HOW MANY WAYS CAN YOU CLIMAX?
Written by Miss Bliss on September 27, 2007 – 12:14 pm -On Sunset Boulevard, Claire and I are sitting outside eating pancakes and sharing mimosas. “You know what I don’t get,” she says, “girls that don’t masturbate. And, they always have weird reasons for it, too. A friend of mine wouldn’t touch herself because it was too messy.” Her eyes are bright blue and shining in the Hollywood sun. “I’ve been making myself come since seventh grade.”
“How do women nap if they don’t masturbate,” I ask and she laughs.
“I feel so bad for girls who don’t know how to make themselves come,” she sips her drink then smiles devilishly. “It’s such a shame and it makes it ten times harder for me!”
“It definitely takes longer with a girl that doesn’t masturbate,” I say. “But, on the other hand, when you finally do get the girl there, it is so worth it. She is really ready to return the favor again and again.”
The server interrupts us and we smile at each other delighted by our private conversation. When she leaves, I turn to Claire and say, “The best is when you are with a girl who is as orgasmic as you are, but you and your man make her come in a way she’s never come before.”
“Like making her ejaculate?”
“That’s one way.” And we toast glasses.
HOW MANY KINDS OF ORGASMS HAVE YOU GIVEN?
HOW MANY KINDS OF ORGASMS HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED?
1. THE CLASSIC CLIT ORGASM
Most girls know that the clit is the direct route to orgasm, and luckily, most boys have figured this out, too. Fingers, tongues, lips, and vibrators can all bring a girl into utter bliss, but remember, the more a girl knows how to make herself come, the easier it is for others to bring her there, too. Another bonus to masturbating is the better you know how to please your own anatomy, the easier it is to please another girl’s.
One warning: it is more difficult to make a girl come if she generally masturbates with a vibrator. Sometimes the human finger just cannot do it for a vibrator-girl. If this is the case, help your lover out and ask her to bring her favorite vibrator into bed.
2. THE CLASSIC VAGINAL ORGASM
Some girls describe this orgasm as occurring deep inside, generally after or during intense penetration. For some, after a vaginal orgasm, the intestines and stomach deeply relax in a way that does not occur in the CLASSIC CLIT ORGASM. If you would like to give your lover one of these, I recommend trying a variety of strap-on dildos, experimenting with various shapes and sizes, until you find the one that brings your girl home. Additionally, if your lover is into penetration, you and your male partner may want to take turns with her until she finds that state of bliss.
3. THE FLOOD
Many women still claim that female ejaculation is a myth. This is so far from the truth. Women can ejaculate and can even ejaculate multiple times. Very often, a woman will ejaculate and not realize it until she sees the soaked sheets. How do you help a girl ejaculate? The most effective way I have found for finding a girl’s g-spot (thanks to the brilliant tutoring of my husband) is when she is lying face down in front of me. Using two fingers, I enter her, (my palm facing up) and start to drag my finger tips from the deepest part of her vaginal wall toward the opening… as if my two fingers are saying come here. With my other hand, I reach around and touch her clit. It is easy to know you are on the right track because her vagina starts to open up and becomes very, very wet. This takes practice, but is very worth it when you see the amazed look on a girl’s face after she has flooded your sheets.
4. ANAL
Anal sex can give you a mind-blowing orgasm, even without the clit involved. Some girls feel being penetrated anally leads to some of the most intense orgasms because it takes time and skill to do it right. Ladies, the key to great anal sex is great anal foreplay. If your man or your girl wants to enter you, they should also take the time to lick you, touch you, and open you. Anal sex can be some of the most intense and intimate ways to make love, but take care to do it right. There should not be pain of any kind, and I highly recommend using a lot of a great lubricant, like Wet LIght. If done correctly, this orgasm can practically paralyze a girl.
5. THE BREAST ORGASM
Some girls can reach orgasm by simply having both of their nipples played with at the same time. Some breastfeeding mothers even reach climax during feeding. If you find one of these girls, chances are she has all sorts of erogenous zones that lead to easy orgasm. I suggest you hang on to her.
6. WHATEVER UNIQUE WAY YOU CLIMAX…
Was it a foot massage?
Being spanked?
A long, lingering kiss….?
All of us have unusual ways to orgasm if we are open to play and to finding new ways to love.
TELL ME ABOUT THE GREATEST ORGASM YOU GAVE OR RECEIVED…
DO YOU CLIMAX IN A UNIQUE WAY? TELL ME ABOUT IT.
XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS
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By echo & dustin
on Jan 9, 2008 | Reply
i think the best orgasim i have had thats unique is when my husband uses his lips and massages my backbone as he runs his fingers up and down my back as well with his fingertips where there tickling you…..mind blowing orgasim…..im amazingly transformed into this fascinating goddess with an orgasim across the bed not even he can accomplish…..
i think thats unique
thanks for the blog very helpul in more ways than one
xoxo
echo
By Anonymous
on Jan 9, 2008 | Reply
BLISSGIRLS,
ONE OF MY READERS SENT THIS TO ME AND I ASKED TO REPOST IT ANONYMOUSLY
BECAUSE IT IS SO WELL-WRITTEN AND SUCH A DELIGHT TO READ.
