CAPTIVATING THE COLLEGE GIRL - PART TWO
Written by Miss Bliss on March 28, 2008 – 1:56 pm - A FRIDAY NIGHT BEDTIME STORY
A LITTLE EROTIC FICTION TO HELP YOU SLEEP MORE SOUNDLY
MISSED CAPTIVATING THE COLLEGE GIRL - PART ONE? CLICK HERE TO READ IT.
“Do you want to sit down?” She is standing nervously near the door, silently debating whether or not she should leave. Something about the small space of your studio apartment makes her anxious. Occasionally you catch her eyes looking at your full-size bed and you know she is weighing her options. You distract her thoughts by saying, “Let’s have another glass of wine, shall we?”
“It’s getting late…” The librarian wants to go home and stay safe inside her straight world, but the gypsy has not forgotten the passion on the roof experienced just a few moments before. She is obviously torn and the stress of her internal battle creates creases in her forehead.
“It’s not too late for one more drink.” Before she can say no, you go into the closet that is your kitchen and pour two glasses of red wine. Opening the refrigerator, you take out a box of strawberries, wash them and quickly arrange them in a bowl. Carefully balancing the two glasses and the bowl, you join her on the couch. She gingerly takes a glass and you place the strawberries on the foot locker that serves as a coffee table. “To friendship,” and you lift your glass for a toast.
She is quiet as she sips her wine. You let the silence grow as you eat strawberries. Casually, you move your leg close to hers, and let your leg brush against hers. She moves closer to you and you realize she wants to be seduced. She may be divided, unsure of what she wants, but she is still here. “May I kiss you again,” you ask.
She nods, unable to say a word. Taking the wine glass out of her hand and setting it next to yours on the table, you turn to her and kiss gently, slowly, savoring the taste of alcohol and fruit that lingers on her tongue.
Suddenly, as if a switch in her brain was turned, she pushes you back down on the couch and straddles your body. She doesn’t speak but aggressively kisses you, with such an ardent passion you cannot believe this is the same girl who only hours before told you she was “straight”. Her hands run up and down your arms, through your hair, as she begins pressing her hips into yours. She is drowning and you are oxygen and she cannot get enough of you.
She comes up onto her knees and begins unbuttoning her white shirt. As each button is undone, she stares into your eyes, enjoying you watching her. You wonder if she ever plays this role with her male lovers. Her bra is boring and functional - a t-shirt nude-colored bra designed to be invisible under clothing - but her breasts are so full and perky, she somehow makes the bra look inviting and sexy. Her stomach is flat with a shimmering jewel filling her belly button.
“You have a belly ring,” you ask as you touch it. More evidence of the passionate gypsy.
“Do you like,” she asks.
“I do.” Your fingers touch her soft belly, then move up her chest and until both of her breasts are in your hands. “Do you have any sense of how perfect your body is?” She shakes her head shyly and her hair moves around her shoulders. “You should be a lingerie model, that’s how stunning you are.”
Although she can’t look at you, she is smiling. Her hands find your shirt and she starts to pull it off. She wants to see you, too. “Oh, your bra is so pretty,” she exclaims as she sees the black embroidery. Like on the roof, she touches your breasts with utter fascination. She had no idea how amazing it is to feel the soft fullness of another woman’s breasts. Her hands go under the bra cups and she finds your nipples, already hard, already throbbing with desire and she pinches them. You moan and she says with delight, “You like that?”
“Darling, if you keep this up, I’m not going to be able to control myself.”
She pinches your nipples harder. Separating your legs, she moves her knee between them, and starts pressing her leg into you, making your clit vibrate with anticipation. She is daring you to take her, pushing to make it impossible to stop, and you are surprised that she - the girl virgin - the straight one - the novice - this girl is seducing you. Did she lie to you when she said she was straight? Has she been with other girls but can’t admit it? She must have played with girls before to be this assertive… or maybe, she’s just drunk. Will she pretend none of this happened when the sun rises?
But you let these questions go because she is distracting your body with desire. “Let’s move,” you say and you gesture to the bed. She gets up and gives you her hand to help you up. In bras and skirts, you hold each others’ hands as you walk to the bed.
