew this would make the list. If you still haven’t seen Gina Gershon & Jennifer Tilly share the most tantalizing first kiss ever, catch up. Quick!
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7 - Gia. This film’s influence on bi-girls is like the Big Bang – it’s still expanding. Trashy, exploitative, made-for-cable, and I own it proudly. The best performance Angelina J. ever gave – until “A Mighty Heart” (which is also required viewing, just for different reasons). Insanely hot. Damn.
8 - Desert Hearts. Helen Shaver & Patricia Charbonneau redefine chemistry with one of the all-time classic lesbian love scenes. It’s charming, it’s campy, and who doesn’t love a film about the 1950s made in the 1980s. The new 2 Disc DVD has extra footage you really should see.
9 - Bitter Moon. Not exactly a bi-girl film, but Polanski got creepy again in the early ‘90s. Hugh Grant spends half the film wondering how he can cheat on Kristin Scott-Thomas with Emmanuelle Seigner. Then Kristin gets her instead. Their moment is brief, but it balances out the brilliant psychological creepiness of the story. This film makes very uptight men even more uptight. I mentioned it was creepy, right?
10 - High Art.
I don’t think I can say anything about Radha Mithcell and Ally Sheedy’s scene that hasn’t been said by those more eloquent than me. This show is everything “The L Word” wishes it was. Before there was Shane, there was Ally Sheedy.
11 - Mulholland Drive.
Because, well, you know.
And if you don’t, rent it right now!
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IN CASE YOU WERE WONDERING…
Sorry frat boys, there’s no “Wild Things” on this list. Nothing against Neve Campbell or the former Mrs. Sheen, but that little piece of swimming pool infamy was two women PRETENDING to be into each other to sucker a man. It’s also a prime example of female bisexuality being used as a marketing tool to suck-in males. Not hot. (Neve more than redeems herself with Jolie Carter behind a gauzy curtain in the intriguing-and-yet-silly “When Will I Be Loved”)
There’s no “Chasing Amy” here either. Many love this film, but I could never get too hot for a story of a woman who thought she was lesbian until she was straightened out by Ben Affleck’s Goatee.
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Okay, ladies! Tell me what scenes and films you love. I’m waiting.
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ASK MISS BLISS - HOW DOES A “GOOD GUY” MEET A BI-GIRL?
Written by Miss Bliss on January 15, 2008 – 6:00 am -Dear Miss Bliss,
What would you suggest is the best way for a single guy like myself to meet single bisexual girls who would be interested in dating a good guy? Is it just luck? I’d love to date a bisexual girl, but how do you find them? All of them either seem to be married or in relationships already.
Sincerely,
J.
Dear Mr. Single Guy,
When I was 20 years old, I fell in love with the man who became my husband eleven years later. At age 20, I did not consider myself bisexual. I was not for or against it; it was a non-issue because I loved dating men. My man dated three bisexual women before we fell in love and said he “knew” I was bi before we began dating. When he discovered I had not been with a girl, he was surprised, but it did not matter: we were madly in love. If I was a straight girl it was fine with him because our connection was so true and strong.
As we explored our sexual connection, I asked him to share the stories of his romantic adventures with his previous girlfriends. The stories turned me on incredibly and soon I desired to share new passionate experiences with the love of my life. But we did not rush to take a lover because we enjoyed exploring the heights and depths of our unique sexual connection. We waited over two years before our first love affair with a girl and because we waited, experienced a wonderful, trusting, deep connection with another.
The point is, my good man, if you go looking for a girl just because she is bi, you are setting up a shaky foundation for a relationship. Fall in love with who you fall in love with. Straight or bi, the right girl for you is a girl you go mad for; a girl who whips you for life; a girl you must experience everything with because you adore her that much. Find the woman with whom you can grow in love together.
It is actually quite easy to meet a bi-girl that will make out with other chicks or go to the swing party with you. Just go out to some club on a Friday night and you can bring home your very own hedonist or freak. If you want an empty hookup, you can find it easily. But if you want to build something deeper and truer, find the right woman to love first. Don’t worry if she is straight or bi.
Many bi-girls do not tell the men they are dating that they are bi because they have learned that many men will treat them like trash. Guys will say anything to convince a girl he wants to be her boyfriend when really he is just seeking a free pass to the sex club. However, if he is a “good guy” and the girl realizes he is the real deal, she may a year or so into the relationship, reveal she is bi. She may even have a girlfriend or two she would like to share with the man she loves. But to find this girl and to keep her, you must be a true gentleman who knows how valued and loved his girl should be. She is a superhero of love and only the best man is worthy of her superpowers.
XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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THERE IS NO “ONE TYPE” OF BI-GIRL
Written by Miss Bliss on January 2, 2008 – 6:00 am -“I don’t get the whole threesome thing.” Meg’s light red curls peek out of a crocheted cap. It is a cool, sunny Sunday in December and eight biGirls have come together in San Diego for brunch and conversation. Meg looks at me and says, “Is your site just for married girls into group sex? Because I am not one of those. I am truly bi. I either want a boyfriend or a girlfriend, but I don’t get why you have to have both at the same time.”
The table is quiet and uncomfortable for a moment. “Bliss Warrior is for all types of biGirls… Some girls are like you, only into monogamous relationships, some are married and enjoy sharing lovemaking, some identify as lesbian. There are many straight girls who’ve never been with a woman before but are curious.”
“But you’re married, right?” I nod and she says, “I just don’t get why a girl would want to be with a couple. It seems like they’re using her.”
For a second, I feel defensive, but I quickly let it go. “Well, there are creepy couples that exploit bigirls to breathe life into a dead relationship, and there are couples who really adore each other and want to share that joy with another. Some single bigirls like being with couples because they can explore a sexual fantasy without drama. If the couple is really in love, the lover gets to share their passion without worrying that the girlfriend will freak out or that the guy will try to hook up with her behind his girlfriend’s back. Plus, if the couple is doing it right, they are spoiling their lover, taking her out, buying her gifts, and making her feel like a goddess.”
Allison, the stunning asian girl across from me, smiles and says, “I am married, too, and feel like sharing lovers has really brought me and my husband closer together.”
“I am the single girl who loves being with couples,” Marta says and all of us turn to gaze at the girl with long curls framing her almond eyes. “It’s true. When the couple is really in love, I get to be a part of their love without having to worry that anyone is going to get jealous. It’s really amazing to be the ‘guest star’.”
“I’m polyamorous,” says Gwendolyn to my left. She giggles and says, “We love everybody! Boy, girl, whatever, we love you! Polyamory people are the best because they have no rules, no boundaries, just love for everybody!”
The table laughs with her and I look at our hostess, Dana, a lovely girl with short cropped hair and a sensuous smile. She is laughing with our new San Diegan friends, brought together from Craigslist and Myspace, and I am grateful to her. The eight of us are true individuals, living and loving in our unique way, but we are no longer alone.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Bliss
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