SHE GAVE ME PERMISSION TO REPRINT IT, SO HERE GOES:
Hey Miss Bliss,
It’s good to know that other women expierance female ejaculation. I thought it was a myth orginally and couldn’t even imagine what it looked like until it happened to me. I was masturbating earlier this summer and climaxing harder than I ever did before, and suddenly I was squirting liquid everywhere. I’ve never been caught more off guard. I was so embarrased, and didn’t know what had just happened. I only wish that someone had told me about it so I wouldn’t be so embarrased and cluless the first time it happened. I was afraid to masturbate for the next week. I told my boy about it and seeing his eyes light up the way they did let me know that I had hit on something good. I’m so glad I had him, and now you, to tell me that’s not only is it ok, it’s really quite sexy. I can’t do it often, mostly because it takes so much effort (and so many climaxes on the way there) that I find myself satisified long before it happens.
My favorite orgasams however involve my lips and my back. My boy will do this thing where he kisses my neck and ears and when he comes back to kiss my lips I find my self laughing with delight as every single nerve ending on my face has come alive and is tingleing with pleasure. Every kiss gets more and more intense until I come. I’m not sure why it happens, but I love it anyway. As for my back: the first girl I was ever with would have me lay down while she rubbed my back. The back rub was wonderfully relaxing, but when she was done she would kiss me up and down and it was like my entire body could feel each move her lips made. They were some of the most intense orgasams I’ve ever had.
I hope this message wasn’t to forward or explicit. I’m so glad I found your site on craigslist. You’ve really helped me embrace my sexuality and be proud to be a bigirl. I love all of your amazing insight into so many different topics. If you ever find yourself in the St. Louis area let me know and we can meet for lunch or ice cream or something. I would love to talk to you more and learn as much as I can from you.
–anonymous
By Looking 4U
on Jan 9, 2008 | Reply
I come from a very strict christian household and was not allowed to date until out of high school. I didn’t have my first kiss till I was 20. I was so nervous and didn’t know what to do. My boyfriend that I am currently with helped me in discovering my sexuality. I’ve learned so much from him and my girlfriends. For the longest, however, I was very tense during sex being so unexperienced. My boyfriend is very experienced and when I explained to him how hard it was for me to just let everything go and just focus on feeling good, he started taking more time for foreplay. More and more I opened up and relaxed and before I knew it, I was comfortable enough masturbating (something I had never done before). I had yet to get to that point yet of orgasming, so he recommended that we try the hot tub…the best advice ever!
There is a jet in his hot tub that is on the bottom and shoots upwards. It is not a harsh spraying jet, but a wide one that feels almost as if someone is blowing bubbles up at you. He suggested that I try to use that to give myself a little foreplay. Oh my god! It did so much more than that! It gave me a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm at the same time and quickly! There is a dial in front of you that you can increase the power of the jet. As soon as I experienced this water hot tub orgasm, I have been able to reach that point every time whether I am in bed with him or with a girl. Now, I have introduced my girlfriends to the hot tub and we take turns on the jet. Its amazing. There is nothing in the world like it. And when its too hot here in the summer, I discovered I can use his detatchable showerhead to do the same thing to me. It feels so amazing. I suggest to anyone to try this and discover what it feels like to have a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm at the same time.
By DevilDoll
on Jan 9, 2008 | Reply
Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, and Yes. And ohhhhooooohhhhooohhhmyyyyygodddd!!! Reading this made me wet. Thanks.
By Liz
on Jan 9, 2008 | Reply
Loved this post! :)…
So…I really, really, really want to be able to make myself come using my fingers, but I have never been able to. I can have three orgasms in like three minutes though if I sit down (couch/chair works best) and rub myself up and down on it, squeezing my pc muscles as I push back. Any suggestions on how I could simulate that while masturbating?
By Julie
on Jan 9, 2008 | Reply
the most amazing climaxes i’ve had happened when i was being penetrated hard and caressed gently, lovingly around the vaginal area simultaniously. something about this combination just works for me…i think it may be the feeling that my lover wants to both fuck me and love me softly at the same time. it is so all encompassing (both phyisicaly and mentally) that i lose myself in the bliss…i just give in to pure sensation, no space left for any other thoughts or distractions.
…and i simply melt if my lover looks in my eyes (in joyful amazement) while he/she is making me come.
xoxo
By Fairy Girl
on Mar 6, 2008 | Reply
I pretty sure that I have ejaculated a few times, but usually they are not very much. It’s probably because my man is rather wide, almost too wide. For the longest time he was the only man I had ever been with. But because I have a much higher sex drive than he does, he told me I could have sex with other men and women, as long as I’m careful of course. So one night I’m hanging out with one of guy friends, whom I had been attracted to for a while, and I knew he was attracted to me as well. Before I knew it we were kissing and touching each other. We had some of the most intense sex I had ever had, and by the time we were done, we were both completely soaked with my ejaculate. Unfortunately, I have not experienced anything like it since, not even with the same guy friend. I’m afraid it just might have been the excitement of being with someone new, and the anticipation before hand. However, I did find that after having sex with this friend of mine, it made me even more hot more my man.