“Lie on your back,” you command.
“I want you to lie on your back,” she says, deciding to stay the dominant lover.
“You have been with girls before. You must have.”
She shakes a finger no.
“But you are acting so…” You want to say, experienced, but before you do, she puts a finger to your lips to silence you, and gently pushes you back on the bed. She undoes your zipper and slides your skirt off. Standing, she turns her back to you and unzips her skirt. It falls to the floor elegantly and she steps out of it. Turning around, she is only in underwear, but she is more beautiful than you ever imagined. Tiny waisted, great legs, perfect breasts and a flat, shimmering belly, she is a goddess come alive and she is ready to devour you.
Crawling on top of you, she kisses you deeply. She slides down your body, letting her hair tickle your neck, your breasts, your tummy until her face pauses over your sex. Her fingers find the sides of your lace underwear and she begins to pull them off. “Wait,” you say and take her face in your hands. She looks up at you and smiles. When you were taking the lead, you felt confident and all-powerful; her sudden passion for you makes you feel shy and awkward. “Is this what you want,” you ask. “Are you sure you want to do this?” You are giving her an out and you don’t know why.
She answers you by pulling off your underwear. She tells you she wants you by licking your right inner thigh, then licking the left. She kisses your bellybutton, then kisses an inch below it, than another kiss, and another… each kiss bringing her closer and closer to your impatient, throbbing sex. Her tongue starts at the base of your pussy, and in one long lick, she tastes you from the base all the way to the tip of your clit. Licking you so lightly, with such delicacy, you are driven insane with desire for her. Your hips begin to lift off the bed, asking her for more tongue, more pressure, more, more, more. Her hands spread your legs wider and her tongue finds your slick interior. Her lips find your swollen clit and she begins sucking on it - in and out - and you moan.
You cannot believe she is going down on you. The first two girls you played with you didn’t go down on at all. Although you like girls, something about smelling and tasting pussy turned you off a little. Touching another girl with your fingers was fun and easy. Just like masturbating, you knew exactly how much pressure to put on her clit with the right hand and how to use the left hand to penetrate her at the same time. But oral sex was a whole other level of intimacy. This girl had to have been with girls before; what girl goes down on another girl right away? Especially if she has not been touched or brought to orgasm yet?
With her tongue still on your clit, she inserts a finger into your tight warm self and begins moving it in and out. She is not an expert with her hand and mimicks the actions of a guy by simply pushing her finger in and out. Maybe she is a girl virgin, after all…. but you soon forget the novice quality of her hand movement because her tongue distracts you with its expert skill. Nibbling on your clit lightly, sometimes pulling it into her month, sometimes stroking it with quick licks, she brings you close to orgasm. Although coming has never been difficult for you, she is bringing you to orgasm fast.
“Put another finger in me,” you instruct, and she inserts two fingers. Two fingers fill you better and she begins moving her hand with more force. Experimenting with her hand, she starts to move her fingers in circles, touching your walls in new and delicious ways. Between her lips, tongue and hands, you are dripping wet, throbbing and close. So close. “You are going to make me come,” you whisper.
This makes her movements more excited, faster, harder. Your hips press your sex deeper into her face, and you begin to rock against her fingers. The explosion is building within you and you whisper, “Keep doing that. Yes, just like that. I am so close…”
In that moment, she does something so surprising, it pushes you over the edge into the deepest orgasm a girl ever gave you. With the two fingers of her right hand penetrating you, her tongue stroking your clit, she takes her left hand and inserts a finger into your ass. Her finger is dry and the shock of the insertion - not quite pleasant and a little painful without lubrication - jump starts your body and surprises your mind. Penetrating you with both hands, you explode into orgasm. The pleasure and slight pain throw you over the edge and you scream. “Coming,” you say, and your body is filled with waves of pleasure. Over and over the waves wash over you and you whisper, “I’m still coming….” Longer than any orgasm, you cannot believe this girl did this to you.
Finally, you push at her shoulders to gently stop her. Again, you pull her up to you, her face slick with your juices. You kiss her and taste yourself on her tongue. You taste yummy mixed up in her saliva.
