Dear Blissful Bigirls,
The question I get the most often from readers around the country and around the globe is: HOW DO YOU MEET BI-GIRLS?
Darling readers,
I will never leave you in the cold…
Here are some tips to meeting the bi-girl of your dreams.
Bliss Tip 1 TELL GIRLS YOU ARE BI
This is the simplest and most direct way of meeting other bi-girls. Often, bi-girls will not reveal they are bisexual because they are in a relationship with a man and being “bi” implies that they are not monogamous. Some bi-girls worry that they will be perceived as sluts that will “fuck anything that moves”. Others may not want to out themselves to a girl because they fear rejection.
Trust me, the more you celebrate how wonderful your life is because you are bi, because you have a partner who loves and respects your sexuality, and because you live a fabulous decadent, brave, and joyful life, the more girls will want to know you and want to be with you. Be a bisexual leader and your bliss will attract other bigirls into your life.
As a sidenote, most of my “straight” friends like to live vicariously through my adventures. I bet your straight girlfriends will love your tales and want to hear more, more, more!
Bliss Tip 2 MAKE A BI-GIRL MYSPACE PAGE
If you have a myspace page and do not list yourself as “bi”, how are other bi-girls supposed to find you and know they are free to flirt madly with you?
I know many bi-girls are not comfortable with their sexuality being public, which is why I recommend making two myspace pages: one for family and public eyes, and one for being your true bi-fabulous self. Take some sexy faceless pictures and have an anonymous profile to let yourself play.
Bliss Tip 3 CRAIGSLIST IS NOT ALWAYS AWFUL
Many readers complain that there are no women on Craigslist, and I have to disagree. Many of my wonderful bifriends I met through CL. Naturally, this did not happen on one night from one posting. It takes time to create the right ad that attracts that other 2 percent of cool girls on CL,and it takes them awhile to find the ad. So, take some time and really think about who you are trying to attract. Write an ad specifically for that girl, down to what she looks like and what music she listens to. Keep placing the ad for a few weeks and I bet you will find her. Trust me, repetition of a great ad is the key to finding your ideal girl and lover.
Bliss Tip 4 GO TO LESBIAN BARS
If you call yourself bi and you have never gone to a lesbian bar or a girl circuit party, I say, drop whatever you are currently doing and go. Bring one of your straight friends and enjoy being a foxy, flirty femme. Many bi-girls don’t know that lesbians enjoy the occasional girl-girl-boy threesome, too! Never write off the lesbians, girls, or you will miss some of the best sex you have ever experienced.
Bliss Tip 5 GO TO GAY BARS
Cool girls are in gay bars.
Need I say more?
Bliss Tip 6 GO TO SWING PARTIES
That’s where the bi-girls are, although many or most are not attractive (sigh.), and they tend to be attached to deal-breaking partners, but if you and your partner are looking for a first experience, this is where group sex will happen. You may not find anyone you are attracted to, but you will have a great story after.
Bliss Tip 7 FLIRT MADLY
Love all girls you run into. Practice flirting even on girls you are not attracted to, because flirting makes all girls, gay, straight & bi, feel good. Plus, with all your practice, you will be ready when a hot girl flirts back.
WHERE DID YOU FIND YOUR BI-GIRL?
WRITE ME AND LET ME KNOW.
XOXOOXXOXOXO
bliss
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What about….
Strip clubs! There are tons of bigirls at strip clubs. Many of the dancers are (although, beware- don’t try too hard to take us home or we may feel you’re looking for a prostitute), but more importantly, many of the customers are out with their men to show off their bigirl side on stage with sexy and many times enhanced women.
Most dancers are also taken, so come out with girl friends, because your man may be a deal breaker. Also, many dancers are intimidated by other estrogen-bearing beings in the club, since many female customers have been known to get catty. Don’t be afraid to approach a stripper yourself! It’s flattering and fun for us when you make the first move- we don’t feel like we’re at work or at risk for being part of a fembrawl.
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loove the advice ehre lady! I’m totally digging you!
cheers!
maria
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