She turns and lies next to you as you both catch your breath. “You are no straight girl, honey.”
“No,” she asks with a purr.
“I hate to break it to you, but no. You certainly don’t make love to a girl like a hetero.”
“How do I make love to a girl?”
“Like this,” you say. Mimicking her movements, you show her what an incredible lover of women she already is.
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This is part two of a three-part story, Captivating the College Girl. Tune in next week to find out what happens in the morning. . XOXOXOXO BLISS WARRIOR
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ONE FRENCH AFTERNOON
WALKING HOME IN HER PANTIES
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FIVE NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES ABOUT BISEXUALS
Written by Miss Bliss on February 18, 2008 – 11:26 am -Dear Miss Bliss,
I don’t know if I would classify myself as bi. I don’t really know what my sexuality is. I am only 22 years old and have been in a serious relationship for the past three years. I knew I was attracted to girls before I met my current boyfriend. I’ve been lucky in the sense that I can talk to my man openly about my bisexual feelings and he understands. His only rule is that he be allowed to participate.
The only problem is I don’t want him to be there when I have my first experience with a girl. A lot of it is my own insecurity and the other part is I want to experience my first time without an audience.
A year ago, I set out to find a girl to explore my curiosity with and - unbelievably - met someone through Craigslist and we really hit it off. When we finally met in person, I couldn’t believe my luck! Not only was she beautiful, we had so much in common, and there was never an awkward silence between the two of us. We knew right away that we could be great friends.
Towards the end of the date, things got very physical. Needless to say, there was a lot of alcohol involved and we weren’t very careful about what we were doing. We were hooking up in her car outside of my apartment and my boyfriend caught us in the act - naked and everything.
Before I continue, you should know that my boyfriend is a very stereotypical Latin man who is jealous, possessive, immature, but also loving and passionate, and he worships the ground I walk on. He was very hurt that I went out with a girl behind his back and it took a long time and a lot of apologizing to get him to forgive me. In the end, he told me that I could no longer see this girl or even talk to her. He even went as far as calling her and telling her to stay away from me. Of course, she got freaked out and we decided to cool it.
It’s been a year and I have not been able to forget her. The whole incident was devastating to me. Ever since then it’s been hard for me go out without my boyfriend without being grilled about the night extensively when I get home.
A lot of time has passed and my desire to be with a woman is overwhelming. I am constantly asking myself if I even want to be with a man at all. When we’re having sex I find myself fantasizing about being with a woman and that’s how I get off! I’ve tried to convince him to let me have a special “friend” on the side but he’s afraid I will leave him for her, so the same first rule applies: only if he’s involved. And I’m still not comfortable with that.
In a few weeks, I will be moving out of our apartment and I am hoping to use that new freedom to explore what it’s like to really be with a woman. I don’t know that it’s fair to stay in a relationship with him knowing that what I really want is a woman’s touch. However - and I know this sounds selfish - I am afraid to break up with him only to realize I can’t find a decent girl.
Can you give me some advice? Also, do you think what I’m doing is wrong?
xoxox
CAUGHT CHEATING IN THE CAR
Darling Caught Cheating,
It’s not often that I feel sorry for the jealous possessive boyfriend, but your letter has made it happen. It is also very rare that an Ask Miss Bliss letter makes me wonder if all of those negative stereotypes about bisexuals may just be true and accurate. Sweet girl, I know you are young, and I am so glad you wrote to me because you may never be a happy bisexual girl unless you make some changes in your behavior.
FIVE NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES ABOUT BISEXUALS THAT YOUR LETTER IS REINFORCING:
1. BISEXUALS ARE CONFUSED
It is fine to be unsure if the labels bi, straight or gay are right for you. However, if you are calling yourself “curious” (and therefore, implying you are bisexual) when you are behaving badly (i.e., lying and cheating on your man) you are teaching him and your lover that bisexuals are liars and cheaters. Stop reinforcing the negative stereotypes we are trying to dismantle and get honest and open in your sexual behavior. There is no need to lie or cheat but you have to be strong to be ethical and honest. Know that the enemy is not your partner wanting to be involved - it is you for not being able to stick to the terms of your relationship!
2. BISEXUALS CANNOT COMMIT
Even though you know that your man is jealous and the two of you have agreed that you will not do anything with a girl “unless he is involved”, you still lie to him. You are not brave enough to break off the relationship to explore your “curiosity” on your own. Instead, you go behind his back on the Internet searching for girls, and even go on a date with a girl and get naked right in front of the apartment you share, and are still mad at him when he can no longer trust you. Do you see how you are reinforcing the negative stereotype that bisexuals cannot be trusted?
3. BISEXUALS THINK BEING WITH A GIRL BEHIND THEIR MAN’S BACK IS NOT CHEATING
Lesbians have a right to be angry and/or suspicious when bisexual woman come on to them in bars because of “curious” girls like you, darling reader. Bi-women who are in serious relationships with men often believe that their man has no right to be jealous when they are with girls because “they wouldn’t leave him for a girl.” Many sincere, kind, sexy lesbians have been toyed around with lying curious-and-not-sure-if-they-are-bi girls who are cheating on men. I am sure your perfect girlfriend was “freaked out” when you’re man called her to tell her to stay away from you - but she was not just freaked out by him. She learned that you were lying to him and to her, and what girl would want to date someone like that? No wonder some lesbians want nothing to do with bi-girls; they have been burned by behavior similar to yours.
4. BI-GIRLS SHOULDN’T HAVE TO INCLUDE THEIR PRIMARY PARTNER
Darling girl, many bi-curious girls say that they want their first time with a girl NOT to involve their partner for two reasons: (1) it is much easier to hook up with a girl when no man is involved, and (2) they do not trust their man enough to share the experience with him. But here, again, is why this type of behavior reinforces negative stereotypes about bisexuals. First, it demonstrates that you do not want to enjoy a lover to DEEPEN your connection with your primary relationship. Second, if your man does not approve of you being alone with a girl for the first time, then anything behind his back is cheating. Just because she is a girl and you think you will not fall in love with her does not make it fair to lie and cheat. What you need to be working on is your relationship with your man. If he will not let you have lovers on the side and you will not include him, then you need to get a therapist and start couples therapy immediately. Or, it may be time to end the relationship because it is obvious you do not respect his needs or his feelings. Don’t reinforce the stereotype that bisexuals cannot have healthy long-term relationships; just get honest.
5. BISEXUALS WANT THEIR CAKE AND TO EAT IT, TOO
According to your letter, you have already had a “first time” with a girl in a car but you now want a second “first time” without your man’s involvement even though you KNOW it will hurt him terribly. In order to do this, you are going to move out of the apartment you share so you will have “easier access” to girls. Well, this is fine except for the fact that you are STILL planning on lying to him because you do not want to end the relationship out of fear of being alone. Darling, this reinforces the stereotype that bisexuals are selfish and only care about their own sexual desires and pleasures. By lying to your man, you are also setting up relationships with women that are based on lies. You WON’T find a healthy relationship with a woman until you are ready to date in an honest and respectful manner.
Darling Reader, there are so many amazing bisexual woman who are honest with themselves, their partners and their lovers. Their lives become happy and drama-free just by being ethical and responsible to the people they love. Be the Bi-Girl You Want to Meet and get honest. It just makes life better and easier.
OXOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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WALKING HOME IN HER PANTIES
Written by Miss Bliss on January 11, 2008 – 12:20 am -It is Friday night, and for some of you, tonight will be a night of delight.
She will meet you for a cocktail at the lounge twenty or so minutes late. This doesn’t bother you; it gives you time to relax. You wait for her nervous, excited, and aware of the slight throb between your legs. Patterned stockings and knee-high pointed boots, you wonder what she will do when she sees you.
“Can I bring you a drink,” the waitress asks. She is in a short black dress and you notice her long legs. For a moment, you feel like a man must feel; always aware of the desire for women.
From across the room she approaches. In a short floral dress, belted, femme and glowing, she appears. You never expected her to get so decked out for you. Obviously, she spent time picking out the most adorable outfit she could find in her closet. She took so much time look her best and you are overwhelmed with gratitude and anticipation. She is having as much fun being on the date as you are.
After a few hours of drinks and conversation; after moments of knees touching, fingers lacing, her hand on your stockinged leg; after deciding who was more sober and would drive home… You arrive in her apartment, she pours you wine and you are both awkward for a moment. She’s talking a lot and you don’t know if you should kiss her or not. It all seems so much more intimate than you expected and you feel like a teenager again; awkward and slightly off.
But she is a bit older than you are, and definitely more experienced. She leads you to her bedroom, puts on music that you have never heard before but feels familiar. Candles scent the room in ginger and lillies and you let her lead you. She pulls you into her, dances with you and lets her hands drip down your back slowly. Her fingers slide under your skirt, feeling the gap of skin between your stocking and your panties. Never has that flesh tingled as much. She strokes you through your green and black lace and you are grateful you went shopping and bought new pretty things for her.
Kissing you slowly, she memorizes the shape of your mouth with her tongue. Licking you lightly, tenderly, you are amazed by the softness of her mouth, the smallness of her tongue, the smoothness of her cheek.
As she undresses you, and then makes love to you, you are surprised only by how normal and perfect it all feels. You knew it would be wonderful with a woman but you had no idea it would feel sweet and innocent. Lost in bliss, you flip her over and are shocked at how much you already knew about pleasuring a woman. You already knew how to make her sigh, gulp, moan, and ask for more, because you knew what you liked so well. Her body is so new and so known; a mystery and a returning home; and you tell her with your mouth, tongue, chin, fingers and nose how very much you adore her.
Unfortunately, tonight you can’t stay over, but you want to. Lifting sheets, pillows, and towels, you search for your lingerie and your left boot. She comes up from behind you, puts her arms around your shoulders and whispers into your ear that she would like to sleep in your panties and have you go home wearing hers. This makes you blush but turns you on in its innocent dirtiness. You turn around and face her and you swap panties and put them on.
They fit you perfectly which shocks you because she seemed so much smaller than you. You silly girl, she says. Look, we’re the same size.
Dressed and back out in the cool January night, you smile, walking home in her panties.
XOXOXOXOOXXO
BLISS WARRIOR
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ASK MISS BLISS - HOW DO I KNOW IF I’M BI?
Written by Miss Bliss on November 14, 2007 – 12:09 am -Dear Miss Bliss,
How do you know when you are truly bi? I mean, how do you know when it first began? I had an experience when I was really young, about 7 or 8 years old. My best friend lived across the street from me and we would spend the night at each other’s houses. Anyway, when we spent the night together, we’d sleep together in either my bed or her bed. During the night, we would “play” with each other. I am trying to figure out if that was the beginning of my bisexuality or was it just because I was so young and curious and loved the feelings I was experiencing down there? I have always felt an attraction to girls and women since then, but never really thought about it too much. I always dated men and then got married. So…I guess I’m trying to figure out when and how it all started, and if the play with my friend was simply because I was so young and figuring out how things work down there?
XOXOXOXO
Curious About Being Bi
Dear Curious,
A dear friend of mine in Hawaii believes all women are bi or have bisexual tendencies. Of course, I also have a lesbian friend who thinks that bigirls are really gay, but too afraid to come out and risk the protection dating men gives them.
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU IF YOU ARE BISEXUAL?
1. YOU MAKE LOVE TO MEN AND WOMEN
Obviously, if you are dating both men and women, you are bisexual. Some women who have been in lesbian relationships for decades, still say they are bi because they have loved men in their past. The same goes for women in monogamous heterosexual relationships who loved women previously. If loving the person comes first, and their gender is not an issue for you, you are definitely bi.
2. YOU DATE MEN, HAVEN’T BEEN WITH GIRLS, BUT KNOW YOU’RE BI
Many women on Bliss Warrior are dating or married to men and have never been with a woman. Even though they are “bi-virgins”, they are certain that they want to make love to a woman and often, their sexual fantasies involve girls. With their partners, they are seeking a lover or flirting with girls and know that soon their fantasy will become a reality.
The key here is that if you know you are bisexual, you are, no matter who your sexual partners have been. Your sexual identity is your choice, so if it feels right, true, and good to tell the world you are bi, do it.
IS SEXUAL PLAY AMONG CHILDHOOD FRIENDS A SIGN YOU ARE BI?
Girls often learn about sex and explore sexual feelings with their childhood friends, as do boys. This is completely normal, and not necessarily a sign of future “gayness”. When I was in fifth grade, I threw a birthday party just for girls. The parents were downstairs and we were safely locked inside of my bedroom. Someone suggested we play spin-the-bottle and whoever the bottle landed on, would have to take off a piece of clothing. After the bottle spun and spun, us girls were left only wearing our knickers. One girl became shy and asked if we could turn off the lights before we continued the last round of our game. I turned off the lights and again the bottle was spun until every girl was naked.
Someone suggested we play music and dance, so I turned on Olivia Newton-John’s, Let’s Get Physical, and we danced and danced, naked in the dark. No one touched one another, but the air was alive with erotic energy. We danced until my mom knocked on the door and told us the party was ending. Dressing quickly, we smiled at each other knowing we had done something “bad” and gotten away with it.
At other slumber parties we played spin the bottle but instead of stripping, we would kiss, the intention being that we were “practicing” to kiss boys. At the time, I did not know I was into women. I was very interested in kissing and dating boys and felt that the sexual play with girls was a way to prepare to be with boys in the future.
So, my darling reader, if you believe that touching your sweet childhood friend was when you became a bi-girl, then that is your truth. If you are unsure about your sexual identity, feel good knowing that many girls play with their childhood friends to explore sex. It is natural and you have no reason to feel ashamed.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS
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ASK MISS BLISS - AM I STILL A VIRGIN?
Written by Miss Bliss on October 20, 2007 – 1:32 pm -Hi, Miss Bliss!
I love your page dearly and I feel like I can seek your help.
I am confused. I am not sure if i am bi or just bi-curious. It started when I was a little kid, around 8 or 9. I began having little crushes on female friends. I had a teen bi-encounter with a best friend of mine. I did not go down on her, but we did rub against each other and stuff. Since then, I have been craving sex with a bi-female, but I’m trying to hold back, as I am still a virgin and am saving myself for marriage.
My question is, do you think I’m 100% bisexual or just bi-curious? I am not sure if i want to have a serious relationship with a woman, just sexual, you know? Am I bisexual if I only want a sexual relationship with a woman, but want a serious relationship with a man?
God Bless,
Confused in Asia
Darling Confused Virgin,
In a way, the terms “virgin” and “bi-curious” are very similar. Both words proclaim to the world what you have not yet experienced: (1) sexual intercourse with a man, or (2) sexual exploration with a woman.
BI-CURIOUS
Girls describe themselves as bi-curious to let others know that they are open to being with a woman but have no experience. Being bi-curious also implies that a girl’s sexual fantasies involve women, and that the girl may be ready for her first experience with a female lover — and is seeking it. Naturally, being “curious” also allows the girl an out and a chance to return to her straight life, if she has an unpleasant experience with a woman.
BI OR BI-CURIOUS?
The term bi-curious has always seemed a bit silly to me. Being a bigirl has always meant that I am open to love with another individual despite gender. I have met women who are married to men in monogamous relationships but still identify as bisexual because they have loved women in the past. Some bi women have monogamous relationships with other women. Being bi does not make you a swinger, a group sex addict, or incapable of a healthy monogamous relationship. Bigirls celebrate that love can be found with a man, a woman, or both. Identifying as bisexual is to tell the world that you appreciate the many diverse forms love can take.
VIRGINS
According to the online dictionary, a virgin is:
1. A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.
To make certain that I do not lead you astray, I also looked up the term “sexual intercourse,” which was defined as:
1. Coitus between humans.
Finally, I found coitus which is:
1. Sexual union between a male and a female involving insertion of the penis into the vagina.
In conclusion, your virginity will remain perfectly intact, as long as no man is allowed to enter you vaginally. Feel free to get all the curiosity out of your bi-system, and decide for your lovely self, as we all must, how bi you really are.
xoxoxoxoxoxo
BLISS
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